She actually did it........

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 02:45 PM

So I knew my married gf was going to be ending her marriage this coming week but still it was words not actions at that point so I was still skeptical. She arrived in Barbados yesterday for her husbands yearly family vacation with all of his brothers and sisters and their spouses as well as his parents. So last night in front of everyone including his parents she dropped the bomb. Told him it was over and that she could never be happy with him. Wow this girl had it all financially...... I guess i thought this was all happening but now that it has I`m a bit shocked. I`m not even finished my divorce yet and looks like I have a new wife lol. I love this life! The secret is real!

**diesel101** · 03-10-2013, 02:47 PM

Damm in front of the whole family, that is cold!

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 02:49 PM

Damm in front of the whole family, that is cold!

Funny thing was she was so afraid of crushing him yet in the end that seemed like the worst way. She was having so much trouble finding a way to tell him that she probably just let it out almost un-planned.

**austinite** · 03-10-2013, 02:52 PM

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

**Papa Smurf** · 03-10-2013, 03:35 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

Hate to say bro............but Austinite just nailed. It gets easier for them to cheat.

Hope Im wrong. but it would be very hard for me to trust someome that did that

**boz** · 03-10-2013, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by austinite

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

Wise words good man

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 02:52 PM

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

Doubftul, she admits she married him for money.

**austinite** · 03-10-2013, 03:03 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Doubftul, she admits she married him for money.

Well, at least you know...

good luck brother.

**Remington** · 03-10-2013, 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Doubftul, she admits she married him for money.

Your an idiot.

**austinite** · 03-10-2013, 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by Remington

Your an idiot.

That was not necessary. And it's you're, not your.

**songdog** · 03-10-2013, 11:26 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Doubftul, she admits she married him for money.

Famous last words! Once a cheater always a cheater.You got a lot to learn Karmas a B!TCH remember that!

**Perseverance1** · 03-11-2013, 12:07 AM

Originally Posted by songdog

Famous last words! Once a cheater always a cheater.You got a lot to learn Karmas a B!TCH remember that!

Are you saying that redz will always be a cheater?

Redz, is that accurate?

**warmouth** · 03-10-2013, 02:52 PM

Lets just hope this doesn't become a habit for her

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 02:53 PM

Lets just hope this doesn't become a habit for her

I doubt that would make much sense considering she will be bringing substantially more to the table than me.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-10-2013, 03:06 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I doubt that would make much sense considering she will be bringing substantially more to the table than me.

Shell have her pick of the litter

**MickeyKnox** · 03-10-2013, 02:57 PM

I wish you all the best in your new life Redz.

I just hope you don't end up like her husband in Barbados, 'cause if you do, Austin will be the first to say, 'i told ya so.'

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:00 PM

I wish you all the best in your new life Redz.

I just hope you don't end up like her husband in Barbados, 'cause if you do, Austin will be the first to say, 'i told ya so.'

The difference there is I would be substantially more wealthy coming out of it not the other way around.

**MickeyKnox** · 03-10-2013, 03:03 PM

Originally Posted by redz

The difference there is I would be substantially more wealthy coming out of it not the other way around.

But, if you both invested into a business it would really suck to lose half, and you're wife to boot. Im sure everything will be fine though.

**EyE** · 03-10-2013, 03:02 PM

avoid getting a pre-nup.......

**--->>405<<---** · 03-10-2013, 03:09 PM

Originally Posted by redz

So I knew my married gf was going to be ending her marriage this coming week but still it was words not actions at that point so I was still skeptical. She arrived in Barbados yesterday for her husbands yearly family vacation with all of his brothers and sisters and their spouses as well as his parents. So last night in front of everyone including his parents she dropped the bomb. Told him it was over and that she could never be happy with him. Wow this girl had it all financially...... I guess i thought this was all happening but now that it has I`m a bit shocked. I`m not even finished my divorce yet and looks like I have a new wife lol. I love this life! The secret is real!

agree with austin on this. think about it like this dude: u reap what u sow. ur married and shes married. u think yall both can end ur marriages after having adulterous affairs and ur lives together are gonna be peaches and cream??

im also surprised ur so happy to get married this quickly when ur still married!?!?? doesnt sound healthy at all..

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:12 PM

agree with austin on this. think about it like this dude: u reap what u sow. ur married and shes married. u think yall both can end ur marriages after having adulterous affairs and ur lives together are gonna be peaches and cream??

I think it will be hard work running a business but I know what we have and I trust in it. Like I said I really have nothing to lose here.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-10-2013, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I think it will be hard work running a business but I know what we have and I trust in it. Like I said I really have nothing to lose here.

It's hard to say what to do.., yeah could it be an odd situation and you two are perfect and soul mates sure yet at the same time could it end up a mess and you get hurt yeah sure...

when you fall down you get back up ... If you're willing to take the risk do it just know that it could go either way and you hope fore the best prep for the worst

**--->>405<<---** · 03-10-2013, 03:18 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I think it will be hard work running a business but I know what we have and I trust in it. Like I said I really have nothing to lose here.

BTW not trying to beat u down, just giving u what i perceive reality to be.. i wish u the best!

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-10-2013, 03:21 PM

Originally Posted by --->>405<<---

BTW not trying to beat u down, just giving u what i perceive reality to be.. i wish u the best!

405 not everyone thinks in logical terms... Some people think with their heart.... Reality to them is a gut feeling.., no rhyme or rhythm

**--->>405<<---** · 03-10-2013, 03:34 PM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

405 not everyone thinks in logical terms... Some people think with their heart.... Reality to them is a gut feeling.., no rhyme or rhythm

yeh thats what they tell me

**MickeyKnox** · 03-10-2013, 03:36 PM

Originally Posted by ElectraMaddox

405 not everyone thinks in logical terms... Some people think with their heart.... Reality to them is a gut feeling.., no rhyme or rhythm

405 is like Spock.

**--->>405<<---** · 03-10-2013, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by MickeyKnox

405 is like Spock.

Hmmm.. Boy would my wife agree with u! Im trying to work on it!

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:19 PM

BTW not trying to beat u down, just giving u what i perceive reality to be.. i wish u the best!

I hear ya, this is a less than ideal way to start things but what we have is amazing. To make it even stranger we met at a funeral.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-10-2013, 03:23 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I hear ya, this is a less than ideal way to start things but what we have is amazing. To make it even stranger we met at a funeral.

Ok now I laughed... Not superstitious but come on ...
... Stranger things have happened

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:25 PM

That's one funeral I`m betting her husband wishes he had bothered to go to it was her cousin. Another weird connection here is the cousin that died is my brothers gf's little sister.

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-10-2013, 03:26 PM

Originally Posted by redz

That's one funeral I`m betting her husband wishes he had bothered to go to it was her cousin. Another weird connection here is the cousin that died is my brothers gf's little sister.

Awe so sad

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:29 PM

Awe so sad

It was brutal..... 16 year old girl waiting out front of her bf's house to get picked up by her mom. She got ran over by a full size pick up truck in front of 20 people on the lawn. The guy drove off.

**MickeyKnox** · 03-10-2013, 03:35 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I hear ya, this is a less than ideal way to start things but what we have is amazing. To make it even stranger we met at a funeral.

Did you have a wing man like the Wedding Crashers?

Btw, that story about the 16 year old girl is horrible! Did they catch the douche bag?? I sure hope so!

**ElectraMaddox** · 03-10-2013, 05:47 PM

Originally Posted by redz

It was brutal..... 16 year old girl waiting out front of her bf's house to get picked up by her mom. She got ran over by a full size pick up truck in front of 20 people on the lawn. The guy drove off.

Omg that is sooo sad... Did they catch him?

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:37 PM

Hate to say bro............but Austinite just nailed. It gets easier for them to cheat.

Hope Im wrong. but it would be very hard for me to trust someome that did that

She never cheated..... he stupidly wanted to have an open marriage which badly backfired immediately.

**Papa Smurf** · 03-10-2013, 03:43 PM

Originally Posted by redz

She never cheated..... he stupidly wanted to have an open marriage which badly backfired immediately.

Ok............so if they have an "open marriage" and she was secure money wise..........why leave?

By no means tryin ta flame your lady bro...........Im happy for you.................... But help me understand, This ladies husband, knew she had a lover?

**redz** · 03-10-2013, 03:46 PM

Ok............so if they have an "open marriage" and she was secure money wise..........why leave?

Because she wants to be loved and adored.

**Papa Smurf** · 03-10-2013, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Because she wants to be loved and adored.

I happy for you both bro!!! Hope it all worksout for you two

**>Good Luck<** · 03-10-2013, 03:58 PM

Redz I'm on your side bro. I don't think our friends understand what it's like to be with someone who makes you feel small and unimportant, and then to meet someone who makes you feel special again. My relationship started by my wife cheating on her partner and our relationship is stronger for it. I understood that she was not happy and it was his fault for not giving her the time of day. Just always remember what makes you different from him and dont dwell on the past- because it may interrupt your future. Just seems like you two are simply a better match and I have faith that you both know what you're doing.

Good luck