Nice girl spotted :D

**UberSteroids** · 01-22-2009, 08:38 PM

Hey guys,

I work for this medical company and some of my responsibilities include going to the facilities that use our supplies and equipment.

So, last week I went to this one place and I see a nice girl working as a front desk receptionist. It has been about couple times that I went there and I see her every time. She always looks at me and keeps maintaining the eye contact with me and smiles.

All I say is either "Hello" or "Have a nice day".

I am 26 years old, she looks like mid twenties.

I am going to be over there at least once a week, sometimes more. I wonder how should I strike up a little talk. Maybe do it little by little.
What to say at first that would be good and appropriate.

Since we got some smart and experienced guys here, I thought I would ask!

Let me hear it!

**RuhlFreak55** · 01-22-2009, 08:42 PM

*gets popcorn*

**DSM4Life** · 01-22-2009, 09:13 PM

**UberSteroids** · 01-22-2009, 09:39 PM

Well? Haha!

**warchild** · 01-22-2009, 09:58 PM

ask her if she works around here...gets them laughing

**firmechicano831** · 01-22-2009, 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

ask her if she works around here...gets them laughing

LOL, even better ask her you're expecting someone, make up a name and start talking from there.

**Bojangles69** · 01-22-2009, 10:44 PM

Originally Posted by UberSteroids

Hey guys,

I work for this medical company and some of my responsibilities include going to the facilities that use our supplies and equipment.

So, last week I went to this one place and I see a nice girl working as a front desk receptionist. It has been about couple times that I went there and I see her every time. She always looks at me and keeps maintaining the eye contact with me and smiles.

Oh not the "eye contact shes like me" game.
I will tell you this, men who are successful with women, approach a woman within 3 seconds after they FIRST make eye contact.
This is a fact,
what you're doing is counterproductive, and for a girl with half of brains she prob knows you want a piece (girls aren't idiots - shes been getting male attention her whole life, sucks I know)
Girls learn how to group men quick, you're prob already in friends zone and havent even had a conversation with her.

Originally Posted by UberSteroids

All I say is either "Hello" or "Have a nice day".

You're screwed, she most likely pitties you at this point for not breaking the ice (especially if at any point she actually wanted you to)
Say something soon, next time you see her, or build her up in your mind for the next 40 years.
But let me tell you another fact, the LONGER you wait to approach her the LESS of a chance you have of ever actually doing it. This is a researched fact as well.

Originally Posted by UberSteroids

I am 26 years old, she looks like mid twenties.

It was meant to be

Originally Posted by UberSteroids

I am going to be over there at least once a week, sometimes more. I wonder how should I strike up a little talk. Maybe do it little by little.
What to say at first that would be good and appropriate.

Since we got some smart and experienced guys here, I thought I would ask!

Let me hear it!

I would sit her and explain a fool proof process, but I've wasted too much time in the past, and know not one guy prob even used it.
Due to the circumstancial failure of men before you, I will also suspect you will fail, and you have problems with women in general, not just this one girl.

This would require an indepth examination of your whole life, remodeling it based on successful models of interacting (from people who are already successful) and this takes time, patience, and persistencee.

In the unlikely even you manage to muster the courage to open a conversation, and wind up on a date with herr.
I should tell you there is no one in this world more against the idea of that ever happeneing than me. She will staple your balls to her car battery and make you like it.
Thats what your turning the dynamics into.

Fvck her, shes just a woman.
Even when you know that, you still won't realize and feel the fact, because you'll still get nervous, and it will still work in your disfavor.
Successful guys are relentless, persistent, and do the exact opposite of what you're doing.

**RuhlFreak55** · 01-22-2009, 10:48 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Oh not the "eye contact shes like me" game.
I will tell you this, men who are successful with women, approach a woman within 3 seconds after they FIRST make eye contact.

oh damn....no wonder.....i furtively make eye contact and then run away or look away and don't look at them again

**Bojangles69** · 01-22-2009, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

oh damn....no wonder.....i furtively make eye contact and then run away or look away and don't look at them again

Yeh I'm always actually using a lot of what I talk about here to open chicks into conversation (its fun and they love giving their opinion anyway) but women DO that is **DO** know when a man is "hovering", thats the shark like behavoir when you look,
go somewhere else,
come back and look.

And guys don't realize how just fvcking weird this looks (you said you look and don't come back and which isn't really weird at all, if anything they prob have more respect for you and just assume you aren't interested)

But yeh, any guys who hover need to STOP immediately, its WEIRD.
This is what men use to to in our cavemen era to forcefully impregenate a female (rape).
We'd hover, than just go in for the kill and rape them.

Barbaric yes, but I wouldn't be surprised if women are programmed to feel some sort of unatural fear when men do this type of shit.

**critter** · 01-22-2009, 11:34 PM

looks like we have a mystery groupie here

**UberSteroids** · 01-23-2009, 12:23 AM

Very nice posts Bojan... Thanks a lot.

I think you are right with all you said.

I know I am useless as far as breaking the ice and trying to strike up a conversation. It is always like that with girls that I AM interested in! Any other, no problem at all.

Hell, I can just make shit load of money and build muscle all my life... I don't need no women right?

Fvck it... I am fine being single...

pffffffffff

**Bojangles69** · 01-23-2009, 12:33 AM

Originally Posted by UberSteroids

Very nice posts Bojan... Thanks a lot.

I think you are right with all you said.

I know I am useless as far as breaking the ice and trying to strike up a conversation. It is always like that with girls that I AM interested in! Any other, no problem at all.

Hell, I can just make shit load of money and build muscle all my life... I don't need no women right?

Fvck it... I am fine being single...

pffffffffff

Ah you see, once you REALLY ARE fine being single, things will just start to happen.
You can use that discontent to drive you on your own journey of self discovery, or you can wait 5.. 10 years till your numb to females emotions and get into a relationship that works (fvcked up I know)
either way you came into this planet naked, cold, shaking, and alone, and you absolutely need to be comfortable leaving that way.
Its just life bro.
Not trying to be pessimistic but its good for strength.

**Voland** · 01-23-2009, 03:35 AM

i've gotta agree with phsycholonerd here, If you haven't made a move by now, the match is over.
Find another girl and proceed without hesitating, by the time your brain says "i like her" you should be already talking to her, if she says or her facial expression says "i know you want to bang me, bastard" (most likely) just be honest, yes, you're a man and you like woman. So what?

**Bryan2** · 01-23-2009, 04:32 AM

How about who gives a **** and dont listen to anyone here just go talk to her it makes no difference if someone here says you have no chance or if they say you have a guarantee!!!

The best part everyone is saying though is you cant give a shit, and girls do see that

Just stroll up and say you have one question for her.

When she says what

say your not sure why you havent gotten a chance to talk to her yet considering you come in here all of the time

Thats more than enough of an opening, if she has any interest in you then the conversation will move on from there

if she doesnt, Well then who gives a shit its just some random receptionist at some place you have to go to every once and a while.

**Towel** · 01-23-2009, 04:57 AM

Originally Posted by Bryan2

How about who gives a **** and dont listen to anyone here just go talk to her it makes no difference if someone here says you have no chance or if they say you have a guarantee!!!

The best part everyone is saying though is you cant give a shit, and girls do see that

Just stroll up and say you have one question for her.

When she says what

say your not sure why you havent gotten a chance to talk to her yet considering you come in here all of the time

Thats more than enough of an opening, if she has any interest in you then the conversation will move on from there

if she doesnt, Well then who gives a shit its just some random receptionist at some place you have to go to every once and a while.

I totally agree on that. Just do it

**calgarian** · 01-23-2009, 08:29 AM

OK seriously what is wrong with kids these days confusing lust with love and cant talk to girls....God damn. Where is Dukkit When you need him

:

Since he is not here I will give u some advise follow it if you like. Go say hi strik up a conversation by talking about weather. Then in the middle of conversation tell her your name. Keep it light like this conversation is not going anywhere I just needed to talk to you( dont say it make it look like it). Make sure you crack cpl of jokes then give her ur business card. then after you got it ask it back flip it write your PERSONAL CELL # on it and just mention its urr private #. and ask what is she doing on the weekend.

**RuhlFreak55** · 01-23-2009, 08:44 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Yeh I'm always actually using a lot of what I talk about here to open chicks into conversation (its fun and they love giving their opinion anyway) but women DO that is **DO** know when a man is "hovering", thats the shark like behavoir when you look,
go somewhere else,
come back and look.

And guys don't realize how just fvcking weird this looks (you said you look and don't come back and which isn't really weird at all, if anything they prob have more respect for you and just assume you aren't interested)

But yeh, any guys who hover need to STOP immediately, its WEIRD.
This is what men use to to in our cavemen era to forcefully impregenate a female (rape).
We'd hover, than just go in for the kill and rape them.

Barbaric yes, but I wouldn't be surprised if women are programmed to feel some sort of unatural fear when men do this type of shit.

the more you talk the more i realize it's a miracle i ever got laid

**calgarian** · 01-23-2009, 08:50 AM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

the more you talk the more i realize it's a miracle i ever got laid

Arent you in wrong thread?????

**Matt** · 01-23-2009, 09:19 AM

I always find that being honest is the best. If it were me i would just say look, do you take it up the ass, and do you swallow. If she says yes, then problem solved, if she says no then move on. You may think this is abit harsh but believe me it works, it last worked for me in 1982 but i know it will work again any day now....

**calgarian** · 01-23-2009, 09:26 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

I always find that being honest is the best. If it were me i would just say look, do you take it up the ass, and do you swallow. If she says yes, then problem solved, if she says no then move on. You may think this is abit harsh but believe me it works, it last worked for me in 1982 but i know it will work again any day now....

u crack me up

**RuhlFreak55** · 01-23-2009, 09:28 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

Arent you in wrong thread?????

why would i be in the wrong thread?

**Voland** · 01-23-2009, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by MAD MATT

I always find that being honest is the best. If it were me i would just say look, do you take it up the ass, and do you swallow. If she says yes, then problem solved, if she says no then move on. You may think this is abit harsh but believe me it works, it last worked for me in 1982 but i know it will work again any day now....

awesome! you hace access granted to Voland's clubs. The no BS club.

**jimmyinkedup** · 01-23-2009, 10:31 AM

damn and i thought juice increased you self confidence? Are you currently running pct or something? wtf? just talk to her already ...the window of opportunity may already have closed...whats the big f-ing deal? Im convinced of it at this point - too much time in the lounge section may indeed turn you into a total wuss.... Hopefully for your sake she's the type that is ok with the type man that lacks all self confidence (ie : controlling bitch) (good luck on that one) ...Anyway i do wish you all the best...

**Bojangles69** · 01-23-2009, 10:41 AM

lol @ the no bs club, aka the drydick club

**Voland** · 01-23-2009, 01:25 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

lol @ the no bs club, aka the drydick club

awww, jealouse? its ok, bo, its ok d'you want an icecream?

**higherdesire** · 01-23-2009, 04:09 PM

Just hang out in the parking lot in your car. When she comes out pull your ski mask on and knock on the window with ducktape. Gesture for her to come on over with your free hand. Ususally works.

**jimmyinkedup** · 01-23-2009, 04:11 PM

^^^ *lmao*

**Bojangles69** · 01-23-2009, 04:23 PM

Originally Posted by Voland

awww, jealouse? its ok, bo, its ok d'you want an icecream?

Is that french?

jeal u say?

And yes I am, psycholonerds are jealous of anyone in the no bs club.
Are you in the pen 15 club too?

PEN15 club?

PEN1S?

PENIS?

Voland likes PEN15!!!

**DCI** · 01-23-2009, 08:41 PM

Lmao, at this whole thread some quality responses in it. I shall wait for the next installment

**StoneGRMI** · 01-23-2009, 08:46 PM

Just say "Come here often?". Gets them every time!

Seriously, just ask her when her shift if over and if she wants to grab a drink after.

**anabol88** · 01-24-2009, 12:16 AM

Bojan you sound like a pua and your words are golden, but they won't listen, and they will always give her the power.

Mystery method?

**nickbcd** · 01-24-2009, 12:54 AM

just ask her what her name is and if she wants to catch a movie, thats all you really have to say. if shes snobby/rube/obnoxious say something like your missing out and just turn around and walk off (say it like you really mean it).

props to you if you manage to do it, it takes confidence

**Voland** · 01-24-2009, 03:16 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Is that french?

jeal u say?

And yes I am, psycholonerds are jealous of anyone in the no bs club.
Are you in the pen 15 club too?

PEN15 club?

PEN1S?

PENIS?

Voland likes PEN15!!!

oh, penis club! thats VERY mature and takes one advanced sense of humor.
That explains so much, i was blind and now i see...You're truely an alpha male venusian master.

**Bojangles69** · 01-24-2009, 03:46 AM

Originally Posted by Voland

oh, penis club! thats VERY mature and takes one advanced sense of humor.
That explains so much, i was blind and now i see...You're truely an alpha male venusian master.

Why act mature when you're making up words noones ever heard of that sounds like something I'd say when I was 4?

You're obviously trying to pick a fight, you came out saying I agree with "w/etf lame shit you said - psychlonerdle", I threw a pebble at you and now you're coming back throwing out jerk off emoticons calling me imature? Great I don't care, and you're the last person I could give 2 shits about impressing in this world especially by how you acted in this thread before I even knew, cared, or gave a fvck about who you were.

First, I'm not going to waste any mind power I know I don't need on you, I could say "nanny nanny poo poo" and youd go cry to mrs voland so why try to intellectually insult you when you already demonstrated its not needed from the first thing you said "psycho..." whatever.

You came out hostile, like you wanted to battle me cause I had something more common sensical to say than join the "no bs club", I obviously threatened you from the rip and your fragile boy ego cause of your lame attempt to throw out words for a reaction from me, great, now you got one.
Everyone can go back, read, and see I had no idea you even existed in this thread till your snide little "let me hide in the corner and see if I can get a reaction" type shit like little drunk midgets do at the bar.

Its stupid, I'm not in the mood for the shit, and don't tell me to chill.
Go start with someone else who has time to play with you.

And knock the venusian arts master lingo off you sound like a complete fool. Go read the players handbook again or w/e the fvck gay disgrace of literature you've obviously wasted your time on coming out with "alpha male" and w/e else you think you know how to say in sentence w/out looking like a monkey who just learned to use tools for the first time.

**Voland** · 01-24-2009, 06:30 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

Why act mature when you're making up words noones ever heard of that sounds like something I'd say when I was 4?

You're obviously trying to pick a fight, you came out saying I agree with "w/etf lame shit you said - psychlonerdle", I threw a pebble at you and now you're coming back throwing out jerk off emoticons calling me imature? Great I don't care, and you're the last person I could give 2 shits about impressing in this world especially by how you acted in this thread before I even knew, cared, or gave a fvck about who you were.

First, I'm not going to waste any mind power I know I don't need on you, I could say "nanny nanny poo poo" and youd go cry to mrs voland so why try to intellectually insult you when you already demonstrated its not needed from the first thing you said "psycho..." whatever.

You came out hostile, like you wanted to battle me cause I had something more common sensical to say than join the "no bs club", I obviously threatened you from the rip and your fragile boy ego cause of your lame attempt to throw out words for a reaction from me, great, now you got one.
Everyone can go back, read, and see I had no idea you even existed in this thread till your snide little "let me hide in the corner and see if I can get a reaction" type shit like little drunk midgets do at the bar.

Its stupid, I'm not in the mood for the shit, and don't tell me to chill.
Go start with someone else who has time to play with you.

And knock the venusian arts master lingo off you sound like a complete fool. Go read the players handbook again or w/e the fvck gay disgrace of literature you've obviously wasted your time on coming out with "alpha male" and w/e else you think you know how to say in sentence w/out looking like a monkey who just learned to use tools for the first time.

.ok.