Buying house as couple.

**DSM4Life** · 05-05-2009, 05:12 PM

Originally Posted by Gappa

damn DSM you would have to fight my wife to the death for one of my kids..lol
I think you might have to take one for the team and fvuck a chick one time.
You know it was funny, I was talkin to one of my gay friends one time and I asked him "Have you ever tried having sex with a woman?" He said, yeah you stick it in and just do it but it wasn't no fun..
It's quite difficult to adopt too. One of my pastors adopted a child from Russia, he got the little girl fairly quick but it cost him $60k

I have had LTR with plenty of woman. Last one was a 3 year relationship. I guess im not that ummm gay

I told my b/f i'll just bang a chick to get us a baby and of course he said, "hellz no!!"

Not sure if i would do this anyway, i would really rather have a boy. If i had a girl i might be a little disappointed. It would be a lot easier for two men to raise a male.

How f*** up is the adoption thing right ? There are millions of babies out there and they make it VERY difficult but i guess in the end they need to be 100% the people are fit to be a parent. However i heard its very difficult for a gay couple to adopt. Its easier to tell them you are single (and straight) and have one person adopt the child instead of both. F'ed up if you ask me.

**Gappa** · 05-05-2009, 05:53 PM

yeah in the US the red tape is never ending. That's why so many go to Russia or even some Asian countries. Here's real trick DSM. Do not act like you are anxious or impatient. The more they know you want it the more the price goes up. My pastor started out with a quote of 36k and that turned into 60k.
HEY! you both could hit it then you wouldn't have to worry about the jealousy thing. Also you wouldn't have to fight about who conceived it.

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 05:05 AM

Maybe ill just buy one of these

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klmhNSu2ZbY

**Gappa** · 05-06-2009, 07:59 AM

thatz pretty sick bro

**C-MaN** · 05-06-2009, 02:00 PM

WOw... that video was just plain creepy.

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 05:45 PM

lol

Those crazys can marry but us gay people can't ! I love this country.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 05:49 PM

so how big is the house? what kind of loan and interest rate you get?

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 05:50 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

so how big is the house? what kind of loan and interest rate you get?

We have to start looking soon. I believe the last interest rate i was offered was 4.95%. My credit is outstanding.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 05:52 PM

what is outstanding? i just got approved for another loan and mine was 722, is that good?

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

what is outstanding? i just got approved for another loan and mine was 722, is that good?

Mine was higher than that. When i got my car loan a year ago i believe it was 790.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 05:54 PM

well i guess that makes you better than me sir

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 05:55 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

well i guess that makes you better than me sir

My mother always taught me the importance of credit and drilled it in my head to ALWAYS pay more than minimal payments on everything. I also paid off school loans which im sure helped a lot.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 05:58 PM

my parenst taught me the same thing, more of not getting caught in the rat race, so im very good finacially, this will be my 3rd house

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:01 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

my parenst taught me the same thing, more of not getting caught in the rat race, so im very good finacially, this will be my 3rd house

Nice. I am new to all this house stuff.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 06:04 PM

its easy man, i bought my 1st at 19, 2nd at 20, 3rd now im 26. as long as you have good credit and can make the payments, your good. i recommend doing bi-weekly payments on your mortgage

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:06 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

its easy man, i bought my 1st at 19, 2nd at 20, 3rd now im 26. as long as you have good credit and can make the payments, your good. i recommend doing bi-weekly payments on your mortgage

Thats a lot of moving. I hate moving !

Is it just easier to payment bi-weekly or does that option help you out with rates or something ?

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 06:11 PM

it knocks down a 30 yr mortgage 7 or 10 yrs, i cant remember.... moving does suck

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:13 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

it knocks down a 30 yr mortgage 7 or 10 yrs, i cant remember.... moving does suck

I could hardly stand moving into a apt. I couldn't even imagine moving house to house.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 06:15 PM

im young, the new one im buying will be 2100sq ft semi custom santa fe rental

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:16 PM

Mine is 1000000000sq ft with a waterfall , beat that.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 06:19 PM

shit, my house is under water mofo!

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

shit, my house is under water mofo!

My house is above the clouds, never rains in my world !

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 06:22 PM

you must live at the top of a rainbow?

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

you must live at the top of a rainbow?

I do and there are no vacancy's up here buddy so beat it.

**warchild** · 05-06-2009, 06:26 PM

no invite?

**DSM4Life** · 05-06-2009, 06:29 PM

Originally Posted by warchild28

no invite?

fine....Im sure a push over.

**mia12** · 08-08-2011, 06:32 AM

You can actually seek the help of a lawyer for that matter. You may need to sign a document so that if that two of you will go on separate ways later, you have a document to show as proof that you own half of the house.
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