Been Abcent

**Razor** · 01-28-2012, 11:17 AM

I have been asleep for two days...I dont know what happened.. Im alive, just a little confused. And of coarse the ex never called to see how I was, Im going to get my phone from her that I boughjt since she cant seem to call me from it since I bought it from her.

**gixxerboy1** · 01-28-2012, 11:32 AM

Dude your dragging it on with her. It was only 5 weeks not 5 years. Dont call her to get the phone it was a gift. That is very petty to ask for it back and you look like a piece of shit for it. It was a couple hundred bucks. Let it go.

**JD250** · 01-28-2012, 11:33 AM

Is the phone contract in your name?

**spywizard** · 01-28-2012, 12:23 PM

yea, look at it like this the price of the phone was for the poon...

if you are making the monthly payments... well that just goes to show how off you are....

remember 'cash, grass, or ass, no one rides for free"

**Shol'va** · 01-28-2012, 12:47 PM

He's on the oxycontin express right now and has already lost 2 days...lol Some mighty powerful stuff and hope he isn't on it longer than a week or he will be going to rehab.....

**Razor** · 01-28-2012, 11:07 PM

Ok look Im alive, this is what happened
She wanted her ipod back, so I said I wanted my phone back
She was not going to give up the phone unless I gave the ipod back and so she wanted to keep the phone so wrote me a check for it.
I deposited it today.
Its over with her and I already got a hotter, younger girl thats prettier and has bigger boobs blowing up my phone
And yes I have meds by the doc, no I wont need rehad because I dont have addictive tendencies
I came out on top.
She lost a good guy and $252 and she swallowed my cum daily so I win
Goodnight.
What happens when you mess with Razr's?

**TheClinch** · 01-29-2012, 01:01 AM

Dont buy your new girl a dog bro lol

**SexySweetheart** · 01-29-2012, 01:10 AM

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**Times Roman** · 01-29-2012, 04:05 AM

i don't know sexy.... dumb just seems to find itself, regardless the sex.

if that's all he sees in women, big boobs and swallowing his cum, then that's all he's ever going to get. and not much else.

.....well, maybe lots of drama

**gixxerboy1** · 01-29-2012, 09:59 AM

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

reallllly razr... your dating already and have just exchanged possetions with your X yet?

crist ...and yall guys wounder y chix are so effed up some times...damn this poor girl is walking into a hott mess and is 1. gonna b played for booty or 2. gonna b your outlet for all your unresolved feelings with the X ~ your gonna project all your baggage on to her and not even know it or 3. shes gonna get her heart broke cuz your dopped up and didnt even stop to breath before meeting someone new...shes rebound before a friggan rebound lol... and than her next boyfriend has to deal with the mess you left, sheesh

your x hurt you and played with your head.. you should at the very least give your soul as much time to heal as your body is from surgery guy

he left a 5 week relationship not a 5 year marriage.

**SlimmerMe** · 01-29-2012, 11:07 AM

Contact with her whether good or bad is still contact and keeps the relationship alive. We have all been there done that type of thing more than once. Anything to keep it going with any kind of reason.

And Shova is right in saying your oxycontin is still going strong. This feeling distorts reality. This is human nature wanting to to keep it going in any fashion. Once this gets outta your system you will be thinking rationally again. And sometimes that just doesn't seem so much fun but the alternative is constant drama.

Keep your wits. Get busy with something else. Go get a massage.

**Shol'va** · 01-29-2012, 11:16 AM

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And Shova is right in saying your oxycontin is still going strong. This feeling distorts reality.

Yes I have some friends who were addicted to it and reality was the first to go. Things weren't as they seemed. And you do crap and think things you normally would never think of otherwise. It's spooky stuff and so friggen easy to get hooked on. Seriously.

**SexySweetheart** · 01-29-2012, 11:35 AM

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**Razor** · 01-29-2012, 11:49 AM

Originally Posted by Times Roman

i don't know sexy.... dumb just seems to find itself, regardless the sex.

if that's all he sees in women, big boobs and swallowing his cum, then that's all he's ever going to get. and not much else.

.....well, maybe lots of drama

She was the one who lost it for me, I gave her 100%, I just have to do my own damage control, and if in the same day a girl walks in my life and wants to help me through it and knows the whole situation, more power to her

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

reallllly razr... your dating already and have just exchanged possetions with your X yet?

crist ...and yall guys wounder y chix are so effed up some times...damn this poor girl is walking into a hott mess and is 1. gonna b played for booty or 2. gonna b your outlet for all your unresolved feelings with the X ~ your gonna project all your baggage on to her and not even know it or 3. shes gonna get her heart broke cuz your dopped up and didnt even stop to breath before meeting someone new...shes rebound before a friggan rebound lol... and than her next boyfriend has to deal with the mess you left, sheesh

your x hurt you and played with your head.. you should at the very least give your soul as much time to heal as your body is from surgery guy

Were not dating, jus talking right now. i will meet up with her in few weeks after everything blows over an I am recovered

Originally Posted by TheClinch

Dont buy your new girl a dog bro lol

Not gonna happen

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

he left a 5 week relationship not a 5 year marriage.

You could not be more right

Originally Posted by SlimmerMe

Contact with her whether good or bad is still contact and keeps the relationship alive. We have all been there done that type of thing more than once. Anything to keep it going with any kind of reason.

And Shova is right in saying your oxycontin is still going strong. This feeling distorts reality. This is human nature wanting to to keep it going in any fashion. Once this gets outta your system you will be thinking rationally again. And sometimes that just doesn't seem so much fun but the alternative is constant drama.

Keep your wits. Get busy with something else. Go get a massage.

No point in keeping contact with her when I will always be last place in her life

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

yea gixx, but the poor guy had a few posts in that time about the x and he seems pretty effected by her...
you’ve been married for a while, you know that in some relationships there’s more passion/heat and emotions in the beginning than 5 years out.

*just pointing out that at times the forum gripes about crazy chix ...and yet some of the set ups we girls walk into that make us crazy, could be avoided and this seems like one of them.
but yea find a new girl and use her till you feel better about yourself, and oh, don’t tell her she’s just a bounty call, we love that! lol it builds up our trust in men

and when you fall in love with a girl that has trust issues or insecurity be sure to not take any of her crap and dump her fast..cuz shes crazy … ? lmbo

Look guys I did nothing to this girl. I was the best bf in the world and she was the worst gf in the world, she got what she wanted, her ipod back and I got my money back I spent on her stupid iPhone. It all worked out.

**SlimmerMe** · 01-29-2012, 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by Razr.

No point in keeping contact with her when I will always be last place in her life

Precisely.

As the saying goes: Don't make someone a priority in your life when you are only an option in their life.

**Noles12** · 01-29-2012, 12:13 PM

You know it wasnt your fault so stop beating yourself up over it. You had feelings for her but you barely eve knew her. It lasted a little over a month. Its hard to move on but until you just completely cut her out of your life you wont be happy.

Dont try to flaunt things in front of her. Dont try to contact her for anything. Just give up on it and move on. You will be much happier. It took me a week to realize that after a 4 year relationship. We dont speak now and i am happy.

I know i wasnt to blame so i dont find things to blame. You arent to blame. She was a bitch so drop it. She did this not you

**Razor** · 01-29-2012, 12:23 PM

Originally Posted by Noles12

You know it wasnt your fault so stop beating yourself up over it. You had feelings for her but you barely eve knew her. It lasted a little over a month. Its hard to move on but until you just completely cut her out of your life you wont be happy.

Dont try to flaunt things in front of her. Dont try to contact her for anything. Just give up on it and move on. You will be much happier. It took me a week to realize that after a 4 year relationship. We dont speak now and i am happy.

I know i wasnt to blame so i dont find things to blame. You arent to blame. She was a bitch so drop it. She did this not you

I agree with everything you said, and thank you for re affirming my decisions.

**JD250** · 01-29-2012, 04:57 PM

I think the comments about the new girls boobs and the EX swallowing your cum everyday are the reason you're catching SOME of this flak, I hear a lot frustration in your posts so I take it as just that, blowing off steam, guys do that and we say things that sound kinda crude when it happens , heal up and get the painkillers out of your system before you get involved with someone else.

**Razor** · 01-30-2012, 05:01 AM

Originally Posted by Sexy4mySweetheart

reallllly razr... your dating already and have just exchanged possetions with your X yet?

crist ...and yall guys wounder y chix are so effed up some times...damn this poor girl is walking into a hott mess and is 1. gonna b played for booty or 2. gonna b your outlet for all your unresolved feelings with the X ~ your gonna project all your baggage on to her and not even know it or 3. shes gonna get her heart broke cuz your dopped up and didnt even stop to breath before meeting someone new...shes rebound before a friggan rebound lol... and than her next boyfriend has to deal with the mess you left, sheesh

your x hurt you and played with your head.. you should at the very least give your soul as much time to heal as your body is from surgery guy

Originally Posted by Times Roman

i don't know sexy.... dumb just seems to find itself, regardless the sex.

if that's all he sees in women, big boobs and swallowing his cum, then that's all he's ever going to get. and not much else.

.....well, maybe lots of drama

Im sorry guys if I was brash, its been a rough week. Roman thats not how I view women at all. I just said some things I really didn't mean. There was a lot mixed emotions

**calgarian** · 01-30-2012, 11:42 AM

Originally Posted by Razr.

She was the one who lost it for me, I gave her 100%, I just have to do my own damage control, and if in the same day a girl walks in my life and wants to help me through it and knows the whole situation, more power to her

Were not dating, jus talking right now. i will meet up with her in few weeks after everything blows over an I am recovered

Not gonna happen

You could not be more right

No point in keeping contact with her when I will always be last place in her life

Look guys I did nothing to this girl. I was the best bf in the world and she was the worst gf in the world, she got what she wanted, her ipod back and I got my money back I spent on her stupid iPhone. It all worked out.

There are always 3 sides of story...your side, her side and real story........U r still trying to figure out what went wrong........it just wasnt meant to ne.......thats the start and thats the end.........check ur PM after ur wake up from your fvcking OXY.

**Razor** · 01-30-2012, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

There are always 3 sides of story...your side, her side and real story........U r still trying to figure out what went wrong........it just wasnt meant to ne.......thats the start and thats the end.........check ur PM after ur wake up from your fvcking OXY.

I figured out what was wrong, she told me I did not get her and she has to figure out if Im the right person for her. Thats as simple as it gets I guess. I can respect that and move on. Life is easier waking up this morning being single. I mean if a girl cant call you when you had surgery...what really else is there to say.

**calgarian** · 01-30-2012, 11:48 AM

Originally Posted by Razr.

I figured out what was wrong, she told me I did not get her and she has to figure out if Im the right person for her. Thats as simple as it gets I guess. I can respect that and move on. Life is easier waking up this morning being single.

U r letting her keep a door open......after 2 months of dicking around she will come back and say sorry I made a mistake.........and we will repeat this story again......Make sure u r done..no more contact with her.........Dont let your past hanging around it will always come back and bite u in the ass.....

**Razor** · 01-30-2012, 11:50 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

U r letting her keep a door open......after 2 months of dicking around she will come back and say sorry I made a mistake.........and we will repeat this story again......Make sure u r done..no more contact with her.........Dont let your past hanging around it will always come back and bite u in the ass.....

I dont know if you ESP me this morning or I had an epiphany but I thought the same thing laying in bed. But I think the door is closed when she said "I feel in my heart your not the one for me." Im not going to go crying back or have her crying back ever again, trust me friend, we are on the same page.