Love my wife......buuutt.....

[Fcastle357]

That's when you shrug your shoulders and say idk...

That's when you tell her the truth. No other way around it. Go for broke. She will accept it or you will be the lance Armstrong of the family. More than likely she will throw the kids in your face saying something like what are you gonna tell "Timmy" when he asked how you got so strong. I face the same problems.

[Hazard]

Doesn't matter any reason you come up with your screwed. Tell her there for a buddy lol see how we'll that works

Funny you say that......

My friends gf found his test and tren bottles. She FLIPPED out...... Bad. He blamed it on me and said he was holding it for me cuz my wife (at the time) couldn't know. It worked too.....

We don't talk anymore...... I know it's because of her.

[Hazard]

That's when you tell her the truth. No other way around it. Go for broke. She will accept it or you will be the lance Armstrong of the family. More than likely she will throw the kids in your face saying something like what are you gonna tell "Timmy" when he asked how you got so strong. I face the same problems.

Lmfao!

You tell him to eat spinach and healthy food while he's young so he can be strong when he's grown up

[Fcastle357]

Lmfao!

You tell him to eat spinach and healthy food while he's young so he can be strong when he's grown up

It's tough with a family. I'm not huge by any means but I'm in good shape better than average my kids notice when I'm getting bigger and there is some regret that they think I'm doing it naturally. Even when I see a young skinny kid at the gym look at me.

[Fcastle357]

Lmfao!

You tell him to eat spinach and healthy food while he's young so he can be strong when he's grown up

Lol ill tell him to start stockpiling his money to hide from his future wife and come up with better excuses than me.

[Hazard]

Lol ill tell him to start stockpiling his money to hide from his future wife and come up with better excuses than me.

Lmfao that one got me to laugh haha

[BG]

Get her some sort of training or into spin class so your interest are the same. She's feeling left out.

[OnTheSauce]

My wife and I have a joint account, but also separate accounts. Half our checks go into the joint account for bills, groceries, etc. then we each have our personal to spend on stuff for ourselves without the other questioning what this and that expense was for. She has no issues with what I do and is very encouraging.

[Fcastle357]

My wife and I have a joint account, but also separate accounts. Half our checks go into the joint account for bills, groceries, etc. then we each have our personal to spend on stuff for ourselves without the other questioning what this and that expense was for. She has no issues with what I do and is very encouraging.

Your a lucky man. My wife gets pissed when I buy the all natural eggs for 75 cents more than the regular eggs

[austinite]

My dishwasher broke. So I divorced her.

[OnTheSauce]

Your a lucky man. My wife gets pissed when I buy the all natural eggs for 75 cents more than the regular eggs

Damn. I bet you're def not allowed to buy the 96/4 ground beef lol

[Fcastle357]

My dishwasher broke. So I divorced her.

Lol. My dishwasher puts up with alot of crap and we've been together a long time.

[Fcastle357]

Damn. I bet you're def not allowed to buy the 96/4 ground beef lol

I have to sneak it home.

[RipOwens]

Every time I pass this thread I think it says..."love my wife's butt."

[Megalodon6]

My only complaint at the moment with my girl is she gets extremely jealous. She wants me to look good but wants to be attached at my hip. I changed my shirt in the parking lot the other day and she goes "now what if I wanted to change my shorts here....." I said "ofcoarse that's different...... U have a one in a million fat Latina ass...... Ofcoarse everyone wants to see it. I'm your standard white boy...... We're all over"

My wife is super jealous but she's gotten a lot better since we first got together.

[Megalodon6]

My wife and I have a joint account, but also separate accounts. Half our checks go into the joint account for bills, groceries, etc. then we each have our personal to spend on stuff for ourselves without the other questioning what this and that expense was for. She has no issues with what I do and is very encouraging.

Very lucky wish we did this. But my wife doesn't work she's staying home with the kids until my son starts school

[Brett N]

Honesty is the best policy in a relationship and has no guilty aftertaste. People and relationships evolve as they grow older. Most likely, you cannot be rational and explain to her the need for trying to physically better yourself because she is a woman. They automatically assume if you are trying to look better, you are wanting to go bang a 20 year old. Not always true. Personally, I don't want to go bang some hot 20 year old....I would just like to know that I can if I wanted. The fun is in the chase.

This is my favorite quote here, go ahead and say it to her -

[Fcastle357]

Honesty is the best policy in a relationship and has no guilty aftertaste. People and relationships evolve as they grow older. Most likely, you cannot be rational and explain to her the need for trying to physically better yourself because she is a woman. They automatically assume if you are trying to look better, you are wanting to go bang a 20 year old. Not always true. Personally, I don't want to go bang some hot 20 year old....I would just like to know that I can if I wanted. The fun is in the chase.

This is my favorite quote here, go ahead and say it to her -

YouTube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pt2uIYbEYjg

Have you told your wife you don't want to bang a twenty year old but would like to know you could if you wanted to? Honesty is the best policy. Ps I wouldn't mind the after taste of a twenty year old in my mouth lol

[Hazard]

Honesty isn't always the best policy...... I think each situation calls for a different solution

[austinite]

Honesty landed a lot of people in trouble, and in many cases... jail or even loss of any advantage in custody battles.

TRT is different than cycling.

[Fcastle357]

Honesty landed a lot of people in trouble, and in many cases... jail or even loss of any advantage in custody battles.

TRT is different than cycling.

Very true. There have been many things in my past that I am in no hurry of admitting. And a very good point about child custody steroids could play a big part if your partner ever wanted a divorce.

[Hazard]

Very true. There have been many things in my past that I am in no hurry of admitting. And a very good point about child custody steroids could play a big part if your partner ever wanted a divorce.

Exactly......

If she never sees the needle in your ass...... It's all speculation

Had my wife known..... I have no doubts she would have told someone as she was being sent to rehab. Her family could have ended up with my daughter.

They still tried to et me to let my daughter stay with them 5 days a week and me only see her on weekends. That only led to them not seeing her for close to 8 months.

[Fcastle357]

I just went back to the op and this thread has been hijacked lol

[< <Samson> >]

Ehhh, there is no right or wrong with any of the shit that we do. But, each situation calls for a different solution.

I put my girl through hell and back. She stuck it out and currently we are still doing way better than before. If it wasn't for her, I would have never started juicing. She was fully supportive from the beginning and did nearly all of my shots.

Yet, with my ex she would most likely call the cops or throw away my shit.

It's just the way it is.


But, I didn't really know what to do about my diet when I first started. She supported the juicing but laughed at my diet. When she seen me shed fat and grow muscle. She started to catch on and fast. I put up a post about how to motivate her. And everyone said the same shit; she'll see what you're doing and catch on. That she did, she goes to the gym more than me now. At this point she is still not in perfect shape(neither am I) but just like me, she's in better shape than ever before.

Damn good start, if you ask me.

[SexySweetheart]

I agree honesty is really bEst in a relationship but it really kinda depends on the relationship you're in.
I saw a comment about honesty including naughty thoughts like wanting to bang a 20 year old or whatever... and the fact is I'm sure your wife girlfriend or significant other has thoughts about men that she prefers that may not technically be you- yes she is not sharing that always you. Maybe she wants someone with bigger calfs, or is taller or they make more money or that is more romantic or that cooks more- whatever. the fact is that we all have desires that may not be met in our current relationships but we should still keep our relationship open with the person we are in it with. work it out without hurting each others feelings. So no you don't have to be honest about everything but the key things that a fact each other in my opinion should be shared. Steroid use I think should be shared because you are affdcting the joint finances -you are acting illegally with implications of affecting your partner - if you have children it could affect the safety of your house and your children if your gear is not properly locked up or maintained - and your physique and sex drive are directly affected by a substance that is not natural.

try looking at this objectively. If your spouse or wife was using a substance that you did not know of or understand that affected her physique her sex drive your finances and was illegal how open do you think you would be in learning that she was keeping a secret from you concerning this? I think this is one of the most overlooked points that I've seen on this board. Even though I believe I'm a very understanding wife and I am supportive of my husband usingI don't think that users really quite grass the implications of what they're doing. Yes we all understand what's going on and we don't feel that it should be legal but the overwhelming fact is that it is illegal and it does directly impact the body and finances of a relationship and when you use it does not just affect you and your life it does affect your spouse. And to keep such a thing secret I think is really kind of horrible actually.

[austinite]

I love the ladies on the forum. But I gotta say.............................

I'd rather get a divorce before I'm honest about steroid use . As a matter of fact, cycling was the very reason I divorced my last wife. Thank God for prenups. And I gotta tell ya, other than that... she was perfect and irreplaceable. Just not haviin it. The first wife was just a dumb broad. No idea how I got into that, lol.

[gearbox]

I love the ladies on the forum. But I gotta say.............................

I'd rather get a divorce before I'm honest about steroid use. As a matter of fact, cycling was the very reason I divorced my last wife. Thank God for prenups. And I gotta tell ya, other than that... she was perfect and irreplaceable. Just not haviin it. The first wife was just a dumb broad. No idea how I got into that, lol.

Typically the dumb broads are good at it. Maybe thats how

[austinite]

Typically the dumb broads are good at it. Maybe thats how

Oh... she was good at it alright!

[gearbox]

Oh... she was good at it alright!

Bingo!!!

[wmaousley]

My only complaint at the moment with my girl is she gets extremely jealous. She wants me to look good but wants to be attached at my hip. I changed my shirt in the parking lot the other day and she goes "now what if I wanted to change my shorts here....." I said "ofcoarse that's different...... U have a one in a million fat Latina ass...... Ofcoarse everyone wants to see it. I'm your standard white boy...... We're all over"

I told my wife before we were married that I made a life long plan for success and I didnt make room for jealousy at all. I told her if she is jealous to keep that shit to herself as I will never get jealous. She tried to test me through the first few years and I shut it down. I told her I married her for her and dont want another woman unless its for a friendship. I think finally after 6 years of marriage she is coming to know this to be true.

Jealousy is the root of evil. Jealousy is the gateway to insanity.

[Othello]

Honesty isn't always the best policy...... I think each situation calls for a different solution

I agree with this... I tried all approaches..."honesty" gets used in future arguments thrown back in my face whenever we are arguing about a point.

I find what she doesn't know will not hurt her...selfish maybe but the key to a successful marriage IMO. the other key is NEVER to make her feel like you are saving money from her to spend on yourself....that gets her digging and questioning ...

i remember back when we first dated (we were at university back then) I was all for the transparency and openness in a relation and all that....started changing my mind after the first couple of arguments... so today I just make sure to compartmentalize every thing...

money wise, thank god I am doing well so basically it is easier for me to keep my own expenses without impacting the house budget. she works to but I insisted from day 1 all her money be spent on her ... (this was a strategic move from day 1 ) :P

[< <Samson> >]

I'd rather get a divorce before I'm honest about steroid use.

Here is one for you; what if she is a user like yourself or possibly even more?

I been thinking about this for a bit, so far I think this is the best case scenario for a committed juicer. Honest & within a similar lifestyle.

After the last few years I came to this conclusion & I don't think I can have it any other way.

If you lie/she lies - it will come out, who knows when or how.

If you are the only user & shit goes sour, she/he may & most likely will use this as leverage when a tough situation may arise.

When shit goes bad in a relationship the nastiest shit gets thrown in your face first. And the nastier the situation the worse this shit can get.

[austinite]

Here is one for you; what if she is a user like yourself or possibly even more?

I been thinking about this for a bit, so far I think this is the best case scenario for a committed juicer. Honest & within a similar lifestyle.

After the last few years I came to this conclusion & I don't think I can have it any other way.

If you lie/she lies - it will come out, who knows when or how.

If you are the only user & shit goes sour, she/he may & most likely will use this as leverage when a tough situation may arise.

When shit goes bad in a relationship the nastiest shit gets thrown in your face first. And the nastier the situation the worse this shit can get.

I've dated juicer broads. It might be a safer scenario, but my personal policy is that absolutely nothing good can come from it. Even if nothing "bad" could possibly come from it... if it's not a good outcome, I don't need it. And the broads that I dated more than likely knew that I use gear, but I never admitted or cared to.

I'm pretty strong willed. There isn't anything I can think of that can break me and make me admit to use.

Like you said earlier, to each his own. Do what works. But for me, I'll die with this privacy.

[Hazard]

I've dated juicer broads. It might be a safer scenario, but my personal policy is that absolutely nothing good can come from it. Even if nothing "bad" could possibly come from it... if it's not a good outcome, I don't need it. And the broads that I dated more than likely knew that I use gear, but I never admitted or cared to.

I'm pretty strong willed. There isn't anything I can think of that can break me and make me admit to use.

Like you said earlier, to each his own. Do what works. But for me, I'll die with this privacy.

My policy with my girl is..... "Don't ask me if you really don't want to know the answer"

You're right about nothing good coming from it...... It's like talking to the cops. You can only incriminate yourself. It never helps you.

[< <Samson> >]

Like you said earlier, to each his own.

For sure, this applies to just about anything. Just because it works for one person don't mean shit to the next.

Hiding anything is just fine, if it works for you - as long as you remember that shit can go to crap if it ever got out. But, that's how it is with anything we hide.

How do I know. Lmao

[austinite]

For sure, this applies to just about anything. Just because it works for one person don't mean shit to the next.

Hiding anything is just fine, if it works for you - as long as you remember that shit can go to crap if it ever got out. But, that's how it is with anything we hide.

How do I know. Lmao

Yes. But I'm also in Texas. I'm allowed to kill anyone who enters my place without permission, including cops. And I won't spend more than 45 minutes answering questions and get to sleep in my bed that night, guaranteed. So that is not a concern, but theres a whole lot more to people knowing than just that.

[songdog]

I don't have a problem with my wife.BUT I had my sister and her kid living with me for a while.For some reason she thought she needed to bake cookies and fudge for her fat 20yr old son.I lost 15lbs when she left