What make you be fit?

[auswest]

I have personally found with mine, is to stfu. Worst thing I found was to go on about it to them, just don't even mention it, and start cutting and looking better being as strict as possible with diet, she will see the changes in you and be some what envious and inspired. That's how it seems to be working with mine..
Also when I was "bulking" and wanted to be "huge" she really didn't like me, now that my goals and training have changed to peruse a more male fitness model type body she is much happier and appears to be inspired. You cannot make a woman do something she doesn't want to do, to archive anything in life you have to want it for yourself, she'll come around give her time and support. She's just had a kid bro...don't bring up the issue and go twice as hard to cut. Worked/working for me, my mrs eats great compared to her old diet, and that purely came from watching me and taking it upon herself to follow suit not by me hounding her everyday which I used to do with absolutely no success

[< <Samson> >]

You know, I hope this is the best way to go. STFU is easy enough, way better than stressing.


But, if she stays a aspiring land whale it's not my fault. My axe wife turned into a land whale way before having kids. She never turned back, she is just getting bigger. Last time I seen her, she could eat me alive - Fvcking huge!


I will let her be for sure though. It is completely ones choice to be who they want to be. If we are pressed we don't like it at all.