Dating a stripper

**ramacher** · 12-02-2012, 06:04 AM

Just curious to how many members actually dated a stripper? I bounce at a strip club twice a week and there is a girl there that catches my eye whom I have developed a close relationship with, but also evidently has a boyfriend. She is a couple years older than me. I don't think it should matter that much if she has a boyfriend or not because of her profession, but I do want to take her dinner but don't know how to approach it (if i should approach it like im asking a regular girl out).

**ironbeck** · 12-02-2012, 06:08 AM

She is a regular girl, who happens to strip for a living. I think you should find out how seriuos her current relationship is and ask your self. are you just infatuated with her and will lose interest once you guys hook up?

**lovbyts** · 12-02-2012, 06:13 AM

I know several and dated a couple. They are all (99.9%) fvcked up in some way more than most women (sorry dont mean to offend any female members) but all have the same story of only doing it for the $$$, school, part time etc.

I would not date on seriously in any fashion but they are fun for a while until the real crazy comes out then run as fast as you can. lol
Only way I would consider dating one seriously is if she had quit about 5 years previously and was well out of it.

If you are in it just for fun then learn how to play it and let her take you out and pay for everything.

**ramacher** · 12-02-2012, 06:25 AM

Yeah I don't pay for anything except for drinks when I go there off the clock. I will pay for her drink thats it, no $1s, no lap dances or anything.

**Lunk1** · 12-02-2012, 06:33 AM

Originally Posted by ironbeck

She is a regular girl, who happens to strip for a living. I think you should find out how seriuos her current relationship is and ask your self. are you just infatuated with her and will lose interest once you guys hook up?

Welcome back buddy...was going to shoot ya a message and find out how long your Turrets Syndrome episode cost ya lol

Strippers are NOT normal girls...no normal girl could subject themselvesto that lifestyle. Screw strippers=YES Date strippers=NO!

**lovbyts** · 12-02-2012, 06:38 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Yeah I don't pay for anything except for drinks when I go there off the clock. I will pay for her drink thats it, no $1s, no lap dances or anything.

Stop paying for drinks also and let her pay for yours otherwise you are going to be in the FRIEND zone if you arent already

**ramacher** · 12-02-2012, 06:44 AM

Ya I know what ya mean. She has offered to pay for drinks but I wouldn't let her pay for mine. Obviously I am physically attracted to her but I am/still wanting to learn more about her life and personality. Other than she wanting to do blow with me everytime I am in the club, it's been fun!

**ironbeck** · 12-02-2012, 06:59 AM

Trouble

**lovbyts** · 12-02-2012, 07:11 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Ya I know what ya mean. She has offered to pay for drinks but I wouldn't let her pay for mine. Obviously I am physically attracted to her but I am/still wanting to learn more about her life and personality. Other than she wanting to do blow with me everytime I am in the club, it's been fun!

Let her buy you the drink. Your being to much of a nice guy and you will miss out on a lot. I was the same way. I could have banged dozens of strippers but I was always to nice. yeah I got a few but nothing what I could have.

**gixxerboy1** · 12-02-2012, 08:43 AM

ahh someone say strippers.
1st you talk to her like any other girl.
2nd you dont go there when your off the clock. For lots of reasons.
3rd depends on the girl like anything else. Just cause she is a stripper doesnt mean she will cheat.
4th yes there are alot of fvcked up ones. There are some that are normal like any other girl.

**gixxerboy1** · 12-02-2012, 08:44 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Let her buy you the drink. Your being to much of a nice guy and you will miss out on a lot. I was the same way. I could have banged dozens of strippers but I was always to nice. yeah I got a few but nothing what I could have.

i've probably been with more strippers then the average guy has seen. I'm always the nice guy and never missed out. I manage one right now. I'm the nice manager, always act like i give a shit, i could bang so many with a drop of the hat. They all love me.

**DSM4Life** · 12-02-2012, 09:10 AM

If you kiss her and taste penis it's time to break up.

**gixxerboy1** · 12-02-2012, 09:13 AM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

If you kiss her and taste penis it's time to break up.

whats penis taste like? I just asking for the OP

**DSM4Life** · 12-02-2012, 09:13 AM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

whats penis taste like? I just asking for the OP

When you get back from the gym all hot and sweaty lick your arm from the elbow to the wrist.

**HitIt** · 12-02-2012, 09:27 AM

do you really want to be a guy who dates a stripper? may as well date a hooker.

**cherrydrpepper** · 12-02-2012, 09:41 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

I know several and dated a couple. They are all (99.9%) fvcked up in some way more than most women (sorry dont mean to offend any female members) but all have the same story of only doing it for the $$$, school, part time etc.

Yeah, this. Ramacher I dated a stripper for a year. There is this wise Chinese saying - don't be surprised when food spoil when shopping in dented can aisle. Across the board they are the drug addicted, the mental illness people and the sexually abused. They are like really beautiful homeless people lol. The one I dated OD'd. Worst experience of my life. I continue to be tortured by thoughts of going to hell in the next life for not preventing it and being a part of it. I guess one question I would ask you is how do you see yourself? The more normal you see yourself the worse a match you would be for a stripper. If you see yourself as out there (kind of rare someone out there can see themselves this way, usually think they are perfectly normal) then you would be a better match. To pick an example if you have neck tats and schizo and are dealing you are perfect for one. If you are in college and want a house and family some day you are not. Just my opinion from everything I've seen. The last time I was in a strip club one girl put her nips to my lips and another reached into my jeans and grabbed my sausage. It takes a certain level of f'd up to be the yin to the yang of such a girl.

**MickeyKnox** · 12-02-2012, 11:48 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Just curious to how many members actually dated a stripper? I bounce at a strip club twice a week and there is a girl there that catches my eye whom I have developed a close relationship with, but also evidently has a boyfriend. She is a couple years older than me. I don't think it should matter that much if she has a boyfriend or not because of her profession, but I do want to take her dinner but don't know how to approach it (if i should approach it like im asking a regular girl out).

I believe Gixx or Austinite would be the resident experts on this subject.

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

When you get back from the gym all hot and sweaty lick your arm from the elbow to the wrist.

If a dude follows this advice, does that make him gay? (I didn't check this, and nor will i..ever.)

Originally Posted by ironbeck

She is a regular girl, who happens to strip for a living. I think you should find out how seriuos her current relationship is and ask your self. are you just infatuated with her and will lose interest once you guys hook up?

Welcome back Beck.

You reminded me of a guy i know in my hometown who we appropriately nicknamed, "Angry Dave." He blows up once in awhile out of the blue. lol

**Lunk1** · 12-02-2012, 12:49 PM

Originally Posted by MickeyKnox

I believe Gixx or Austinite would be the resident experts on this subject.

If a dude follows this advice, does that make him gay? (I didn't check this, and nor will i..ever.)

Welcome back Beck.

You reminded me of a guy i know in my hometown who we appropriately nicknamed, "Angry Dave." He blows up once in awhile out of the blue. lol

If I was Ironbeck I would have protested the suspension citing Turrets Syndrome lol

**ironbeck** · 12-02-2012, 12:57 PM

Tks guys, good to be back.

**MickeyKnox** · 12-02-2012, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by Lunk1

If I was Ironbeck I would have protested the suspension citing Turrets Syndrome lol

Hahahaha..i wouldnt have hurt i guess..lol

**jasc** · 12-02-2012, 01:20 PM

Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper

There is this wise Chinese saying - don't be surprised when food spoil when shopping in dented can aisle.

They are like really beautiful homeless people lol.

Priceless CDP.. almost spit out my coffee

I'm stealin these

**MuscleInk** · 12-02-2012, 01:55 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

ahh someone say strippers.
1st you talk to her like any other girl.
2nd you dont go there when your off the clock. For lots of reasons.
3rd depends on the girl like anything else. Just cause she is a stripper doesnt mean she will cheat.
4th yes there are alot of fvcked up ones. There are some that are normal like any other girl.

I dated 3. Follow the above tips from Gixx. He's my SC mentor.

**Vettester** · 12-02-2012, 02:37 PM

OP, I'm subscribed. Keep us posted with the good and the bad of it. Hopefully you got a 'good' one and the relationship is successful!

**ramacher** · 12-02-2012, 03:00 PM

She doesn't have any tattoos thank god. She went back to stripping because she was engaged for 5 years and it didn't work out for whatever reason. She has a boyfriend evidently (she hasn't mentioned it to me yet, but I know her best friend and she told me) but isn't too sure about him either. I am going to play it out and see what happens maybe take her to a blazer game and dinner.

**Times Roman** · 12-02-2012, 03:25 PM

i don't give a damn how good she looks, if she's in the spotlight in front of a ton of men taking her clothes off every night, then I have no interest in her. Once is enough for me....

**austinite** · 12-02-2012, 04:34 PM

Having the time of my life

**wmaousley** · 12-03-2012, 12:23 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

I know several and dated a couple. They are all (99.9%) fvcked up in some way more than most women (sorry dont mean to offend any female members) but all have the same story of only doing it for the $$$, school, part time etc.

Agreed, I dated a stripper after I came home from Iraq for a couple months. I have never met one that didnt have issues/baggage, except some of the girls in the high end gentelmens clubs. Your average stripper will have loads of mental demon's trying to escape, ranging from being malested as a child to drug addiction.

The chick I was dating got serious and wanted to meet my parents. I went on a vacation that has lasted over 6 years, end of story.

**lovbyts** · 12-03-2012, 12:25 AM

Originally Posted by wmaousley

Agreed, I dated a stripper after I came home from Iraq for a couple months. I have never met one that didnt have issues/baggage, except some of the girls in the high end gentelmens clubs. Your average stripper will have loads of mental demon's trying to escape, ranging from being malested (molested) as a child to drug addiction.

The chick I was dating got serious and wanted to meet my parents. I went on a vacation that has lasted over 6 years, end of story.

One positive (if you can call it that) thing about girls like that is typically they are a lot more sexually active and crazy in bed.

**ramacher** · 12-03-2012, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

One positive (if you can call it that) thing about girls like that is typically they are a lot more sexually active and crazy in bed.

Ya no kidding, well I sure hope so

**Shsm** · 12-03-2012, 06:21 PM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Ya no kidding, well I sure hope so

Did you ever score the girl in your avatar?

**ramacher** · 12-03-2012, 07:47 PM

Originally Posted by Shsm

Did you ever score the girl in your avatar?

Hahahaha no we're just friends at the moment!

**wmaousley** · 12-04-2012, 02:04 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

One positive (if you can call it that) thing about girls like that is typically they are a lot more sexually active and crazy in bed.

I would say yes to that. But the one thing i came to learn about strippers is they dont have that loving/emotional feeling for sex like average girls have, meaning your average girl will want to cuddle and a stripper will get off you when she is done regardless if you are finished and go shower. Its all in a days work i guess, NSA sex is the best.

**human project** · 12-04-2012, 03:57 AM

Originally Posted by ramacher

Just curious to how many members actually dated a stripper? I bounce at a strip club twice a week and there is a girl there that catches my eye whom I have developed a close relationship with, but also evidently has a boyfriend. She is a couple years older than me. I don't think it should matter that much if she has a boyfriend or not because of her profession, but I do want to take her dinner but don't know how to approach it (if i should approach it like im asking a regular girl out).

I don't take my baby momas on dates let alone take a striper on one. I have poked a shit ton of em tho

**diesel101** · 12-04-2012, 07:29 AM

99.9% of them are all bat S**t crazy and no matter how hard you try you cant F**K the crazy out of them!

**Far from massive** · 12-04-2012, 08:38 AM

Fvkd a few when I was younger, back then I was cold as stone and treated them as such. All of them were trajic. If you wanna hit and run lots of them are fun in the sack but sadly unless you treat them like shit and maintain a superior attitude you will generally just be another customer tipping.

**gixxerboy1** · 12-04-2012, 01:07 PM

Man u guys dont know how to pick them. I have been probably 10x as many and had 100x's less issues. But rhere was a difference of ones i would date and obes bang.
If i were single there are plenty of girls i work with that i would date. But there are some i wouldnt if u payed me cause they are nuts.

**Shol'va** · 12-04-2012, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Man u guys dont know how to pick them. I have been probably 10x as many and had 100x's less issues. But rhere was a difference of ones i would date and obes bang.
If i were single there are plenty of girls i work with that i would date. But there are some i wouldnt if u payed me cause they are nuts.

Never dated one, but then he lives in west palm beach...

**Sfla80** · 12-04-2012, 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

Man u guys dont know how to pick them. I have been probably 10x as many and had 100x's less issues. But rhere was a difference of ones i would date and obes bang.
If i were single there are plenty of girls i work with that i would date. But there are some i wouldnt if u payed me cause they are nuts.

Been to a few clubs in wpb and i would say the majority are crazy. And dated a few from the area. But I already k ow I don't know how to pick them lol. Always pick the crazy ones

**Shol'va** · 12-04-2012, 01:23 PM

Originally Posted by goode80

Been to a few clubs in wpb and i would say the majority are crazy. And dated a few from the area. But I already k ow I don't know how to pick them lol. Always pick the crazy ones

That's usually because they are the ones most ready to go home with you at first sight, and they look good to boot. So at the time you think it's a win win, but later find out you lost big time and hopefully don't have to chew off your right arm to get away from her right after you score when she starts talking marriage....

**gearbox** · 12-04-2012, 02:20 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

That's usually because they are the ones most ready to go home with you at first sight, and they look good to boot. So at the time you think it's a win win, but later find out you lost big time and hopefully don't have to chew off your right arm to get away from her right after you score when she starts talking marriage....

It's just like everything else in life. If it seems too good to be true then it probably is!