Thread: another chick problem thread
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08-25-2006, 12:20 AM #41
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UPDATE :::::::
I just spoke to her on the phone and I told her that the impression I was getting was that she was trying to snob me off and I was feeling a bit upset over the whole incident. That upset her a fair bit to the point of tears.
She has had a lot on this week such as work and dance classes but I was getting the feeling that in the spare time she had, she could have spent a bit with me, but instead she opted to do other things.
She was really pissed off that I suggested it to her that she was trying to snob me and she told me that even though I told her what I really felt and had made a mistake, she couldn't get past that.
I agreed that it would be best for her to have a bit of time to herself now.
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08-25-2006, 02:32 AM #42
ok mate i think its best way to go.
if she can clear her mind up and decides all is good maybe you can give it another try.
but its great that you spoke to her rather than just snob each other off.
Even though she had alot of her mind it has nothing to do with you rather than snobbing you off, she could have got you for support.
so i do believe you have done the right thing.
anyway good luck.
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08-25-2006, 03:23 AM #43
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Even though she had alot of her mind it has nothing to do with you rather than snobbing you off, she could have got you for support.
Either way I am not regretting opening my mouth and TRYING to fix things.
She just told me this:
" I just need a break from this for a while. with everything else thats going on i really cant handle it. I think that's whats best for me at the moment. I know its probably selfish of me to not even try to work it out but I really just cant get my head around it right now".
I know its probably selfish of me to not even try to work it out but I really just cant get my head around it right now
i think that says it all really :|
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08-25-2006, 04:12 AM #44
Originally Posted by slob
Sorry man, but yep thats your answer. So just give her space and she will start missing what she had. Don'l contact her, let her come to you . Sorry you got to go through this though.
Good Luck
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08-25-2006, 04:29 AM #45
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thanks for all the support and advice from everyone here. It's time's like these that make's me really appreciate this board and the people on it.
Don't worry too much about me though. I've had far worse things happen to me and I've come back from it. It's pretty hard to keep me down.
If it doesn't kill you, it will only make you stronger.
One of my lady friends just gave me some sound advice:
"i think u should take it as what it was a relationship that is finished, and realise that u are only young and have many girls that will still break your heart, and many more that u will break theirs. thats the way life is. and we have to learn to live it as it is"Last edited by slob; 08-25-2006 at 04:35 AM.
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08-25-2006, 04:47 AM #46
yep your heart will be broken many times, you will just learn from it and become stronger.
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08-25-2006, 07:28 AM #47
so, its definately over, her comments said it all. she wont come back to the way things were. look at it as if its completely done and dusted, and move on. best way to get over someone is to get under someone else
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08-25-2006, 07:32 AM #48
Originally Posted by DSM4Life
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08-25-2006, 08:20 AM #49
Originally Posted by slob
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08-25-2006, 08:21 AM #50
Well u can't treat women like shit - when things r going good u don't have to work at it.. and this early ony uoshould not be having all these doubts.. it should be lite and fun.
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08-25-2006, 08:23 AM #51
Originally Posted by Mizfit
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08-25-2006, 03:26 PM #52
Love sucks. Drop the b*tch dude. Good women are a dying breed.
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08-25-2006, 03:27 PM #53
can ya tell i've been shit on in the past??
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08-25-2006, 03:29 PM #54
Originally Posted by Lucius Leftfoot
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08-25-2006, 03:35 PM #55
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Well u can't treat women like shit - when things r going good u don't have to work at it.. and this early ony uoshould not be having all these doubts.. it should be lite and fun.
I have spoken to her a few times about different issues that were really concerning me and I always did it in a clam and collected manner and she ALWAYS ended up getting annoyed at me. I told her that I wanted it to work out between us but if I couldn't talk to her about something that was bothering me, what chance did I have :S
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08-29-2006, 01:03 AM #56
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UPDATE*********
We just spoke on the phone and decided it would be best for both of us if we didn't continue the relationship. I really feel bad about how it turned out but there's nothing I can do about it now.
She said it didn't matter what happened now, she could not change the way she felt and hopes that we can still keep in contact. I don't expect for us to ever get back together but I was pretty close to her family and we had a lot of good times together and that's not something I want to throw away.
Sure there are plenty more fish in the sea but I will always remember this one as the one that got away
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08-29-2006, 05:16 AM #57
Originally Posted by slob
Don't try so hard to make it fit.. espcially so soon.
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08-29-2006, 07:27 AM #58
Originally Posted by slob
Also my daughter has known them as her grandparents her whole life considering she was 1 when my ex and I got together, and that made it 3 times as more difficult for me. I still have to answer questions and explain why we dont live where we lived anymore etc etc....be happy things ended now bro.
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08-29-2006, 08:30 AM #59
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I'm not going to lose sleep over it Mizfit. She told me that her family were really keen on me because I was one of the only guys that had ever met them and actually gave a crap about what they had to say.
She said her younger sister had brought home a few guys and they barely acknowledged the rest of the family.
Anyway I'm happy to let it go now after I sit back and look at it.
Thanks for all the advice everyone gave, it helped me see it from a different perspective.
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