Originally Posted by
flatscat
The other thing you have to consider if your situation is/was anything like mine is this -
I have been married for about 11 years. I think we had a pretty good sex life for maybe the two years we dated and maybe another year after that. Then the babies came, and then I think my low t started (not because of the bambino's, lol). So, for prolly 6 or seven years she dealt with MY low sex drive and kinda either got used to it or decided that was just how it was going to be (or had a Sancho). I really didnt even notice (kinda like the fat that was piling on my gut). Now all of a sudden I am like a teenager again - wanting it ALL the time. It kinda pissed her off at first. And, like your wife, she said it was ALL because of what I was injecting myself with.
Fast forward to today - she understands now that my hormone levels were wacked and she knows I actually need the t now. She has seen the change in my body (and likes it), she sees other women looking and flirting with me (and i think likes that too), she knows that I could have most of those women if I wanted but choose to stay with her.
Now I am not saying that I get it near as much as I want, but I am getting it a lot more than I was for the first 6-8 months of being on trt. Most females prolly need a good amount of time to go from where they were to where you want them to be.
Give it some time - let her see how it has changed not only your body, but your confidence and the way you treat her. Back off the cave man hit her in the head and drag her to the bed talk all the time and let her get to know the new you again.
I must say that my marriage is NOT perfect. We have had to deal with several issues along the way that were related to my old sluggo self. But, at the end of the day, the new me is way better than the old me (even before we were married) and she is coming around.
Best of luck bro and hope this helps.
Flats
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