Girl at the checkin counter at my gym always makes it awkward

[brad1986]

dude call her again tbrah!! Maybe take a xanex or have a beer first to calm your nervs a lil bit

[TBrah]

dude call her again tbrah!! Maybe take a xanex or have a beer first to calm your nervs a lil bit

should I rly call her? I guess she liked my muscles from what I was told and said she had fun. I don't think I'd be nervous this time cause now I feel like I would be comfortable around her I was able to talk to her and everything fine afterwards. I just don't know if I should just forget about the whole thing she probably thinks I'm weird or think it would be creepy if I called her.

[brad1986]

Dude dont stop persevering until you get laid!! Hit her up and see if your friends and her want to go out and do somthing again. just dont act too eager... im sure if you got a couple drinks(and i mean just a couple) in her and yourself everything would be just fine . Trust me once you accomplish this your self esteem and confidence will skyrocket...but if you dont then its only going to take longer and your self doubts will be stronger

[TBrah]

Dude dont stop persevering until you get laid!! Hit her up and see if your friends and her want to go out and do somthing again. just dont act too eager... im sure if you got a couple drinks(and i mean just a couple) in her and yourself everything would be just fine . Trust me once you accomplish this your self esteem and confidence will skyrocket...but if you dont then its only going to take longer and your self doubts will be stronger

Alcohol is unobtainable I can see if they want to hangout I guess. I sort of got laid so I'm not sure what you mean by the first sentence. Are you sure I should do it? I'll get her number tonight or tomorrow from my friend if you rly think so. Otherwise I can try with the girl that offered to spot me at the gym lol.

[Panzerfaust]

You might as well turn gay because at this rate you're never going to procreate with a woman. *shakes head*

[TBrah]

You might as well turn gay because at this rate you're never going to procreate with a woman. *shakes head*

i stuck it in there a few times lol I just never finished and it kept getting soft if the friends didnt walk in when we where in the shower or I didn't see the blood it probably would have been somewhat ok

[lovbyts]

arent you runnning tren only now? That could cause ed

Dont blame it on the tren . It's just performance jitters. I remember being worried about that the first couple of times but I have never bene let down. She needs to learn how to get things going also. If she had gone down on you I'm sure things would have been different. Call her, go over again and this time ask her to show you her oral skills.

[Shol'va]

Dont blame it on the tren. It's just performance jitters. I remember being worried about that the first couple of times but I have never bene let down. She needs to learn how to get things going also. If she had gone down on you I'm sure things would have been different. Call her, go over again and this time ask her to show you her oral skills.

Yeah I agree it's more than likely performance jitters. You are over thinking it all. If it was a guy guy situation you wouldn't have this problem cause their oral skills are second to none. Ok I'm biased But I'm assuming you are straight so that's out of the question.
Anyways the more you dwell on not being able to perform at the moment the more you make it become a reality. So just try to relax and go with the flow. You'll do fine. You'll find your mojo

[lovbyts]

You cant sit/lay there and expect your dick to do all the work. You need to start kissing, touching, fondling and the little brain will eventually take over.

[Twist]

Tbrah good job for having the courage bro and not running away. If I were you I would call your friend and ask him if it was a prostitute, if its not then I would ask for her number. Once you get a hold of her tell her your deal. Tell her you are not good with girls and you appreciate how nice she was about the whole thing. You can tell her you are new to this and scared, she sounds like the type of girl who will help you overcome that. If not at least you can talk to a girl on the phone for a little. Before you see her next you should order some viagra or cialis. But meet up with her even if you can't get it in time lol. Don't pass that up. You have nothing to lose and she sounds like she understands or doesn't give a ****.
This brings me to my next point: WEAR A CONDOM! No matter what bro. Trust me on this one. You have no idea where she has been.

Also what was the blood about? Can't believe nobody asked about that.

You have nothing to lose!

[TBrah]

well guys I woke up today and now I'm sort of in a dilema. My number one priority is to get as big as possible. In the time span from when my friend picked me up to when I got home I missed 3 meals and it put everything off for the next day. What if I did call her and it became a regular thing and I started missing meals, losing sleep I wouldn't be loyal to my goal. If I'm not having sex I don't need a bottle of cialis or viagra instead I could buy a vial of test. However I don't think I'd get another chance like this not to mention I'm actually going to have the house to myself starting this weekend for like 2 weeks. I guess if she came over here I could still eat when I needed to but she lives kind of far. I need to makeup my mind.

O and Twist that thought was in the back of my head the whole time but I guess she is good friends with my friends gf he showed me her profile on fb. As to the blood she told me that when you don't have sex for a long time the hymen grows back I rly hope that was true.

[Shol'va]

well guys I woke up today and now I'm sort of in a dilema. My number one priority is to get as big as possible. In the time span from when my friend picked me up to when I got home I missed 3 meals and it put everything off for the next day. What if I did call her and it became a regular thing and I started missing meals, losing sleep I wouldn't be loyal to my goal. If I'm not having sex I don't need a bottle of cialis or viagra instead I could buy a vial of test. However I don't think I'd get another chance like this not to mention I'm actually going to have the house to myself starting this weekend for like 2 weeks. I guess if she came over here I could still eat when I needed to but she lives kind of far. I need to makeup my mind.

O and Twist that thought was in the back of my head the whole time but I guess she is good friends with my friends gf he showed me her profile on fb. As to the blood she told me that when you don't have sex for a long time the hymen grows back I rly hope that was true.

Nope not true, but funny though she wishes

[brad1986]

Dude if you care more about being big then getting laid then i am sorry. Whats the point of looking your best and then never doing anything with those looks. In your case id would say **** pct and just stay on cycle all year long since e.d issues mean nothing to you. ... and i was wondering about the whole blood thing too... first thing i thought was STD!!!

[paulzane]

Well I have a diagnosis for you:

You are a HOMOSEXUAL! (with Asperger's)

[paulzane]

well guys I woke up today and now I'm sort of in a dilema. My number one priority is to get as big as possible. In the time span from when my friend picked me up to when I got home I missed 3 meals and it put everything off for the next day. What if I did call her and it became a regular thing and I started missing meals, losing sleep I wouldn't be loyal to my goal. If I'm not having sex I don't need a bottle of cialis or viagra instead I could buy a vial of test. However I don't think I'd get another chance like this not to mention I'm actually going to have the house to myself starting this weekend for like 2 weeks. I guess if she came over here I could still eat when I needed to but she lives kind of far. I need to makeup my mind.

O and Twist that thought was in the back of my head the whole time but I guess she is good friends with my friends gf he showed me her profile on fb. As to the blood she told me that when you don't have sex for a long time the hymen grows back I rly hope that was true.

^^^^^ Ho Ho Ho LMFAO

[calgarian]

I haven't seen her scince I made the thread I don't think she works there anymore. I used to see her almost everyday and I really would have said hi.

Basically I had one of the worst experiences of my life last night. I got a phone call last night from my only friend telling me he had a girl at his house that would have sex with me. I thought maybe he was just trying to be funny and he was just gonna pick me up and be like JK! when we got to his house. I was very wrong. Keep in mind I have never kissed a girl or ever seen one naked in real life.

I walk into his place and his girlfriend and this girl are in the bathtub naked with the door wide open doing who knows what and I was in complete shock like I just poked my head around the door and ran away lol. Basically they get out dry off and him and his girlfriend leave me and the girl in a room together and you can not even imagine how awkward this was. They made me take my clothes off before they left and I was just standing infront of the girl and she was laying on the bed I was not saying anything just trying to figure out wtf was going on. She basically was just like lol u can lay down next to me if you want so i did and we were laying parallel not saying anything. I don't rly remember how but I ended up getting ontop and she kissing her which was also weird because i just had my mouth open i wasnt doing anything.

Now here is the worst part. 20 minutes had gone by and I had not even gotten slightly hard. She thinks maybe a shower will help so we do that and eventually it sort of gets up and I try to put the condom on and it goes limp. Try again same thing. She's like I guess we cant use a condom then. I'm just sitting down thinking what the **** is going on and they walk in on us and completely kills it. They eventually leave and we go back to the bed and we get something going until I see blood everywhere and I get all paranoid and we go back to the shower. Friends walk in on us again and we just went out into the main room of the house and tried again to no avail and we just talked until she went to sleep. I don't even know what to make of all this there have been some times where I am really contemplating a scenario but this just takes the cake.

I promise I am not trolling or anything I literally just got home

Kid...now i know what they mean when they say "you wouldnt know what to do if a woman naked is with you alone".......

[brad1986]

I think a pre requisite for aas usage should be this- must be 25 yo, must have diet in check, must reach natty potential, must be able to get your wiener wet

[TBrah]

I did not just get an std like that please let what she said be true or a period or something

[calgarian]

I think a pre requisite for aas usage should be this- must be 25 yo, must have diet in check, must reach natty potential, must be able to get your wiener wet

u havent met DSM or sholva have you?

[brad1986]

u havent met DSM or sholva have you?

haha i was going to make a smart ass comment about that but i will refrain... as dsm and sholva are good guys But honestly at the age of 18 steroids shouldnt even be on his mind. When i was 18 my main goal was to get laid as much as possible.... and by starting at 18 (or who knows how long hes been using) theres a good chance he has e.d related to gear.... or will in the future

[calgarian]

haha i was going to make a smart ass comment about that but i will refrain... as dsm and sholva are good guys But honestly at the age of 18 steroids shouldnt even be on his mind. When i was 18 my main goal was to get laid as much as possible.... and by starting at 18 (or who knows how long hes been using) theres a good chance he has e.d related to gear.... or will in the future

every body on here (with common sense) will agree with you on this.

[auslifta]

TBRAH-She had her period, thats why she was in the bath, she was just embarresed to tell you(she also couldnt wait for it to be over to fvck you). She might be a virgin too (prob not) and your friend and his girlfriend might have thought it would be a good idea for you to hook up. She wants your cherry! she knows your a virgin, she will understand, ring her again and hook this up. Agree with lovbyts, you just have jitters, lie down and get her to give you a bj and let her get on top, you prob wont last longer than a min goodluck.

Poor form on your mate barging in all the time, you need to be in house with this girl alone. That pressure couldnt have helped. Let it flow next time, let it happen when it happens.

[RaginCajun]

TBRAH-She had her period, thats why she was in the bath, she was just embarresed to tell you(she also couldnt wait for it to be over to fvck you). She might be a virgin too (prob not) and your friend and his girlfriend might have thought it would be a good idea for you to hook up. She wants your cherry! she knows your a virgin, she will understand, ring her again and hook this up. Agree with lovbyts, you just have jitters, lie down and get her to give you a bj and let her get on top, you prob wont last longer than a min goodluck.

Poor form on your mate barging in all the time, you need to be in house with this girl alone. That pressure couldnt have helped. Let it flow next time, let it happen when it happens.

auslifta is right. LMFAO at the bold!

[Twist]

TBRAH-She had her period, thats why she was in the bath, she was just embarresed to tell you(she also couldnt wait for it to be over to fvck you). She might be a virgin too (prob not) and your friend and his girlfriend might have thought it would be a good idea for you to hook up. She wants your cherry! she knows your a virgin, she will understand, ring her again and hook this up. Agree with lovbyts, you just have jitters, lie down and get her to give you a bj and let her get on top, you prob wont last longer than a min goodluck.

Poor form on your mate barging in all the time, you need to be in house with this girl alone. That pressure couldnt have helped. Let it flow next time, let it happen when it happens.

X3 just do it bro. **** getting big and your cycle. I can tell you 100% that if you bang this chick it is much better than getting big as far as your personal progress goes. You need to do this, just make sure you wear a condom.

[PitMaster]

well guys I woke up today and now I'm sort of in a dilema. My number one priority is to get as big as possible. In the time span from when my friend picked me up to when I got home I missed 3 meals and it put everything off for the next day. What if I did call her and it became a regular thing and I started missing meals, losing sleep I wouldn't be loyal to my goal. If I'm not having sex I don't need a bottle of cialis or viagra instead I could buy a vial of test. However I don't think I'd get another chance like this not to mention I'm actually going to have the house to myself starting this weekend for like 2 weeks. I guess if she came over here I could still eat when I needed to but she lives kind of far. I need to makeup my mind.

O and Twist that thought was in the back of my head the whole time but I guess she is good friends with my friends gf he showed me her profile on fb. As to the blood she told me that when you don't have sex for a long time the hymen grows back I rly hope that was true.

Buddy if you don't go after her u might lose her. Women don't always chase. One you pass up is one you don't get. The training will always be in your life, women come and go. Don't miss out on those precioius opportunities...man! Like Twist says get some cialis take it sparingly or some viagra. If there 100 mg bite off a lil bout an hour before u think something will happen. If u get nothing off it bite lil more. Make sure u at least have that date with her though lol. You'll rock her world like a man on Test, then she'll tell all her pretty lil friends how good u was and this will make them curious...get it? Go get that date!

[PitMaster]

I know the guys are saying to get that oral from her. If you don't know or feel comfortable asking then when your alone start out just kissing. kiss her neck and then just kiss everything and work your way down. She'll be so hot and . Do several things at once...u have 2 hands. Use your hands when kissing her this is usually a sign for me if they move my hand away I know it's too soon. She might just take your hand for u and put it south. Get down there and do some anatomy. You'll get a chubby, if not, keep using the hands and side mount her, put your pride and joy near her. She'll be so wound up she'll just grab it and have it for dinner. If you have never had a bj then I think u should definetely please the fvck out of her first...Don't pass it up!

BTW since this sounds like a do or die mission no matter how cute it looks. I would stay away from beyond the taint for now. That can be your next thread. Pay attention to her body language and groans in the different places you explore and before you know it you'll have it licked. : )

[TBrah]

alright I'm going to see if I can get her number. I'll post back when I do for further instructions.


oh and btw, thankyou everyone for your help

[brad1986]

I know the guys are saying to get that oral from her. If you don't know or feel comfortable asking then when your alone start out just kissing. kiss her neck and then just kiss everything and work your way down. She'll be so hot and . Do several things at once...u have 2 hands. Use your hands when kissing her this is usually a sign for me if they move my hand away I know it's too soon. She might just take your hand for u and put it south. Get down there and do some anatomy. You'll get a chubby, if not, keep using the hands and side mount her, put your pride and joy near her. She'll be so wound up she'll just grab it and have it for dinner. If you have never had a bj then I think u should definetely please the fvck out of her first...Don't pass it up!

BTW since this sounds like a do or die mission no matter how cute it looks. I would stay away from beyond the taint for now. That can be your next thread. Pay attention to her body language and groans in the different places you explore and before you know it you'll have it licked. : )

dude!! Thats my style to a t! haha. pimpin aint easy

[lifter65]

lol i was with a girl that had me nervous, but when i went to her apartment she popped in that "make a porno" movie or whatever its called, def set the good man, try it

[TBrah]

well I tried gettin the number but my friend never got back to me. I'll admit I'm disappointed to make things worse I think I tore my pec slightly when I was seeing how much I could bench press. but I was still able to do sets of 8 reps and finished what I had to do so I don't think it was bad hopefully it will be ok next time it's time for chest. I remember when I hurt my back I wanted to die because I couldn't workout.

[lovbyts]

I did not just get an std like that please let what she said be true or a period or something

Period yes/maybe the other story NO fvckn way. LOL Yeah she is a born again virgin. hahahahaha OMG that is such BS but there are a lot of women who like to claim/think they are virgins or will tell you and convince you that you are the first because it's been xxx long since she had sex or it was a mistake so it never really happened. In other words, there is no truth to that. If there was blood it was due to beginning of period or ending. Not many STD's bleed unless she has something BAD but most people would go to the doctor before then and she would have pain.

You are really sounding like you are 15-17, not like anyone who is 18+ even if they have little or no experience.

[PitMaster]

dude!! Thats my style to a t! haha. pimpin aint easy

lol u ain't kiddin

well I tried gettin the number but my friend never got back to me. I'll admit I'm disappointed to make things worse I think I tore my pec slightly when I was seeing how much I could bench press. but I was still able to do sets of 8 reps and finished what I had to do so I don't think it was bad hopefully it will be ok next time it's time for chest. I remember when I hurt my back I wanted to die because I couldn't workout.

call her up play the injured guy,, ripped chest muscle, could use some warms hands to massage u back to health. Massage almost always leads to something else.

[Shol'va]

And if your lucky she will play a game called wrecker with you where she uses her feet and toes you off.

[PitMaster]

And if your lucky she will play a game called wrecker with you where she uses her feet and toes you off.

lmao...an ex let me do that. As soon as they touch it, it's all over.

[TBrah]

Period yes/maybe the other story NO fvckn way. LOL Yeah she is a born again virgin. hahahahaha OMG that is such BS but there are a lot of women who like to claim/think they are virgins or will tell you and convince you that you are the first because it's been xxx long since she had sex or it was a mistake so it never really happened. In other words, there is no truth to that. If there was blood it was due to beginning of period or ending. Not many STD's bleed unless she has something BAD but most people would go to the doctor before then and she would have pain.

You are really sounding like you are 15-17, not like anyone who is 18+ even if they have little or no experience.

and yeah I thought about the blood and sort of figured it out yesterday lol

yo guys thanks for all the help I'm sure I'll be able to apply it in another situation but as to this one I'm just gonna let it go

[brad1986]

lol u ain't kiddin



call her up play the injured guy,, ripped chest muscle, could use some warms hands to massage u back to health. Massage almost always leads to something else.

haha dog we gotta pull some hoes together lol. I like your style.... Just remember "sombodys gotta do it"

[PitMaster]

haha dog we gotta pull some hoes together lol. I like your style.... Just remember "sombodys gotta do it"

Don't mind me, I'm sexually frustrated. Old Lady(13 yrs younger) isn't puttin out. I think she on strike and I'm on TEST! I barely dare to leave the house, so many women, Man! I just try and keep it to a smile and just small conversation and try not to lead on. It's friggin hard.

[PitMaster]

and yeah I thought about the blood and sort of figured it out yesterday lol

yo guys thanks for all the help I'm sure I'll be able to apply it in another situation but as to this one I'm just gonna let it go

1 you pass up is 1 you don't get and then she can't brag to her friends. Haven't you been reading? I tell you this because I have tried to play the nice guy in the past and figured I just be charming and get it on a second or 3rd date. That didn't happen. Women want it just as much as we do. If they puttin themselves out there it's cuz they missing something in life, maybe attention or just plain horny. Up to us to give it to them....so right away would be better than later on...hint, hint.

[Twist]

Why are you letting her go? Find her on facebook. You can talk on facebook, it doesn't make you nervous.

[jasc]

she tried multiple times with u bro.. shes obviously interested or atleast attracted to you. If she wasnt she wouldnt have tried or been willing to keep changing locations and try again. this is your shot, its laid on a platter for you. get that # n call her. the worst that can happen is she blows u off.. then u go for one of the other millions of girls out there. Don't worry about the ED your were basically thrown to the wolves and for your first time everyone gets nervous. next time talk a little before and once you are comfortable knock it out of the park. who knows, people with aspergers usually really excell at certain things, yours could be layin the pipe. let us know how it goes