got my girl arrested? is she crazy?

[hero717]

In 5 years from now or less, you will have a mental breakdown... guaranteed.

i think i have already. i think you guys are right im tired of being her lesson in life.

[collar]

sorry to say shes crazy, hense the reason shes crazy in bed.

But in all seriousness its a very unhealthy relationship, you need to move on and have a stable well balanced life and a relationship with someone that is a best friend to you not your enemy..

[Hate Being Small]

LOL runnn

[lovbyts]

Yup, best thing to get as much distance from a crazy b*tch like that as possible. Ones like that only get worse.

I had one. Everytime I talked about breaking up or anything she talked about suicide and other things.

I used reverse psychology and convinced her I was an a$$ and she deserved better so she broke up with me and it was all good.

[Kratos]

we never physically touched eachother. when we fight she usally yells non stop until i get fed up and get loud she acts like she was a dog who pissed on the carpet. i feel like she just wants to act crazy but she really isnt she just wants the reaction. .

eventually the reaction won't be enough
she'll start yellling back and see how that goes
eventually the fights get so loud you get kicked out of your apt building and have to move from too many neighbors complaining.
then when she gets board with that she'll stab you in the leg with a letter opener, or break one of your golf clubs over her knee, spikes your blackberry on the pavement, or breaks your teeth (all happend to my buddy)...it's a process of getting broken down over a couple of years and accepting more and more disfunction. His gf is 90 pounds and you'd never guess she could be so much trouble if you met her. She seems so nice and sweet, came from a nice family that spoiled the crap out of her, has a good paying job...but she's f-ed in the head.
you'll see how it goes, she'll pull you back in time and again
I got out of the crazy girl phase awhile ago, never happier

[LiftedDuramax2007]

Am I the only one that thinks this guy needs a mental evaluation himself?

[lovbyts]

Am I the only one that thinks this guy needs a mental evaluation himself?

Dont judge unless you have been there yourself. It's a lot different when you are living in it. It's not like these things started on the first date and it's ALWAYS easier to see what is happening when you are on the outside looking in and after the fact than it is when you are in the middle of it.

[hero717]

trust me sometimes i look at myself and wonder what the hell am i doing. i always been in control and i never usually make a mistake the second time around. and everytime i let her get away with another one i lose a little respect for myself. i know what i got to do, its just hard to do it. sounds easier than done

[stevey_6t9]

you gota kill the b1tch seriously, 5g of potassium cyanide in her glass and boom!

[Bojangles69]

Haha! "She got tested and said shes fine".
What did she get? a blood test for the bipolar gene? lol

Whether shes bipolar or not, I'd be more concerned about not spending the next 10years in prison because cops listened to someone who should be in a psychward. Think about how dumb you'd feel then.

Or maybe next time you get into a fight she calls the police, punches herself in the face, then says you did it. Theres realistically a lot of ways someone unstable could ruin your life. Let me just ask you this one question.
You're sitting on a beach with a radio, the radio announces an earthquake just occurred 100 miles aways and theres a possibility baby tsunamis are on their way. Are you gonna sit on that beach and test your luck? thinking in the back of your mind you'll deal with it when you can see it clearly with your own eyes, or are you gonna trust someone else and get the fvck off the beach?

Think of this girl as plates in the earth that are slowly moving back and forth, creating stress, and one day is just gonna implode on itself taking everything down around it. You DO NOT want to even have to hope that day won't occur, if there is even the remotest possibility you leave now.

[thegodfather]

Haha! "She got tested and said shes fine".
What did she get? a blood test for the bipolar gene? lol

Whether shes bipolar or not, I'd be more concerned about not spending the next 10years in prison because cops listened to someone who should be in a psychward. Think about how dumb you'd feel then.

Or maybe next time you get into a fight she calls the police, punches herself in the face, then says you did it. Theres realistically a lot of ways someone unstable could ruin your life. Let me just ask you this one question.
You're sitting on a beach with a radio, the radio announces an earthquake just occurred 100 miles aways and theres a possibility baby tsunamis are on their way. Are you gonna sit on that beach and test your luck? thinking in the back of your mind you'll deal with it when you can see it clearly with your own eyes, or are you gonna trust someone else and get the fvck off the beach?

Think of this girl as plates in the earth that are slowly moving back and forth, creating stress, and one day is just gonna implode on itself taking everything down around it. You DO NOT want to even have to hope that day won't occur, if there is even the remotest possibility you leave now.

+1 to what Bojangles said. But in addition, you might also consider getting her threats of blackmail and filing false police reports on tape before splitting from her. The statute of limitations on some of those crimes is up to 2 years, meaning that if somewhere down the road you started seeing someone else and it sent her over the edge, she could claim a previous incident occurred up to 2 years prior, and the DA could prosecute if they decided there was enough evidence, leaving you to sort out the details in court and pay heavily for a lawyer. Before tape recording her check the laws in your state, as some require both parties to be aware of the recording, while many require only one party to be aware(in that case, yourself only). Also, save any threatening e-mails, instant messages, or hand written letters, and store them in a secure location. You are really playing with fire, and many a women have ruined many a guys lives.

[paulzane]

Sorry hero ...... hit her with a big shovel and bury her deep in the woods .... but don't tell us when you do it (make sure it is sooooooooooon)

[sigman roid]

Run as fast as you can and get the **** away from her,seriously with the things you are saying she is a dangerous girl and if you stay with her she will ruin your life.

Remember Sig told you.

[calgarian]

listen here man, im going to give u some info.
my girl was the same way, u are with a bi-polar pyscho.
things will never change, NEVER. the highs are not worth the lows..

one mistake and ur life will be ruined. if she ever acts on the rape thing,u are fvked, even if u beat it.

change ur number, cut off all contact, there are normal people out there, trust me man..

if u need to talk, as i lived this, feel free to pm me brother....

exactly...
she is shit crazy my friend....anytime someone threatens u with a charge that will cripple ur life, cut all contact....

u cannot save her.
i know u want to, but nothing u do will help her get better...

love sucks brother.....

fvk this, stop trying to coach this guy to make it work..

run my friend, leave her behind. she is shit crazy, u will be happy with someone else.
again, u cannot save her, i was in ur place, trust me...

haul ass, dont look back...its like that motley crue song" dont go away mad, just go away"

I agree with Moosey here....She is Bi-polar she is on anti depresent add lithium to it and u r curing bi-polar.....all the symptoms you told so far point out that she is a bi-polar.....here is the issue with them u do 150 things right and one thing wrong they will remember that one thing u did wrong and pester u for the rest of the life....Run as fast as you can believe me moosey knows what he is talking about......no matter what u do she wont be happy.
how many women u r with? there are always squitters u can find then u will forget this sex i guarantee u that...
One quick question is she red head?

[supermanfw]

have u tried shaking her??? jk do not try

[Hoggage_54]

post some pics of her

[J-Dogg]

sounds like she needs help. sadly u cant do that for her.. you can just be her friend.

its gonna take a while for her 2 start acting normal... it might be nver. if you want 2 be part of her life. you really need 2 understand where u guys stand and you cant get upset when she goes a lil nuts. she cant help it... she doesnt see that shes doin sumthing wrong when shes doin it.
ppl are creatures of habit.. so if u guys make this a habit of fightin.. it wont just stop 1 day.

dnt be with sum1 coz u feel bad. if you really love her.. then u need 2 understand that the way she acts wont just change. u cant let the lil shit she does bother you and u need to talk and set boundaries... if thats not wat you want...... walk away

He can't just be her friend! he's dating my ex, I know.

Walk away, don't look back for a LONG time. I understand you want to help, you have feelings for her but you can't save her, you going back justify s her "tactics".

[peachfuzz]

I have not read any of the other responses and just saw this thread but honestly man are you even asking. why would you want to be with someone who your supposed to be able to confide in and trust when they are gonna pull shit like that? that is one dysfunctional relationship if you ask me.

[Bojangles69]

A lot of times people make these threads not because they're looking for answers but because they're looking for motivation.
This is one of those threads.
There is no way in hell he can have a single doubt about her mental health, I think hes just searching for motivation and will power and chances are he'll never leave. If he was actually planning on it he'd be consulting himself for will power, not us.

This thread is more like a "vent for a day then go back to real life" rather then a "I'm strong enough and can do this". And whoever said lithium cures bipolar people has prob never met a true bipolar neurotic in their life.

Bipolars are RARLEY cured with lithium, or librium OR zyprexa. I've known too many. It can help them live more functional lives but for the most part they all do best in a psychward.

[redz]

Sometimes you just have to know when to cut the ties....

I dated a girl who's dad was a cop and threatened to shoot me because she was a crazy bitch this is something that happened as I dumped her over the phone lol.. I know he had a gun at the house, I saw it. Get away from that girl she's crazy! It could only get worse!

[Dctibor]

You should marry this girl and start a family, just so we don't happen to meet up with her.

[Flagg]

Bi-Polar bitches.

**** do I know all about that.

For so long you bend over backwards, trying to move the pillars of heaven itself for them and you **** up once and you get this sort of shit.

No one is perfect, we're only human, and being human is something a Bi-Polar bitch can't deal with.

Get rid of. FAST.

[calgarian]

Bi-Polar bitches.

**** do I know all about that.

For so long you bend over backwards, trying to move the pillars of heaven itself for them and you **** up once and you get this sort of shit.

No one is perfect, we're only human, and being human is something a Bi-Polar bitch cant deal with.

Get rid of. FAST.

i agree with you completely........i said the same thing.......either he takes our advise or will be giving advise after 4 yrs to some kid who has the same question...

[Flagg]

i agree with you completely........i said the same thing.......either he takes our advise or will be giving advise after 4 yrs to some kid who has the same question...

Yeah, its this sort of thing that can really fvck guys up in the head. Depression, resentment of women, feeling unworthy...it's not good!

[calgarian]

Yeah, its this sort of thing that can really fvck guys up in the head. Depression, resentment of women, feeling unworthy...it's not good!

i know cpl with these symptoms thanks to bi-polars

[Mooseman33]

im one.....

[calgarian]

im one.....

i was trying to avoid that...but ok....plz tell me u r not depressed....please

[Flagg]

i know cpl with these symptoms thanks to bi-polars

Me too. And it really, really sucks.

[calgarian]

Me too. And it really, really sucks.

tell me abt it

[Mooseman33]

im always depressed man...i just dont give a fvk anymore....
shit comes and goes brother...

but now she is back in my life, we are back together...should be a real rough ride...
im such a fvking idiot...

what up flagg, havent seen u in a min...

[calgarian]

im always depressed man...i just dont give a fvk anymore....
shit comes and goes brother...

but now she is back in my life, we are back together...should be a real rough ride...
im such a fvking idiot...

what up flagg, havent seen u in a min...

u choose not to listen and we both know whats going to happen i am afraid of the day when its going to happen....

[Flagg]

im always depressed man...i just dont give a fvk anymore....
shit comes and goes brother...

but now she is back in my life, we are back together...should be a real rough ride...
im such a fvking idiot...

what up flagg, havent seen u in a min...

Hey man, im kinda in the same situation as you actually, which isnt going to be good for my sanity truth be told.

I was in Rome last week which was really awesome actually! You know ive really taken a bit of a liking to American women as a result :P

[Vettester]

Dude, listen up ... Run for the hills! My first wife was this way, exactly. Hence, ex-wife. She came at me with a butcher knife, she threw a full dinner plate at me with her parents around ... She woke me up once in the middle of the night rabbit punching me on the back of my head ... Then she calls the cops when I physically restrain her from doing so and tried to convince them that I was abusive or something. Sad thing was that the cops were all over it and ready to bust my ass to high heaven that night, they just couldn't concede that a female could be the instigator of a domestic dispute. Luckily, she saw her college paying meal ticket getting ready to be hauled off, so she told the cops that her story wasn't exactly the truth. Oh yeah, she also took a bottle of sleeping pills and I rushed her to the emergency department. Always wondered how easy my life would have been thereafter if I just simply played the ignorance card and took a nap myself that afternoon.

Like they're saying, these types don't get any better ... It gets worse!

[lovbyts]

u choose not to listen and we both know whats going to happen i am afraid of the day when its going to happen....

It doesnt have to happen though. There are meds that work. The problem is most bi polar people wont admit they have a problem or dont know. Get on the meds, find one that work and NEVER get off. A lot of people stop taking them because they think they are ok; that's when the problems star.

Like I said, my 2nd wife was and threatened suicide when we where married. 4 years after our divorce she succeeded.

[Mooseman33]

u choose not to listen and we both know whats going to happen i am afraid of the day when its going to happen....

when it happens, one round gets loaded in the chamber, and i call this life a wrap....

is what it is brother....we all got to go sometime, i would rather control when..

[Dukkit]

reminds me exactly of an ex of mine

i ended up going to jail cuz of her

lose her and move on bro

not worth it in the end

[Kiki]

I was with a girl like that once. She was ****ed up. On all sorts of hardcore drugs, depressed, fcked up family, flips out randomly, talked about suicide. Just get away from her, girls that are that ****ed up cannot be fixed (i've known many of them).

Sex shouldn't be the reason you're staying with this girl.

She came at me with a butcher knife, she threw a full dinner plate at me with her parents around ... She woke me up once in the middle of the night rabbit punching me on the back of my head

WOW, that's some crazy shit LOL

[hero717]

i guys are all right. This is the second relationship where i was trying really hard for it to work and got shitted on. I def agree girls like this ruin my outlook on women in general. i start to hate them and my next few girlsfriends will prob be treated like absolute trash until i start to ease up maybe 3-4 yrs and want to open my heart again. I started this thread because as i said i am not that old and i usually date younger girls and i dunno weather its just that girls are immature and they act this way and grow out of it for they are just plain crazy. i needed support if i was gonna leaver her, i had a convo with her explained everything to her and she said i know ur a geniuine guy and i F up a lot and i seem to just keep Fing up. i understand things cant be fixed and i said things i shoudl i have never said and i will leave u alone if that will make you happy but i hope one day when i actually get my shit together we bump into eachother again. She told me the people i care about the most i been driving away from me and it all comes down to me having trust issues and she can't believe anyone no matter what they say. And she is so afraid of getting hurt.....i told her we need time apart and i have done the best i can at this relationship and we need to part ways if it was meant to be it will but as of now we are friends and i am gona go out with my friends as a single guy and i hope when we see eachother out its not world war III

[hero717]

I guess it wasnt only the sex, i guess she just did all the things my mom use to do for me, and i liked that. but when things didnt go welll she was too much to handle. i know i loved the girl cause i wouldnt be this depressed if i didnt. even after all the bullshit. Just sux cause when people have it good they never realize it till its gone. i could honestly say this realationship was 50 percent good and 50 percent way to crazy. thanx for all the feedback guys it helped a lot

[Mooseman33]

get ready for world war III my friend...

i wish u nothing but the best, as i am in the same situation....

read my posts above, i gave up and went back with my girl, knowing it will kill me..