Thread: should i get a divorce ?
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01-13-2013, 04:08 AM #121
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Wow I can't believe this thread has turned out the way it has.
I agree with^^^ lets just stop the replies as Wer not discussing the original question.
Just goes to show we still have a long way to go before we see peace in the world.
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01-13-2013, 05:45 AM #122
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01-13-2013, 06:19 AM #123
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Trust your instincts..if you want to leave just leave but don't spoil eachothers lives.
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01-13-2013, 07:21 AM #124
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01-13-2013, 07:58 AM #125
Granovich,,,good for you for making things work and stepping up...even if mistakes were made on your part!
Everyone else...the guy believes what he believes...wrong, right ot indifferent, they are his beliefs. Have some respect!
Every conversation does not have to turn into religion or politics! Try to be supportive...I'm sure in his world he is hurting. Just because we can't relate or understand...doesn't mean he isn't hurting!
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01-13-2013, 08:04 AM #126
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01-13-2013, 08:48 AM #127
Im not going to read over every post here cause i believe in this circumstance there is no reason for divorce what so ever.
We live in the 2000 era, not the 1800 by the sounds of it your religion is very strict on what you follow and your belief's and i have no objections to that what so ever, its also prob got alot to do with how you were brought up by your father and mother, what you have to realise is the time your parents lived in are alot different to the way we live now, alot cannot relate to it.
Also Correct me if im wrong, i do have a phew islamic friends, and teachings and there ways are "forgive but never forget?" Unfortunately on this earth NO ONE IS perfect, we are not saints, and all have deep dark skeletons in our closets. For you to break off a marriage over this will not only hurt her but hurt you the most, when you finally sit down and think over what you did, you will come to your senses and realise you know what she may not of been perfect but she was hell dam close to it, and for you to find someone as close as that again is like finding a needle in a hay stack these days.
I had a ex gf and she threw figures at me of how many guys she slept with, yes it mad me a little angry and insecure, but i grew out of it cause at the time she wanted me and i wanted her and she proved this to me time out again and again, yes it didnt work out but when true love is there, the past is the past focus on the present.
Wow now that i have read a phew posts from the last page, things kinda got out of hand =\ ill leave my post at this and will not get involved and opinionate myself on him or his relationship for the sake of things getting more out of hand, what i have said above is all i will finish up by saying.Last edited by boz; 01-13-2013 at 09:11 AM.
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01-13-2013, 09:08 AM #128
Dude, I'm sorry for you situation. Everyone is entitled to their own values and I can understand why u would be angry. I think it took a lot of courage for he to confess to you and shows that she has a conscience and the guilt was bothering her. Another sign she is a good person. Im not understanding of your religion but i know my god teaches forgiveness and that love surpasses all. If you really love her, then forgive her for holding a secret from you. Sounds like you have a good girl who made one bad choice, thus making her human
Good luck
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01-13-2013, 10:18 AM #129
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You are the one who has to live with her not anyone else in this forum.if you make decision according to what people say it's insane. If you have enough values and crap you will know what to do..
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01-13-2013, 10:42 AM #130
Hot damn, I wish I was following this thread last night before I went to bed!!!!
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01-13-2013, 10:47 AM #131
WOW!! I never knew this. I am glad to know this for the next Muslim debate I get into. I know some dumb people that think all Muslims are bad people and trying to kill all us Christians. As for you question on your wife, I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive her and not let it linger. It will prob bother you for a couple days but try not to be a jerk. Im sure she lied to you because of your religion and maybe she didnt understand how you would perceive her in the begining. Unfortunately she couldnt fess up because then she is a lyar. Now you have been married for a bit she feels more secure to let you know these things. Good luck and hope you can get through it.
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01-13-2013, 10:49 AM #132
Also I would be angry in this situation too. Like you said not about the sex but the lie itself.
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01-13-2013, 11:14 AM #133
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01-13-2013, 12:52 PM #134
Sir im calm and all i said is i dont like his tone with me . i didnt show that islam is bad in anyway. i wasnt talking about Islam anyway... my culture isnt close minded ITS THE HOW THE WORLD SHOULD WORK.
not like in USA everyone sleeping with everyone else. AIDS and other diseases, people dont know their parents, cheating and married people have lovers. you wont find this where i come from
so who is better ???
and im not offensive , its strange that you are pointing fingers at me like im the one who is mistaken and telling me " cancel membership"
there is no way that would happen cuz i didnt say 1 bad thing.
90 people replied with great advices. except this guy always in every thread being an asshole...
dont act like im the bad person
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01-13-2013, 12:55 PM #135
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thank you everyone for your supportLast edited by Granovich; 01-13-2013 at 01:24 PM. Reason: because its unecessary , the problem is over
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01-13-2013, 01:03 PM #136
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Last edited by Granovich; 01-13-2013 at 01:21 PM. Reason: EDitted because it got stupid
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01-13-2013, 01:03 PM #137
all i can say is OMG.
This thread really needs to be locked nowIf people can't tell your on steroids then your doing them wrong
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01-13-2013, 01:05 PM #138
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01-13-2013, 01:06 PM #139
Originally Posted by Granovich;633***7
and we have female members here that may have had that many partners in their livesLast edited by gixxerboy1; 01-13-2013 at 01:10 PM.
If people can't tell your on steroids then your doing them wrong
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01-13-2013, 01:17 PM #140
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01-13-2013, 01:20 PM #141
Her life before you, was her life.
If there's a solid relationship (this issue aside) and the future looks good - who cares?
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01-13-2013, 01:22 PM #142
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01-13-2013, 01:26 PM #143
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This thread was nice and giving good advice
until "Lovebyt" started talking bullshit
he went out of the main discussion and said the OP is wrong and he deserve that which would get anyone upset especially in such situation..
Lovebyt if you dont want to help i suggest you leave because you are a joke
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01-13-2013, 01:41 PM #144
With 31 posts I question how well you know Lovebyts and how qualified you are to make that assesment! My experience and I'm guess many others has been just the opposite! I might consider getting to know someone a little better or at least reading some thread history before passing such hasty judgment on a respected member!
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01-13-2013, 01:42 PM #145
You know she should divorce you! Beacuse she deserves a guy who isnt so judgemental.I really feel sorry for her.NO PUN!
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01-13-2013, 01:50 PM #146
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This is quite a thread. Wish I would have checked it out sooner.
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01-13-2013, 01:52 PM #147
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I don't need to read more. Based on this thread i made my judgment , which is all i need. Just because he has been around for a long time doesn't make him more experienced or better or bigger if that matters. You have respect for him because that he has been here for long time, which isn't fair because he is the WRONG this time.
Names don't make you big, it's acts. If Swifto him self acts like an asshole, i will tell him you are an asshole.
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01-13-2013, 01:52 PM #148
Everyone just please stop with this thread its going to get ugly fast
If people can't tell your on steroids then your doing them wrong
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01-13-2013, 01:55 PM #149
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If you open yourself, life, up to the internetz and ask for opinions, be ready to receive them. Good and bad.
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01-13-2013, 01:57 PM #150
why would you say that. you didnt even say one good sentence and now you came saying she should divorce you !?!
on what grounds ?
just because me and lovebyt are talking like that it doesnt mean i treat her this way
i have always treated my wife with respect and love that when others see it they tell her that she is lucky...
i wont act with my wife the same way im talking right now
it was nice for the first 3 pages until some guys came and starting blaming me for things which did upset me because im already hurt. and now people saying she should divorce me
judgmental or not , she is my wife not yours. if it was you in the same situation i promise you would get upset as well
but you cant relate to it because you never been there. or you have no feelings
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01-13-2013, 01:57 PM #151
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01-13-2013, 01:59 PM #153
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