Getting divorced

**D3m3nt3d** · 07-25-2010, 10:25 PM

well today she acted like an ass to me, which tells me that she had someone over there. Her ex text me and said it aint nothing like that, they are friends, and he is friends with me. But then, he wouldnt answer his phone. That told me all i needed to know. This was the only ex she criticized for his drinking, and his lack of sexual skills, but he is the guy in her clique thats single. She buddied up with his sister, and he was always a push over when it came to her. So, no surprise he would fall right back into the trap.

She refused to let me get my daughter today, and that was the last straw. I am done with any kind of hoping to work it out of anyway. I have my consultation with my lawyer Wednesday, and I pray in the end she gets everything she deserves out of life, nothing.

**40plusnewbie** · 07-26-2010, 05:36 AM

To the ill never get married guys: More power to you. I hope you remain consistent with your resolve if this is what you want.

I was 35 years old and never in a committed relationship (except for 1 time for 3 months when I was dating a woman who worked for me, she had my dick in her mouth on the job site the first time she flirted with me so I could not risk a job f up) prior to meeting my wife. I have been with hundreds of chicks. I never thought I would get married and like I said lived into my mid 30's this way while almost everyone I know or have heard of had been in exclusive relationships on a fairly regular basis or married well before this time (the 3 month thing was when I was like 33 yrs old).

I seduced hundreds of chicks into one night stands, my wife seduced me into a relationship. Watch your backs.

**NattyR1** · 07-26-2010, 05:50 AM

Originally Posted by D3m3nt3d

well today she acted like an ass to me, which tells me that she had someone over there. Her ex text me and said it aint nothing like that, they are friends, and he is friends with me. But then, he wouldnt answer his phone. That told me all i needed to know. This was the only ex she criticized for his drinking, and his lack of sexual skills, but he is the guy in her clique thats single. She buddied up with his sister, and he was always a push over when it came to her. So, no surprise he would fall right back into the trap.

She refused to let me get my daughter today, and that was the last straw. I am done with any kind of hoping to work it out of anyway. I have my consultation with my lawyer Wednesday, and I pray in the end she gets everything she deserves out of life, nothing.

you'll make it through... everyday is a new day and time to play.

**D3m3nt3d** · 07-26-2010, 07:41 AM

Originally Posted by 40plusnewbie

my wife seduced me into a relationship. Watch your backs.

Same here. She was so sure she wanted to get married. Truth be told, she did do a lot for us to get back together at first, such as cutting of contact with her mother, filing her divorce from her previous marriage etc..

I never really felt like this ex was a threat. As far as I know the first time they only had out in crowds. I do know he said something out of line to her at a party and she left. (I seen it on his sisters page on Myspace yrs ago). As a matter of fact, she told me when we got back together he wasn't going to care.

But you never know, maybe she said put your life on hold until I get out of school, then I will leave my husband and come back to you haha.

Nah in all honesty, he is the fall back guy. I never heard him say anything out of line to her while we were married. Even when I hacked her facebook, I seen a conversation, and nothing was out of line.

I will say he stayed one night last year at our house, where I believe I passed out, because there was still pics of him and her later that night but not me. However there was pics of my boy too, and he left afterwards and my wife took him home, and he said I was awake then so who knows. Everything is suspicious now.