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    Unhappy Sex with wife

    My wife is going through the "change" and doc said untill her period stops he wont do HRT. She was put on Birth control and a small help. Problem is she is never horney and I am grrr. She is will to try anything reasonable so question what works? Really could use some advise.

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    show her that you care about her...and not just interested in sex

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    eat her out a whole bunch first and toss salad. no way she wont be horny after that. she'll be beggin for it!

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    Time to trade up to a younger model

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewKid
    show her that you care about her...and not just interested in sex
    This is some sound advice pal...

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    Here's an idea. The suppliment Maca may increase blood flow to the clitoris, which may help her get into the mood. This maybe something to try if all else fails.

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    That's rough. My ex-girl was undersexed too. It was frustrating but that's much different than what you're talking about. I'm sure it's a matter of time before they can start the HRT thing. Do they give a time frame on that? The waiting is a bitch though. Take a trip to the local porn store and start stock piling.

    Quote Originally Posted by Pillbass
    My wife is going through the "change" and doc said untill her period stops he wont do HRT. She was put on Birth control and a small help. Problem is she is never horney and I am grrr. She is will to try anything reasonable so question what works? Really could use some advise.

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    Yeah but what is he going to do about the sex? His needs are just as valid as hers!

    Quote Originally Posted by MarkyMark
    This is some sound advice pal...

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    give her CROWN ROYAL

    let no other alchohol substitute

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    I have the same issue with my wife, just take it. Women need to understand our needs also, and it is not about talking and holding hands

    Order the Jack Rabbit, it does wonders for your sex life

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    When they loose their estrogen they loose their sex drive. I've been trying
    to get my old lady on Hormones. With out success.

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    I hear ya brutha's. I have heard to talk about DHEA for her. Anyone heard anything about that helping a females libido?

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    just read a study about horny goat weed, out of 300 female subjects almost 90% found it more effective then androgel and cialis

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    Quote Originally Posted by BITTAPART2
    just read a study about horny goat weed, out of 300 female subjects almost 90% found it more effective then androgel and cialis
    Out of all the posts, this is the one I would try first.

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    Your wife has to accept it as being a problem before she will try any of the above.. I'd talk to her about it and then make a decision.
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    give her some hennessy and hypnotiq gauranteed to get her right .....

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    Start her on a low-dose cycle - test works on women too!

    Seriously that's probably a really bad idea - given that her hormones are all over the place right now.

    There are a couple of OTC things you can try, a few of which claim to help during the early stages of Menopause.

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    get her drunk......

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    Seriously this one guy gives his wife an injection of 25mgs of cyp per week and said it works great, although women are actually more responsive to the more stable blood levels provided by a gel like androgel . I'd try the natural supps first like was suggested, then cialis, then a T. Good luck...

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    you should get a fat bitch like I have. She never stops wanting it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kale
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    bro..give her 10-50mg test e or c ew, shell get horny as ****..

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    if the crown doesn't work then try some captain morgan and get her knocked up if you can. Pregnant women want sex all the ****ing time.

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    Male Hormones Not Tied to Women's Libido, however, DHEA is!

    SOURCE: Journal of the American Medical Association, July 6, 2005.

    You may purchase USP Grade DHEA at the site below.
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    Although recent reports have apparently shown that testosterone seems to affect women's
    interest in sex, their levels of male hormones -- androgens -- are not clearly tied to sexual function,
    according to a report in this week's Journal of the American Medical Association.

    It has been theorized that low androgen (testosterone) levels are, at least in part, to blame when a
    woman has little interest or enjoyment in sex, but supporting evidence for this notion has been lacking,
    Dr. Susan R. Davis, from Monash University in Victoria, Australia, and colleagues note.

    The researchers assessed sexual function and measured levels of various androgens, such as
    testosterone, in 1021 randomly selected women who were free of any thyroid disorder, did not
    have polycystic ovarian disease, and were not taking any psychiatric medication. A standard
    questionnaire, the Profile of Female Sexual Function (PFSF), was administered to all the participants.
    No androgen measurement was associated with any area of the PFSF assessment, the team reports.

    By contrast, a low level of dehydroepiandrosterone sulfate (DHEAS) did correlate with low sexual desire, arousal, and responsiveness.

    The results contradict the idea of using testosterone to treat low sexual desire disorder, the researchers conclude.
    Rather, they say that, taken together with what is already known, the results suggest that
    "sex steroids influence female sexual function," but that there is no specific level of androgens in women
    that can be classified as a deficiency.

    Editors Note:

    DHEAS levels can be elevated by the simple suplementation of USP grade DHEA. 50 mg taken twice
    a day for 2 weeks had a significant effect on how 87% of women had a positive effect and increasaed levels of DHEA
    & DHEAS. (See Volume 774, NYAS).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kale
    Time to trade up to a younger model

    I must concur. I have managed to keep all my wives 19-24. But be warned, it gets expensive after the 3rd one.

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    Trade in... yah that's the answer.. have u talked to her about it

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    Sorry to hear mate. Getting her drunk is not the answer, but Im sure you realize that. I have heard var does amazing things to female libido. What did your doctor have in mind? Estradiol patches?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Myka
    show her that you care about her...and not just interested in sex
    That could work in the theoretical world, but fact is (most)men have needs. They have obviously been together long enough for her to realize that he is "not just interested in sex". We have to take the good as well as the bad bro, but I would think that she would be OK with satisfying you every now and then, even if she isn't in the mood. There are a few new products on the market, I B E has some new research products available, give them a try.

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    pillbass, I'm going through the same thing, have been for the last 4 yrs. It's tough. Situation is no better. I know where it led me but I wouldn't recommend that. Good luck to the both of you!

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    I heard a clinical trial is being done for a new libido enhancement for women, sorry I can't help you with the name. I will listen on the radio and if I hear it I'll PM you.

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    Does Viagra fore women help

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    buy some porn!

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    Viagra works for women in the same way that it works for me. That is both good and bad. Viagra in men does not make you horny, only makes you able to perform. The desire has to be there.

    The problem is that she does not have the desire. It's like having an erection, but having no desire to use it. (what an insane thought). It's the "I think therefore I am". Men have an erection, so they want to use it. Women have to want it first. Just one of God's little jokes.

    I gave my wife a little viagra one night. After about 30min, I asked her if she felt any different. She said she felt a little tingle (as did I) and she was VERY wet. Whoohoo, party time!

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    Isn't a decreased sex drive caused by marriage?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Assapopolis
    Isn't a decreased sex drive caused by marriage?
    yep

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    Have to disagree, gotta keep it interesting.. If you don't charm her, someone else will.
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    well, my wife is 38 now, her libedo is fine, but wanes sometimes... doing a cycle of var
    1-2 wk 5mg
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    one of the side effects is a swollen clit that doesn't easily go away, so it's stimulated alot just doing normal things

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    Quote Originally Posted by IBdmfkr
    Have to disagree, gotta keep it interesting.. If you don't charm her, someone else will.
    i like the way u think

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    .....OK, here is the solution. I got ahold of some Melanotan (a protein peptide which is available on the net - do a google) because my lady and I wanted to get a good, deep tan. Well, it worked REALLY well for that ( I am fair of skin and now I look like Juan Valdez), but the kicker is, my lady said it made her EXTREMELY horny to the point that she wouldnt leave me alone until the sun came up!! Go to Melanotan.org - they have a great discussion board and charts about how to do it!!
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