My friend - 18yrs old, 130lb, Indonesian, & a VIRGIN

[GT2]

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[BIG-N-Brazil]

lol...Maybe if you get him a hooker he will mellow out some.....Good Luck...

[thetank]

if you cant get ****ed..pay for it. buy him some fithly ass and a reliable brand of condoms.

[Amorphic]

nothing you can do really. people cant become 'cool' from anyone helping them out.

he just needs to be more confident, put on some weight and get out there

[gst528i]

well drag him to the gym with you. That will consume some of his time from being so metro sexual. And you may want your GF TO talk to him about how he is acting and what he is doing wrong. These guys that don't get laid will take advice from gurl than guys. just an opinion though, My friend was like that and he wouldn't listen to me. But my ex talked to him and that helped him alot.

[Kale]

tell him to go back to Indonesia. If he cant get laid there he must be a corpse !!!

[Ernst]

There must be some way in which he is totally damaged goods if chicks won't touch him. As a straight guy you just can't see it. When I was 18 I was a lightweight and a complete jackass, and still got laid. Well, by easy girls with hot bodies, at least. Just buy him some ass already-- you're supposed to be his friend.

[SMCengineer]

I didn't get laid till I was 18 and I'm fine. No big deal.

[TJM7275]

Give him my email, I will show him the light.. Or better yet bring him down on Labor Day and Uncle TJ will get him laid... Between me, Dukki, Abbot, Blome, and Gix he will be in good company...LOL
Actually bro I can top that..... My buddy Pete, guy I have known my whole life and godfather to my baby girl, is 30 and a virgin... No Bullshit either... We tried to get him a whore once but he pretended to pass out drunk so I banged her. Seriously though bro some dudes are just not into it and are content with the life they live. I personally would kick my own ass if I was still a virgin but hey.....
I started watching my old mans porn at 12 and banged my first girl at 14.... Carolyn Johnston.....

[dwaynewade]

if he's 18... then most likely going to college... if so, i can assure you he'll get laid in the next 4 years

[RuhlFreak55]

if he's 18... then most likely going to college... if so, i can assure you he'll get laid in the next 4 years

i've yet to get laid as a result of being in college.......

[RuhlFreak55]

i didn't get laid till i was 20.....and subsequently haven't gotten laid at all lol......he'll live.

[RuhlFreak55]

i miss her :tears: *sigh*......

[dwaynewade]

LOL OMG

sorry dude, its was so easy for me growing up... i'm 25 now and have had more sex partners than 25...

move to Miami and always wear a rubber

[RuhlFreak55]

LOL OMG

sorry dude, its was so easy for me growing up... i'm 25 now and have had more sex partners than 25...

move to Miami and always wear a rubber

i would never want that many sex partners???

[jsinur7]

i would never want that many sex partners???

geez, seriously dude? I beat out 25 before i was 18 and i didnt start till 1 was almost 17... shit i had six in one weekend while i was in the navy (chicks in the navy too, not bar whores)

[RuhlFreak55]

geez, seriously dude? I beat out 25 before i was 18 and i didnt start till 1 was almost 17... shit i had six in one weekend while i was in the navy (chicks in the navy too, not bar whores)

that's a MUCH MUCH bigger problem in my opinion then being a virgin at 18........ur one of those guys that make girls hate us if those numbers are true

[jsinur7]

you need to get him laid by a whore... then his luck will change... real women can smell the fear/virginity on him... get him over the hump and he'll be good to go..

[StoneGRMI]

Sounds like his problem, not yours.

[AnimalGear]

He needs to get buff in the gym. Before I started working out I weighed like 104 and now I'm almost at 140 and ppl don't shut up about how good i look....it could work for him too!!

plus if he's going to college he'll have a small culture shock, adjust, and it'll work out

[RuhlFreak55]

He needs to get buff in the gym. Before I started working out I weighed like 104 and now I'm almost at 140 and ppl don't shut up about how good i look....it could work for him too!!

plus if he's going to college he'll have a small culture shock, adjust, and it'll work out

i'm scared to ask.....but how tall are you?

[Kratos]

I went to all boys prep boarding high school, and didn't get any til' college. He'll be fine, he needs to stop trying so hard. The ass cramper clothes prolly aren't helping, he'd be better off in some hollister at that age. Bring him to the gym, he need to focus on other things, and the girl thing will happen, you can't help him with that.

[AnimalGear]

If he tries too hard then people will notice and he will look desperate. He needs to not try so hard!!!!!!!!! Please tell him this

[AnimalGear]

5 ft 6in

[AnimalGear]

I actually look pretty huge for my size...I'll take pics this afternoon after my W.O. and put them up in the pics forum

[dirtball_619]

I actually look pretty huge for my size...I'll take pics this afternoon after my W.O. and put them up in the pics forum

im 5,8" @ 183 around 14-15% and dont look huge

[RuhlFreak55]

im 5,8" @ 183 around 14-15% and dont look huge

i wasn't gonna touch this one.....

[AnimalGear]

well fine...I look huge compared to myself when I was 104...hows that?

[calgarian]

I always wonder which one of you do the posting Hamish or Andy???

[TJM7275]

You know some woman would love to pop a guys cherry.... He should use that as his trump card. Just go out and start talking to woman and tell them he's a virgin... Just say something like:
"You know, I have been trying to save myself for the right woman but every woman I meet is either interested in what car I drive or how much money i make... Its like there are no woman who want a nice guy to love and take care of them".
Have him say some crap like that and some chick will want to de-virginize him...trust me.

And what are you talking about Ruhl????? Are you one of those guys that want to talk about there feeling to them bro??? Guess what man, and heres a great life lesson for ya in regards to woman...They all say they want that type of guy, but 99 out of 100 want the guy who shits on them... Dont know why but its true. Nice guys always finish last and if you think Jsinur is a pig because of the number of woman he slept with, I'm not going to even guess for you how many I have banged. You would probably be sick....LOL

[jsinur7]

You know some woman would love to pop a guys cherry.... He should use that as his trump card. Just go out and start talking to woman and tell them he's a virgin... Just say something like:
"You know, I have been trying to save myself for the right woman but every woman I meet is either interested in what car I drive or how much money i make... Its like there are no woman who want a nice guy to love and take care of them".
Have him say some crap like that and some chick will want to de-virginize him...trust me.

And what are you talking about Ruhl????? Are you one of those guys that want to talk about there feeling to them bro??? Guess what man, and heres a great life lesson for ya in regards to woman...They all say they want that type of guy, but 99 out of 100 want the guy who shits on them... Dont know why but its true. Nice guys always finish last and if you think Jsinur is a pig because of the number of woman he slept with, I'm not going to even guess for you how many I have banged. You would probably be sick....LOL

true that, i tried the nice guy route and never got any tail... be an ass, tail out the yinyang... i mean seriously, if those numbers bothered him and that was all before i was 18, he'd have a heart arttack knoewing i never slowed down and i'm in my 30's now...

[number twelve]

You know some woman would love to pop a guys cherry.... He should use that as his trump card. Just go out and start talking to woman and tell them he's a virgin... Just say something like:
"You know, I have been trying to save myself for the right woman but every woman I meet is either interested in what car I drive or how much money i make... Its like there are no woman who want a nice guy to love and take care of them".
Have him say some crap like that and some chick will want to de-virginize him...trust me.

And what are you talking about Ruhl????? Are you one of those guys that want to talk about there feeling to them bro??? Guess what man, and heres a great life lesson for ya in regards to woman...They all say they want that type of guy, but 99 out of 100 want the guy who shits on them... Dont know why but its true. Nice guys always finish last and if you think Jsinur is a pig because of the number of woman he slept with, I'm not going to even guess for you how many I have banged. You would probably be sick....LOL

couldnt have said it better myself

[RuhlFreak55]

You know some woman would love to pop a guys cherry.... He should use that as his trump card. Just go out and start talking to woman and tell them he's a virgin... Just say something like:
"You know, I have been trying to save myself for the right woman but every woman I meet is either interested in what car I drive or how much money i make... Its like there are no woman who want a nice guy to love and take care of them".
Have him say some crap like that and some chick will want to de-virginize him...trust me.

And what are you talking about Ruhl????? Are you one of those guys that want to talk about there feeling to them bro??? Guess what man, and heres a great life lesson for ya in regards to woman...They all say they want that type of guy, but 99 out of 100 want the guy who shits on them... Dont know why but its true. Nice guys always finish last and if you think Jsinur is a pig because of the number of woman he slept with, I'm not going to even guess for you how many I have banged. You would probably be sick....LOL

all i can do is shake my head and wonder what this world is coming to. And no i don't wanna just talk bout feelings......i'm multi-faceted......if she wants it i'll tie her up and whip her......put clothespins on her nipples etc.....

[thetank]

all i can do is shake my head and wonder what this world is coming to. And no i don't wanna just talk bout feelings......i'm multi-faceted......if she wants it i'll tie her up and whip her......put clothespins on her nipples etc.....

this made me lol!

[playboii]

i started at 14yrs old lol harrrrrrrrrrrrrr i honestly lost count by now but is up there

[TJM7275]

Well Playboi we have one thing in common...14 for me to bro
And nice guy bullshit is lame. You dont have to be an ass but when your being nice and buying her things, she'll be eye f***ing me across the room

[playboii]

nice guys finish lasttttttttttt harrrrrrrrrrr lol i tell them str8t up..."damn i want u to sit on my face" that turns them on! just the thought of it..trust me it works! lmao

[jsinur7]

nice guys finish lasttttttttttt harrrrrrrrrrr lol i tell them str8t up..."damn i want u to sit on my face" that turns them on! just the thought of it..trust me it works! lmao

true again... women dont want no men that are afraid... you walk up to a complete stranger and be flat out about it, to a certain degree depending on the tim and place of course, and i have slept with dozens of women within an hour of meeting them.... they know real men aint afraid of the Pu$$y... my favorite are strippers and waitresses, espescially hooters girls... easiest of them all if you know how to not care if she comes or goes.... get them wondering why you could care less if they are there and half naked and next thing you know they are paying for a hotel room at the hilton next store after their shift and bringing you bagels and coffe the next morning when you wake up... i really thought she used me and bounced and it was kinda funny, then she walked in with the bagels and coffee..

[MASTER]

Find some drunk slut that gets off on shit like deflowering baby faced kids, im sure there are plenty of them about. At least there will be at least some sense of achievement for the poor kid as well, I cant see how hiring a hooker would increase his confidence really. Or just have a female friend give him a mercy bang.

[No One Knows]

I've been mates with him for over a decade now, and in that time I have seen him get close to NO p*ssy whatsoever. I know what you're thinking, he must be gay...THAT'S THE SAD PART, he actually tries SO hard to hook in with girls, but it just never happens (TJM I think he needs to have a chat with you).

We would party, I would hook up with girls (I'm talking past tense because I've got a gf atm), and he would flirt, flirt, and flirt with girls, do EVERYTHING right, but could NEVER seal the deal i.e. hook in.

To add to this, he is about 5'7 130lb and therefore does not have a very "macho" or "manly" physique, so it's not like girls will go for him based on his body alone.

It's gotten to the point where he is so desperate and flirtacious, he flirts with my gf (and other mates' gf's) without even noticing it. As you can imagine, this does not sit too well with me or my mates.

I think his problem is his obsession with clothing/looking good. He is VERY metrosexual that many people have questioned his sexual preference. He spends so much time and money on the latest clothing, jeans, hairstyles, fragrances, etc. that it actually WORKS against him when trying to get intimate with a female/ trying to get a gf....

This is my theory...what girl in their right mind would want a bf who looks better, smells better, has better clothing, and spends more time grooming themselves than them!? NONE.

I've tried to help him out on numerous occassions but he is so stubborn and arrogant he takes nothing of what I say onboard. At this rate I don't think he will ever get laid. Should me and my mates just buy him a stripper? Cause we all reckon its getting beyond ridiculous and sad.

I know a guy who was just like your friend when we were in high school.

He is openly gay now. I wouldn't be surprised if its the same thing w/ your boy... You dont go shopping with him and shit do you?