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[Evil Predator]

yep.....she said it once before a little earlier in the conversation to.....like i interpret everything the opposite of what she means.....i'm sick of being given little tidbits that allow my head to come up with a scheme where she likes me and is testing me or something

Oh for **** sakes man, if she's playing ****ing games and being cryptic, tell her to learn to talk about her problems like an adult, and to stop using the ****ing church as her nipple to suckle on..

If she cant, cut all ties and burn all bridges. Its the only sure way.

Im all for belief in god, I really dont like organized religion tho...

[RuhlFreak55]

well i've played this far.......i'd just like to win an inning for once

[Myka]

You need to tell her that you need something sure so you can know what to do from here...tell her it hurts too much to keep talking to her and not know if there will ever be something...and if nothing positive is said tell her goodbye...

[RuhlFreak55]

so it is a game eh........well shit.....i've got like no ideas, i looked at the stuff she wrote before that a bit and it didn't really yield anything useful, but maybe she means overall or something.....which would mean she's testing me as to if i actually believe all the bs she just fed me

[RuhlFreak55]

You need to tell her that you need something sure so you can know what to do from here...tell her it hurts too much to keep talking to her and not know if there will ever be something...and if nothing positive is said tell her goodbye...

yeah but what if that's the wrong thing or something and that's her breaking point......if i come up with something like that and can't figure it out she writes me off.......

[RuhlFreak55]

and she didn't block me like she usually does when she's truly pissed either......all points to her wanting some kind of answer

[Evil Predator]

Ruhl, im gonna tell ya a story about the girl I never got..

I was 22, she's actually the reason I quit drinking. (long story short, I wanted her bad, never got her). I quit drinking, I played the gentleman, I tried to stay friends with her..

Know what it does? It ****ing kills me. If I was smart, i'd have burned every bridge between the two of us with gasoline and styrofoam, but I wasnt, and today this chick is a friend, and it kills me like mother****ing crazy to be around her..

So what im saying is, dont torture yourself, unless your cruel and heartless like me (im bigorexic and hate myself too, btw). Ive spent the last three weeks trying to figure out how to tell her we cant be friends.. Ive known her almost 3 years..

[Myka]

yeah but what if that's the wrong thing or something and that's her breaking point......if i come up with something like that and can't figure it out she writes me off.......

are you like...obsessed with her bro sounds like your being EXTREMELY cautious...

[RuhlFreak55]

but there's that chance in my mind still........i could be with her, and it would be glorious.....don't i have to try until that is exhausted?

[RuhlFreak55]

are you like...obsessed with her bro sounds like your being EXTREMELY cautious...

well i don't want to screw up.....and obsessed is a word the lazy use to describe the dedicated.....

[Evil Predator]

but there's that chance in my mind still........i could be with her, and it would be glorious.....don't i have to try until that is exhausted?

Ask yourself if she's worth your sanity?

[RuhlFreak55]

well in my current mindset i'd say yes..........which means i'm going to go nuts

[Myka]

and obsessed is a word the lazy use to describe the dedicated.....

rofl...I should have seen that coming...

[RuhlFreak55]

hey it could hold true for this situation

[Myka]

Have you always just been friends with this girl?...Or did you have sex with her once or go on a date or something?...

[RuhlFreak55]

the mind games are getting to me though......i might need to see the shrink

[RuhlFreak55]

Have you always just been friends with this girl?...Or did you have sex with her once or go on a date or something?...

friends.....she's had a b/f the whole time i've known her up until like two weeks ago.......she asked me if i wanted to have sex with her once.....and then she played with my head and ended up using my reaction as reasons that i'm not ready to have sex.......

[RuhlFreak55]

and yeah......that kept me going for like 3 months......i'm thinking....well if she even thought of that she has to like me right?

[Evil Predator]

hey it could hold true for this situation

Dude, i have a couple of things you dont. Among them are age and experience. Listening to me will make your 19 year old life easier. My advice, cut all ties, and **** as many random sluts as possible... Your a long ways from being ready for a serious relationship, get an education first.

[Myka]

and then she played with my head and ended up using my reaction as reasons that i'm not ready to have sex

HUH??? I dont get it...HOW IN THE WORLD DID YOU REACT BOY???!!!...

[RuhlFreak55]

Dude, i have a couple of things you dont. Among them are age and experience. Listening to me will make your 19 year old life easier. My advice, cut all ties, and **** as many random sluts as possible... Your a long ways from being ready for a serious relationship, get an education first.

i don't think i could **** random girls.........mommy brainwashed me

[kloter1]

new kid on the block

[Myka]

and **** as many random sluts as possible

Although this is the common theory...it causes MUCH bigger problems later(and sometimes immediately)

[kloter1]

sup foo's?

[Jimmya73]

i don't think i could **** random girls.........mommy brainwashed me

dammit mine did too. although, if you drink a little bit, this becomes less important. still feel like hell the next day though. i will let you know as soon as i figure how to destroy that mental barrier ruhl

[RuhlFreak55]

HUH??? I dont get it...HOW IN THE WORLD DID YOU REACT BOY???!!!...

i bout had a heart attack and then said if she was serious then i couldn't say no, but i also said that i didn't want to screw up my friendship with her over something like this and that i almost like her too much to **** up what we have by doing that.....and then i went apeshit some more cause she acted like it was a real offer......

[kloter1]

girl problems again lmao

[RuhlFreak55]

dammit mine did too. although, if you drink a little bit, this becomes less important. still feel like hell the next day though. i will let you know as soon as i figure how to destroy that mental barrier ruhl

good i really need to know

[Evil Predator]

i don't think i could **** random girls.........mommy brainwashed me

time to learn brotha'

You in university? on a campus?

Go get laid, right now. Just find some hot chick to knock boots with for 20 minutes, then get dressed and leave...

You'll never learn if you dont make an effort..

[kloter1]

1st day back at golds. wow it felt so great lifting again

[RuhlFreak55]

girl problems again lmao

not funny.....and it's the same girl

[RuhlFreak55]

time to learn brotha'

You in university? on a campus?

Go get laid, right now. Just find some hot chick to knock boots with for 20 minutes, then get dressed and leave...

You'll never learn if you dont make an effort..

huh? how is this possible?

[Myka]

time to learn brotha'

You in university? on a campus?

Go get laid, right now. Just find some hot chick to knock boots with for 20 minutes, then get dressed and leave...

You'll never learn if you dont make an effort..

I dont understand the logic behind that...especially sense he has a big STD problem at his university...

[RuhlFreak55]

yeah we're number one with the STDs

[Evil Predator]

i bout had a heart attack and then said if she was serious then i couldn't say no, but i also said that i didn't want to screw up my friendship with her over something like this and that i almost like her too much to **** up what we have by doing that.....and then i went apeshit some more cause she acted like it was a real offer......

after she asked, you screwed up by talking instead of kissing her and tearing her clothes off..

You became friends with her bro, you blew it...

The only time you can become friends with a chick you want to bang, is when she has a bf, then it works to your advantage... But ya gotta be a real snake to perfect that one. We'll start you off with simple stuff..

[kloter1]

yeah we're number one with the STDs

holy shit bad times

[RuhlFreak55]

she had a bf........and it was over IM i she rarely lets me hang out with her and talk in person.....it's weird

[Evil Predator]

I dont understand the logic behind that...especially sense he has a big STD problem at his university...

Rule #1 to slut bangin'... Wrap it up...

[WEBB]

Evil you get my pm the other day?

[Myka]

Rule #1 to slut bangin'... Wrap it up...

Doesnt always work...and what about herpes of the mouth?...even sluts want to kiss first...theyre technically not hookers...