Relationship

[Amorphic]

I'm encouraged when you say she's the first girl who didn't ask you how much you bench. The very muscular share a problem with the very rich: they don't know if they're loved for who they really are, or because they can provide expensive presents or hot sex. Wealth and fullfilling orgasms are nice things to have, but if you make them the 'answer' to your life's question they're gonna let you down in the end. Neither can fill the human need for understanding, connectedness, and shelter for the heart.

It's great that she's got a hot body, but that gets old pretty fast. If you're looking for a nice piece of ass you can get that without spending seventy bucks on gas every week-end.

When you're together, judge the quality of the relationship by what you do together as two friends. Are you just humping from the moment your car pulls into the driveway 'til you leave on Sunday night, or are you growing together as two human beings who share a common vision about life, and life together? A hot body can be a bit of a trap. "Do I love her, or her tits?" "Does she love me, or my pecs?" Get to know her (and her son) by doing things outside of the bedroom. Go to the beach or the pool; pack a picnic lunch; garden together; go food shopping! You're trying out a situation that, if successful, is going to create a new family. Do family things together. It'll help you both meet the person under the "tits" and "pecs".

I wish you good luck. As you move on with your life and seek happiness I know you won't forget the commitment you have to your daughter and her happiness. Both you and this woman you've met both are no longer the center of your own respective worlds. When you have kids, that changes. Each of you holds a young person's ultimate success and happiness in your hands. That, if nothing else, creates a common bond between you. Neither would do anything to jeapordize their child's wellbeing.

Peace,

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BigLittleTim

quality post bro.

[TJM7275]

Thanks Brothers and Special Thanks to Tim. Very deep man and very appreciated. Gonna ad you to my friends list dude. Thanks again...Tim (TJ)