I was Just Sexually Harassed!!

[63190]

In Spain I saw both. Not just his group of friends but people on the street. I've seen guys hug and do both cheeks or one square on the mouth.

I met his sisters husband. As I'm introduced to the guy he had his hands on my shoulders, then my chest then my back. Then turns to Rolan and said Wow, you have a great looking bf. I'm standing there thinking "your sister's husband just felt me up!"

Damn man, you're just a magnet for sexual harassment. Where ever you go.
They are very friendly over there in Spain. Some woman I just met for the first time this weekend at a baptism kissed me good-bye. She's a cousin of my grandmas' cousin. No blood relation at all to me, and she kissed me. She's of Mexican decent, but is tall and fair skined. I'm guessing she's pretty Spanish still. I went in for a shake good-bye, and got a hug and kiss. With out thinking I returned the favor. Don't know if it woulda been the same with a guy.
When in Rome, do as the Romans do.
Rolan was calling you and I'm sure was not as happy as he could have been if you were there too. Trust is just what you'll have to do. Tell your boys not to talk about Rolan like that. Tell them it bothers you and that if they respect you, they'll stop.
As for Rolan, if he calls, tell him what your boys did to you. Also, tell him your happy he's having a good time, but that hearing about it makes happy/sad. Happy for him, sad that you're not there to enjoy it too.
I was in Rolan's shoes one time when I went to a race weekend away from my girl. I was having a good time, but not as good as my friends who brought there wives or girl friends.

[Carlos_E]

You really need to trust him. It can be hard sometime, but it`s very important in a relationship. How do you manage having a longdistance relationship while not trusting him?

I trust him. At home I never had an issue. It's a little harder when someone his hanging with their friends for 10 days in Brazil partying it up every day and night.

[chest6]

Damn man ur like the same as me. Im like the most jealous dude ever. I also think that it has to do with the personality of your significant other. If they're generally outgoing/partier etc you will be more worried and jealous than if they were more on the shy side. At least thats my opinion.

[Carlos_E]

Damn man ur like the same as me. Im like the most jealous dude ever. I also think that it has to do with the personality of your significant other. If they're generally outgoing/partier etc you will be more worried and jealous than if they were more on the shy side. At least thats my opinion.

I don't go out. Neither does he. Maybe once a month he'll tell me he's going out with friends and afterwards sends me pictures of eveyone saying "hi, wish you were here." But this vacation shit got to me. Specially because everyone keeps pumping my head full of shit. I let it go, then it's someone else talking shit about it.

[chest6]

well then you have a reason to feel like that, you're not used to it.

[Tock]

Carlos would you like to taste my penis. Im willing to let you explore my body with your tongue if you'd wish.

Oh brother . . . I wish I had a nickel for every supposedly straight guy who propositioned me -- I could pay for a year's run of GH. Generally though, they aren't as tacky as this . . . Ugh . . .

-Tock

[Rob]

looks like 2 boys have crushes on Carlos...uh ohhhh

[Carlos_E]

looks like 2 boys have crushes on Carlos...uh ohhhh

2? Pft! You should see the PMs I get. Or random posts like this.

http://forums.steroid.com/showpost.p...&postcount=135

[firenwire]

This thread remains useless without pictures.

[DNoMac]

Sounds likke your like me Carlos. Try to bite the tongue, to much pride to show ur emotions, and then erupt. My girl lives 2 1/2 hrs away from me, so I experience similar situations (her goin out on weekends). Trust is a tricky thing, not sure when to give it.

[Carlos_E]

Sounds likke your like me Carlos. Try to bite the tongue, to much pride to show ur emotions, and then erupt. My girl lives 2 1/2 hrs away from me, so I experience similar situations (her goin out on weekends). Trust is a tricky thing, not sure when to give it.

I broke up we're done.

[Rob]

for real?????

why??

[Carlos_E]

Cause he's a lying dirt bag piece of shit human being.

[TheMudMan]

That sucks......... sorry to hear that.

[Rob]

that sucks...did he admit he cheated

[Alex2]

Sounds likke your like me Carlos. Try to bite the tongue, to much pride to show ur emotions, and then erupt. My girl lives 2 1/2 hrs away from me, so I experience similar situations (her goin out on weekends). Trust is a tricky thing, not sure when to give it.

Where do you live bro? Columbus area?

[Alex2]

I broke up we're done.

Sorry to hear that Carlos. You'll get more PM's now

[Carlos_E]

that sucks...did he admit he cheated

You know how some guys escort for juice money? Explains the $950K flat he lives in and all of the cars. He has a day job but I found out today he "freelances." He's "working" in Brazil.

Apparently in his warped skull, it's not cheating if you're getting paid. So he still claims he hasn't cheated while there. I did not know any of this and found out all of it today. I'm still in shock.

I've screwed a few porn stars in my time but at least they were up front and man enough to tell me up front what they did for a living. I'll screw one. Not build a life with one.

[Carlos_E]

Sorry to hear that Carlos. You'll get more PM's now

I get too many PMs already. Now I'm going to have to do a thorough background check on any guy I meet and include "Do you hoe for money" on the questionnaire.

He's lucky I found out while he was miles away from me cause right now, God only knows what I would do.

Friends do not let Friends date Escorts!!!

[Iron_Head_101]

Sorry to hear about that Carlos, I've been ready this damn thread everyday hehe, it's like a soap opera...I was really thinking you'd be united again and all would be well...There's pleanty of fish out there good luck....

[DNoMac]

Yea, doesn't help much lot with the whole trust thing...GL bro

[Carlos_E]

Yo. I'm still in ****ing shock. How could he hide this for so long.

[DNoMac]

How long were you two dating? Regardless, he shouldn't have hid some shvt like that. Maybe if had a kid or something, but Duce Bigelow Spain Gigelow?? Thats garbage

[Tedbear981]

Jesus bro, that sux...sorry to hear that!

[63190]

Damn Chuck, sorry to hear that. Yeah, you're going to have to be a private detecive or hire one the next time you think about getting serious with one.

[firenwire]

So, no pics huh?

[Tedbear981]

So, no pics huh?

[firenwire]

For ****s sakes, please.



I was just trying to lighten the mood. Lets see if Carlos is upset. If so I'll resign.

[firenwire]

So, wanna make-out while we wait?

[Gra]

So, wanna make-out while we wait?

[Carlos_E]

For ****s sakes, please.



I was just trying to lighten the mood. Lets see if Carlos is upset. If so I'll resign.

Not in the mood at this time for jokes.

[Evil Predator]

Whoa...

Sorry carlos..

[DamnYouMSN]

For ****s sakes, please.



I was just trying to lighten the mood. Lets see if Carlos is upset. If so I'll resign.

so ahhh... does that mean you're going to resign?

[Carlos_E]

How long were you two dating? Regardless, he shouldn't have hid some shvt like that. Maybe if had a kid or something, but Duce Bigelow Spain Gigelow?? Thats garbage

We dated less than a year. A guy I know has lots of friends in Spain. They went to Brazil with a group of other guys from Spain. Turns out they're all going to the same parties. I called the guy and asked him if he knew my bf and gave a description. The guy tells me yes, I know him. He was at our pool party. He's 5'6", green eyes, He's an escort. I said fuck no, you have the wrong guy. He told me his name.

So I hacked his yahoo accounts (it's very easy) and did some reading and the shit I read has me sick. He was emailing out a price list for what he'll do. Addresses where to meet and I got phone numbers of some of his "clients."

I confronted him with it and he lied. He denied it. He finally admitted it when I said "Bruno told me to tell you hello" and told him Bruno's phone number. Bruno, one of his clients.

That's when he started with "I never cheated on you since I'm getting paid it's only work story."

[Jimmya73]

i cannot imagine how fvcked up it would be to find out a partner was a prostitute! i would start wondering what diseases i picked up off the girl. or i guess guy for you. si it legal to do that in spain?

[Carlos_E]

i cannot imagine how fvcked up it would be to find out a partner was a prostitute! i would start wondering what diseases i picked up off the girl. or i guess guy for you. si it legal to do that in spain?

No it's not legal and I always wore condoms. THANK GOD!

Just feeling kinda stupid because I never asked his salary or anything. He has a good day job so I assumed it paid for his place. It's huge. All marble with glass walls, sky lights, terrace, home theater. Valued at 800K Euro has a couple of cars. Could afford to fly back and forth between NY and Madrid to see each other.

[taiboxa]

wait this thread confused me...
carlos hooked up w/ an escort who he didnt know was an escort? or has a friend that is an escort that had it hidden...?

[Jimmya73]

carlos's bf was an escort, and he had hidden that from carlos, who found out very recently

[taiboxa]

carlos's bf was an escort, and he had hidden that from carlos, who found out very recently

oh shit that aint so bad... my woman has been w/ more people than a pornstar and she didnt get paid for any of it! beat that!

[Carlos_E]

oh shit that aint so bad... my woman has been w/ more people than a pornstar and she didnt get paid for any of it! beat that!

While you two were in a committed relationship? Swearing to love you and be faithful? Asking you to move to another country to be with her???