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    lost engagement ring

    So today I woke up to hear my (common law) wife has lost her engagement ring, posssibly at the gym. I'm pretty pissed but she was bawling her eyes out so I had to pretend I wasn't mad. I'm actually feuming. Like uber pissed. That thing cost me a small fortune and now there is a stupid matching wedding band we will not be able to use. Weve been engaged for 4 years because we just couldn't afford to get married and now that we are close, I gotta fork out the cash I've managed to save to buy another stupid ring. I wanna snap! Soooooooooooo angry! How do you lose something that's supposed to be so important to you.


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    Not fork out the dough for a new ring. Also see if it shows up. You never know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lovbyts View Post
    Not fork out the dough for a new ring. Also see if it shows up. You never know.
    Yea its not gonna be a right now thing....but its inevitable that if it doesnt show up ill have to buy another one...hopefully it will show up tho

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    Buy a cheap one for the ceremony. You already forked out the big bucks and she f'ed it up, now its time for her to be a big girl and accept the fact that there are better uses for your hard earned cash.

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    I'm sure she already notified the gym?


    I'm pretty sure m wife (now ex) hocked her ring for drug money..... Things could always be worse. Atleast yours is upset its gone
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    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaMike
    Buy a cheap one for the ceremony. You already forked out the big bucks and she f'ed it up, now its time for her to be a big girl and accept the fact that there are better uses for your hard earned cash.
    ^^^^ agreed
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    next time u get one: insure the damn thing man!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaMike View Post
    Buy a cheap one for the ceremony. You already forked out the big bucks and she f'ed it up, now its time for her to be a big girl and accept the fact that there are better uses for your hard earned cash.
    Sounds reasonable but ill always feel cheap when people say it looks nice and ask if ita real. The cheap ones lool nicer than the real.ones lol. They're always so big. And I wont have the heart to say "no bimbo lost the first one" lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck<

    Sounds reasonable but ill always feel cheap when people say it looks nice and ask if ita real. The cheap ones lool nicer than the real.ones lol. They're always so big. And I wont have the heart to say "no bimbo lost the first one" lol
    Fvck it..... I would hah

    She could always tell people that she doesn't wear the real one because its expensive lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<--- View Post
    next time u get one: insure the damn thing man!
    It is insured. But unfortunately in the last 4 years my house got robbed 2 times and I had to make claims. This has led to me barely qualifying for insurance and actually being denied renewal. Not to mwnrtion the serious price hike...can't afford another claim

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post

    Fvck it..... I would hah

    She could always tell people that she doesn't wear the real one because its expensive lol
    LoL I like you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    I'm pretty sure m wife (now ex) hocked her ring for drug money..... Things could always be worse. Atleast yours is upset its gone
    No shit ey. . . . . . Mine just played it off. I am pretty sure she pawned that shit too. . . Biotch

    Could be worse I guess, my bud's Axe threw her's out of a moving car's window.

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post

    No shit ey. . . . . . Mine just played it off. I am pretty sure she pawned that shit too. . . Biotch

    Could be worse I guess, my bud's Axe threw her's out of a moving car's window.
    I wish we lived in a time where that shit didnt matter...like a $50 tin ring was acceptable. Go ahead...toss that shit...who cares

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    Fvck man, his cost like 2g's. I told him straight up, I'd dump that bitch. He said no. . . . . 4 years later she left him for another dude

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    I wish we lived in a time where that shit didnt matter...like a $50 tin ring was acceptable. Go ahead...toss that shit...who cares
    If you have the right women then it doesn't matter. I bought the only ring I could afford with one of my first checks after boot camp. I think the set cost me around $300. She said yes and 22 years later still loves the tiny piece of sand and won't let me replace it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    It is insured. But unfortunately in the last 4 years my house got robbed 2 times and I had to make claims. This has led to me barely qualifying for insurance and actually being denied renewal. Not to mwnrtion the serious price hike...can't afford another claim
    hmm.. 2 claims in 4 years puts u into that kind of predicament?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post

    If you have the right women then it doesn't matter. I bought the only ring I could afford with one of my first checks after boot camp. I think the set cost me around $300. She said yes and 22 years later still loves the tiny piece of sand and won't let me replace it!
    You are 100% right. I guess since I came from utter poorness I've become attached to money and valuable things I earn. I'm pretty vain. I constantly feel like others are judging my every move. I'm sure she would be fine with whatever I get her but at the same time I feel like people will think I do t care because her ring Is cheap...probably why I spent so much the first time......

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    Quote Originally Posted by --->>405<<--- View Post

    hmm.. 2 claims in 4 years puts u into that kind of predicament?
    Damn canadian insurance. Mainly ontario insurance...they're scum sucking money grabbers

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    I don't think I missed it, but ummmm - how expensive are we talking on this ring here?

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post
    Fvck man, his cost like 2g's. I told him straight up, I'd dump that bitch. He said no. . . . . 4 years later she left him for another dude
    Only 2g's....little steeper not to mention the matching band...I just puked in my mouth a little

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    You are 100% right. I guess since I came from utter poorness I've become attached to money and valuable things I earn. I'm pretty vain. I constantly feel like others are judging my every move. I'm sure she would be fine with whatever I get her but at the same time I feel like people will think I do t care because her ring Is cheap...probably why I spent so much the first time......
    Don't let your relationship be defined by what others think!
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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    Damn canadian insurance. Mainly ontario insurance...they're scum sucking money grabbers
    aha.. gotcha. well that sucks man. personally i would not stress about buying another one. just get one when u can.. i seriously doubt she will pressure u much. screw what everyone else thinks.

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    that sucks GL! can you make a matching ring in stead of buying whole new set?

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    Ehhhh

    It's just shit


    If she truly lost it and everything else is solid, it doesn't matter. It's just stuff. . . . I lost more before & yeah it sucks but life goes on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bass View Post
    that sucks GL! can you make a matching ring in stead of buying whole new set?
    The jeweler who made it would love to make another Im sure. It was custom. Ill try my luck with him and give him the sad story...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post

    Don't let your relationship be defined by what others think!
    Thanks lunk, you're right

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post
    Ehhhh

    It's just shit

    If she truly lost it and everything else is solid, it doesn't matter. It's just stuff. . . . I lost more before & yeah it sucks but life goes on.
    Word! Im just pissed now. Itll pass- like a kidney stone...slowly and painfully lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    Word! Im just pissed now. Itll pass- like a kidney stone...slowly and painfully lol
    haha, I know how that feels. ouch!

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    Gonna have to change your name. Half your stash and now a ring. Mediocre luck ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fcastle357 View Post
    Gonna have to change your name. Half your stash and now a ring. Mediocre luck ?


    LMFAO

    Good 1

    Sucks man, think of it like a accident in a car without insurance.


    You'll be aight. . . . . Specially since now she kinda owes u & all

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    Haha thanks for the laughs

    I guess I shouldn't test my luck just yet. I can only imagine what else can go wrong lol

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    I see lots of unrestrained anal in your future. She should feel lucky you're even considering lube
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    I see lots of unrestrained anal in your future. She should feel lucky you're even considering lube
    ^This lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    I see lots of unrestrained anal in your future. She should feel lucky you're even considering lube
    She's gonna feel the burn too!! Lmfao

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    Well the emotional breakdown is happening. Now we are beginning to fight...I think she wsnts me to be mad and freak out...its like she was expecting me to give her shit and I didn't...so now she's being weird and bitchy....

    I can't win

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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    Well the emotional breakdown is happening. Now we are beginning to fight...I think she wsnts me to be mad and freak out...its like she was expecting me to give her shit and I didn't...so now she's being weird and bitchy....

    I can't win

    Word

    Don't even know what to say 2 that


    How in the hell is she mad?

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    Quote Originally Posted by < <Samson> > View Post

    Word

    Don't even know what to say 2 that

    How in the hell is she mad?
    At other non related shit that doesn't make sense.... u kno.... bullshit

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    She's got to be pissed at herself too man.. Maybe she's just dealing with it by being bitchy.
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    Get pissed off then.....


    Have a talk with her. Tell her you're very upset and disappointed. Make sure you say you are disappointed! Then tell he what's done is done - its an object and shouldn't cause a rift in the relationship.

    I guarantee if you ask for anal tonight - u got it
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    Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
    At other non related shit that doesn't make sense.... u kno.... bullshit
    Weather the storm, get to the makeup sex, then see hazard's anal post above

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