She actually did it........

[redz]

So I knew my married gf was going to be ending her marriage this coming week but still it was words not actions at that point so I was still skeptical. She arrived in Barbados yesterday for her husbands yearly family vacation with all of his brothers and sisters and their spouses as well as his parents. So last night in front of everyone including his parents she dropped the bomb. Told him it was over and that she could never be happy with him. Wow this girl had it all financially...... I guess i thought this was all happening but now that it has I`m a bit shocked. I`m not even finished my divorce yet and looks like I have a new wife lol. I love this life! The secret is real!

[diesel101]

Damm in front of the whole family, that is cold!

[redz]

Damm in front of the whole family, that is cold!

Funny thing was she was so afraid of crushing him yet in the end that seemed like the worst way. She was having so much trouble finding a way to tell him that she probably just let it out almost un-planned.

[austinite]

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

[redz]

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

Doubftul, she admits she married him for money.

[warmouth]

Lets just hope this doesn't become a habit for her

[redz]

Lets just hope this doesn't become a habit for her

I doubt that would make much sense considering she will be bringing substantially more to the table than me.

[MickeyKnox]

I wish you all the best in your new life Redz.

I just hope you don't end up like her husband in Barbados, 'cause if you do, Austin will be the first to say, 'i told ya so.'

[redz]

I wish you all the best in your new life Redz.

I just hope you don't end up like her husband in Barbados, 'cause if you do, Austin will be the first to say, 'i told ya so.'

The difference there is I would be substantially more wealthy coming out of it not the other way around.

[EyE]

avoid getting a pre-nup.......

[MickeyKnox]

The difference there is I would be substantially more wealthy coming out of it not the other way around.

But, if you both invested into a business it would really suck to lose half, and you're wife to boot. Im sure everything will be fine though.

[austinite]

Doubftul, she admits she married him for money.

Well, at least you know...

good luck brother.

[ElectraMaddox]

I doubt that would make much sense considering she will be bringing substantially more to the table than me.

Shell have her pick of the litter

[--->>405<<---]

So I knew my married gf was going to be ending her marriage this coming week but still it was words not actions at that point so I was still skeptical. She arrived in Barbados yesterday for her husbands yearly family vacation with all of his brothers and sisters and their spouses as well as his parents. So last night in front of everyone including his parents she dropped the bomb. Told him it was over and that she could never be happy with him. Wow this girl had it all financially...... I guess i thought this was all happening but now that it has I`m a bit shocked. I`m not even finished my divorce yet and looks like I have a new wife lol. I love this life! The secret is real!

agree with austin on this. think about it like this dude: u reap what u sow. ur married and shes married. u think yall both can end ur marriages after having adulterous affairs and ur lives together are gonna be peaches and cream??

im also surprised ur so happy to get married this quickly when ur still married!?!?? doesnt sound healthy at all..

[redz]

agree with austin on this. think about it like this dude: u reap what u sow. ur married and shes married. u think yall both can end ur marriages after having adulterous affairs and ur lives together are gonna be peaches and cream??

I think it will be hard work running a business but I know what we have and I trust in it. Like I said I really have nothing to lose here.

[ElectraMaddox]

I think it will be hard work running a business but I know what we have and I trust in it. Like I said I really have nothing to lose here.

It's hard to say what to do.., yeah could it be an odd situation and you two are perfect and soul mates sure yet at the same time could it end up a mess and you get hurt yeah sure...

when you fall down you get back up ... If you're willing to take the risk do it just know that it could go either way and you hope fore the best prep for the worst

[--->>405<<---]

I think it will be hard work running a business but I know what we have and I trust in it. Like I said I really have nothing to lose here.

BTW not trying to beat u down, just giving u what i perceive reality to be.. i wish u the best!

[redz]

BTW not trying to beat u down, just giving u what i perceive reality to be.. i wish u the best!

I hear ya, this is a less than ideal way to start things but what we have is amazing. To make it even stranger we met at a funeral.

[ElectraMaddox]

BTW not trying to beat u down, just giving u what i perceive reality to be.. i wish u the best!

405 not everyone thinks in logical terms... Some people think with their heart.... Reality to them is a gut feeling.., no rhyme or rhythm

[ElectraMaddox]

I hear ya, this is a less than ideal way to start things but what we have is amazing. To make it even stranger we met at a funeral.

Ok now I laughed... Not superstitious but come on ...
... Stranger things have happened

[redz]

That's one funeral I`m betting her husband wishes he had bothered to go to it was her cousin. Another weird connection here is the cousin that died is my brothers gf's little sister.

[ElectraMaddox]

That's one funeral I`m betting her husband wishes he had bothered to go to it was her cousin. Another weird connection here is the cousin that died is my brothers gf's little sister.

Awe so sad

[redz]

Awe so sad

It was brutal..... 16 year old girl waiting out front of her bf's house to get picked up by her mom. She got ran over by a full size pick up truck in front of 20 people on the lawn. The guy drove off.

[--->>405<<---]

405 not everyone thinks in logical terms... Some people think with their heart.... Reality to them is a gut feeling.., no rhyme or rhythm

yeh thats what they tell me

[MickeyKnox]

I hear ya, this is a less than ideal way to start things but what we have is amazing. To make it even stranger we met at a funeral.

Did you have a wing man like the Wedding Crashers?

Btw, that story about the 16 year old girl is horrible! Did they catch the douche bag?? I sure hope so!

[Papa Smurf]

She'll do it to you too. Be careful.

Hate to say bro............but Austinite just nailed. It gets easier for them to cheat.

Hope Im wrong. but it would be very hard for me to trust someome that did that

[MickeyKnox]

405 not everyone thinks in logical terms... Some people think with their heart.... Reality to them is a gut feeling.., no rhyme or rhythm

405 is like Spock.

[redz]

Hate to say bro............but Austinite just nailed. It gets easier for them to cheat.

Hope Im wrong. but it would be very hard for me to trust someome that did that

She never cheated..... he stupidly wanted to have an open marriage which badly backfired immediately.

[Papa Smurf]

She never cheated..... he stupidly wanted to have an open marriage which badly backfired immediately.

Ok............so if they have an "open marriage" and she was secure money wise..........why leave?

By no means tryin ta flame your lady bro...........Im happy for you.................... But help me understand, This ladies husband, knew she had a lover?

[redz]

Ok............so if they have an "open marriage" and she was secure money wise..........why leave?

Because she wants to be loved and adored.

[>Good Luck<]

Redz I'm on your side bro. I don't think our friends understand what it's like to be with someone who makes you feel small and unimportant, and then to meet someone who makes you feel special again. My relationship started by my wife cheating on her partner and our relationship is stronger for it. I understood that she was not happy and it was his fault for not giving her the time of day. Just always remember what makes you different from him and dont dwell on the past- because it may interrupt your future. Just seems like you two are simply a better match and I have faith that you both know what you're doing.

Good luck

[Papa Smurf]

Because she wants to be loved and adored.

I happy for you both bro!!! Hope it all worksout for you two

[Armykid93]

The difference there is I would be substantially more wealthy coming out of it not the other way around.

Lol sounds like a win win. Jk but congrats, i'm glad for you dude

[Hoggage_54]

Post some pics of her...

[redz]

Redz I'm on your side bro. I don't think our friends understand what it's like to be with someone who makes you feel small and unimportant, and then to meet someone who makes you feel special again. My relationship started by my wife cheating on her partner and our relationship is stronger for it. I understood that she was not happy and it was his fault for not giving her the time of day. Just always remember what makes you different from him and dont dwell on the past- because it may interrupt your future. Just seems like you two are simply a better match and I have faith that you both know what you're doing.

Good luck

Glad to hear things are going great for you. In this day and age things are so different new situations come up all the time. I never saw this one coming that's for sure.

[redz]

Post some pics of her...

There was one posted somewhere

[Hoggage_54]

[redz]

Nice!

Thanks, shes the hottest girl I've ever dated and shes crazy in the sack too.

[stpete]

redz-Didn't you just go thru hell w/your wife a few months ago? I mean, you were out drinking and whoring around on your wife. And wasn't she cheating on you too? I really can't remember, sorry if i have a few details wrong. but i know for a fact you were tore up over the shit you had done. Now, this broad you met and boning just fvcked her husband over in a bad way. You really sure you're ready for a relationship w/someone? Let alone a girl that pull some bullshit like that. Hells bells, go out and just have a good time for a while. I'd be on my toes around that chick.

Anyway, not wanting to piss you off or anything. Just telling it the way i see it and giving you something to think about. Besides, aren't you about to move to sunny south florida? If so, hold off on any commitments! There's more women down there than you can imagine.

Good Luck to you Buddy.

[>Good Luck<]

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