Losing muscle... and the girl i like :(

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 02:20 PM

I'm so angry and depressed i don't feel like eating as much as i should, my performance at the gym has gone down the drain and i don't know what the f*ck i can do to get my self-esteem up and get back to the gym and train hard again... I really want this sad moments to go away and start gaining muscle again, instead i'm just losing muscle.

It's all over some girl, i never told her how much i loved her, we dated, we have made out and all that (she loves my body, thanks for the workout and diet tips you guys give me

) but then i screwed up, i got angry at her over some stupid thing but later i apologized. Since then she's cold at me, she said we needed to talk. Then i contacted her and she said i shouldn't worry but i told her i am and that we must talk. We will hang out on thursday and i will tell her how much i like her and that we should be together. The outlook looks really for me bad guys...I think she'll say we should just be friends.

I don't know what to do about this and i feel my mood and appetite will be down for a long time.

***D7M*** · 09-14-2010, 02:24 PM

Um, how long were you with her?

***D7M*** · 09-14-2010, 02:24 PM

Also, how old are you?

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 02:25 PM

Originally Posted by D7M

Um, how long were you with her?

We were far away from each other so it was 6 months of barely seeing each other, but she's perfect for me and i really want her but the outlook is so bad.

I'm 22 and not on AAS.

**Stigmata101** · 09-14-2010, 02:27 PM

what was it that you got angry with her and later apologized for.

**PistolStarta** · 09-14-2010, 02:28 PM

Dude....screw women. You'll learn in the end its all a game to them and they just want to have the upperhand. She may not even truly care what you did to her and she just wants you to bow down. Also spewing how much she means to you just gives her more ego, act normal but be a man.

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 02:28 PM

Originally Posted by Stigmata101;5356***

what was it that you got angry with her and later apologized for.

I asked her to go out and have dinner with me, she refused to do so and i immediately told her all she wants is having fun with me but never doing something more than that when i need her. I was stupid and i apologized.

**HitIt** · 09-14-2010, 02:30 PM

Welcome to Life.

**Atomini** · 09-14-2010, 02:36 PM

Originally Posted by PistolStarta

Dude....screw women. You'll learn in the end its all a game to them and they just want to have the upperhand. She may not even truly care what you did to her and she just wants you to bow down. Also spewing how much she means to you just gives her more ego, act normal but be a man.

X2

Just walk away. WALK AWAY. Nothing works better with women than not giving a shit, and showing them that.

The more you push forward, the more they will step back. Detach yourself and walk away, and you will have a higher chance of this woman wanting you. And if she doesn't, fvck her anyways, then she doesn't deserve you.

You're better off just walking away, period. You'll find as you go through life, you'll meet a billion more women that you will think are "perfect for you" and would be great together with you, etc. etc. Guess what, folks? If you don't know this already, it's time you do: ITS ALL YOUR BRAIN PLAYING TRICKS ON YOU. Each chick that comes along, you'll think she's better and different from the ones before her. It's a chemical thing happening in your brain, and if you don't realize this soon enough, you'll just end up harming yourself. The truth is, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. Your brain chemistry makes you THINK they're more awesome/different/better than the one before. They're not.

EDIT: And don't date. And never get married.

**calgarian** · 09-14-2010, 02:39 PM

Originally Posted by Td00

I asked her to go out and have dinner with me, she refused to do so and i immediately told her all she wants is having fun with me but never doing something more than that when i need her. I was stupid and i apologized.

u sure u were not on test prop cause u bitched like a woman..I get all the time from the girls

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 02:52 PM

Originally Posted by Atomini

X2

Just walk away. WALK AWAY. Nothing works better with women than not giving a shit, and showing them that.

The more you push forward, the more they will step back. Detach yourself and walk away, and you will have a higher chance of this woman wanting you. And if she doesn't, fvck her anyways, then she doesn't deserve you.

You're better off just walking away, period. You'll find as you go through life, you'll meet a billion more women that you will think are "perfect for you" and would be great together with you, etc. etc. Guess what, folks? If you don't know this already, it's time you do: ITS ALL YOUR BRAIN PLAYING TRICKS ON YOU. Each chick that comes along, you'll think she's better and different from the ones before her. It's a chemical thing happening in your brain, and if you don't realize this soon enough, you'll just end up harming yourself. The truth is, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. Your brain chemistry makes you THINK they're more awesome/different/better than the one before. They're not.

EDIT: And don't date. And never get married.

X2

That's right. A golden shower will put her back in her place.

**calgarian** · 09-14-2010, 02:54 PM

Originally Posted by ReX357

X2

That's right. A golden shower will put her back in her place.

nah i will pee in her ass

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 02:55 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

nah i will pee in her ass

Let's cross streams.

**calgarian** · 09-14-2010, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by ReX357

Let's cross streams.

i can pee further then u........

**Stigmata101** · 09-14-2010, 02:58 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

nah i will pee in her ass

there is a porn flik floating aroung on the net where 5 or 6 guys line up and fill a girls ass with piss....

**calgarian** · 09-14-2010, 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by Stigmata101

there is a porn flik floating aroung on the net where 5 or 6 guys line up and fill a girls ass with piss....

pm me the link please.......i tried to do it but it turn out her ass was leaking cause i pound it too hard

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 03:01 PM

I wanna see that

**calgarian** · 09-14-2010, 03:02 PM

Originally Posted by ReX357

I wanna see that

me pissing further then u or the clip stig is talking abt?

**Stigmata101** · 09-14-2010, 03:08 PM

i will look around and try to find it.......

**oot** · 09-14-2010, 03:16 PM

F**king women is for poofs anyways

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 03:32 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

me pissing further then u or the clip stig is talking abt?

Both.

**warchild** · 09-14-2010, 03:38 PM

fvck girls

**thegodfather** · 09-14-2010, 03:38 PM

Originally Posted by Td00

I asked her to go out and have dinner with me, she refused to do so and i immediately told her all she wants is having fun with me but never doing something more than that when i need her. I was stupid and i apologized.

Ding Ding Ding...There is the problem in the way you think, you do not "NEED" anyone but yourself. Get that through your head, and change the way you view women. You never "Need" them, and if you feel that way whatever, but never ever ever ever ever ever verbalize that to the woman that you 'need' her...Absolute worst thing that you can do.

**Atomini** · 09-14-2010, 04:02 PM

Originally Posted by thegodfather

Ding Ding Ding...There is the problem in the way you think, you do not "NEED" anyone but yourself. Get that through your head, and change the way you view women. You never "Need" them, and if you feel that way whatever, but never ever ever ever ever ever verbalize that to the woman that you 'need' her...Absolute worst thing that you can do.

Agreed. This is the problem in most of the situations people such as the original poster are in.

You don't need ANYONE. And your happiness should come from within yourself, not from an outside source such as someone else. If you're one of those people that thinks you won't be happy without someone, or you won't be happy living alone, or whatever, then you are going to go through a very painful life and you're going to be feeling sad and shitty more than happy. You don't 'need' someone else in your life to be happy. All you need is yourself, drive, and an ambition/goal to work towards in life.

It might take time for you to understand this, but the sooner you do the better off you will be. Everyone I know who is convinced they 'need someone else to be happy' are never happy.

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 09:28 PM

Thanks for the support guys, it means a lot to know other guys that train understand me, as my friends dont get what i'm going through, it's more than just losing a girl, its losing hard gained mass too. I hope i get my motivation back soon.

On thursday i'll tell her that i like her but that i dont feel that she likes me and that i will now proceed to move on. I guess if she wants something she'll tell me.

**stack_it** · 09-14-2010, 09:52 PM

If you walk in there and pour your heart out she is going to stomp all over it. I'm gonna be a little harsh here and tell you to go ahead and cut your balls off and throw em out the window on the drive to her house.

If a girl got mad because I didn't wanna go to dinner and reacted in a negative way I'd tell her to back the **** off just like your girl is doing to you only she's doing it nicer like a girl does lol.

No matter how much you want a girl you'll never get her if she doesn't want you. She will never want you if you just gift wrap yourself and leave yourself on her door step. You don't have to be an asshole like me (and cal) to get women. Not everyone can do it. But if she doesn't have to chase a little bit then she loses interest quick. Women love a man who's in control because they love the game of trying to take that control away. As long as you're always a step ahead she'll be at your feet.

Think about it like this. Cats love to play. Say you buy your cat a little toy mouse that does nothing. It will play with it and have it's fun and then leave it alone to barely ever play with it again. Now I buy my cat a toy mouse that moves around and runs from it. That cat will play with that mouse until it's physically unable to play anymore. It may get mad and tired and take a break but it will keep coming back until the batteries go dead and it wins the race. In real life the woman wins the race when marriage occurs which is like the mouse's(man's) battery dying.

Basically what I'm saying is the pvssy always chases so stop being the pvssy and let the pvssy chase you.

**stack_it** · 09-14-2010, 09:54 PM

I really think I should charge for my advice sometimes lol

**SlimmerMe** · 09-14-2010, 10:00 PM

are you more upset about losing her or losing your gains more? this is important to know the difference

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 10:08 PM

Originally Posted by SlimmerMe

are you more upset about losing her or losing your gains more? this is important to know the difference

I'm upset about losing her more than anything... and if that wasn't enough, i'm losing my gains.

**powerliftmike** · 09-14-2010, 10:22 PM

Originally Posted by Td00

I'm upset about losing her more than anything... and if that wasn't enough, i'm losing my gains.

Bro stop feeling sorry for yourself!! Get in the gym and bust your ass! You can control that, you cannot control women! Breakups are always tough, but after some time you will find another girl and forget all about this one! THEY ALL GOT HOLES !! and telling her how you feel and that you love her and spilling all your emotions?? BAD IDEA!!!! REALLY BAD!! If you do feel really strongly about her just show her, dont ever need to tell her. Actions speak louder than words, always have, always will.

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 10:24 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

If you walk in there and pour your heart out she is going to stomp all over it. I'm gonna be a little harsh here and tell you to go ahead and cut your balls off and throw em out the window on the drive to her house.

If a girl got mad because I didn't wanna go to dinner and reacted in a negative way I'd tell her to back the **** off just like your girl is doing to you only she's doing it nicer like a girl does lol.

No matter how much you want a girl you'll never get her if she doesn't want you. She will never want you if you just gift wrap yourself and leave yourself on her door step. You don't have to be an asshole like me (and cal) to get women. Not everyone can do it. But if she doesn't have to chase a little bit then she loses interest quick. Women love a man who's in control because they love the game of trying to take that control away. As long as you're always a step ahead she'll be at your feet.

Think about it like this. Cats love to play. Say you buy your cat a little toy mouse that does nothing. It will play with it and have it's fun and then leave it alone to barely ever play with it again. Now I buy my cat a toy mouse that moves around and runs from it. That cat will play with that mouse until it's physically unable to play anymore. It may get mad and tired and take a break but it will keep coming back until the batteries go dead and it wins the race. In real life the woman wins the race when marriage occurs which is like the mouse's(man's) battery dying.

Basically what I'm saying is the pvssy always chases so stop being the pvssy and let the pvssy chase you.

That was so well put stack. I feel I have somebody fighting in my army.

**spywizard** · 09-14-2010, 10:29 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

If you walk in there and pour your heart out she is going to stomp all over it. I'm gonna be a little harsh here and tell you to go ahead and cut your balls off and throw em out the window on the drive to her house.

If a girl got mad because I didn't wanna go to dinner and reacted in a negative way I'd tell her to back the **** off just like your girl is doing to you only she's doing it nicer like a girl does lol.

No matter how much you want a girl you'll never get her if she doesn't want you. She will never want you if you just gift wrap yourself and leave yourself on her door step. You don't have to be an asshole like me (and cal) to get women. Not everyone can do it. But if she doesn't have to chase a little bit then she loses interest quick. Women love a man who's in control because they love the game of trying to take that control away. As long as you're always a step ahead she'll be at your feet.

Think about it like this. Cats love to play. Say you buy your cat a little toy mouse that does nothing. It will play with it and have it's fun and then leave it alone to barely ever play with it again. Now I buy my cat a toy mouse that moves around and runs from it. That cat will play with that mouse until it's physically unable to play anymore. It may get mad and tired and take a break but it will keep coming back until the batteries go dead and it wins the race. In real life the woman wins the race when marriage occurs which is like the mouse's(man's) battery dying.

Basically what I'm saying is the pvssy always chases so stop being the pvssy and let the pvssy chase you.

yep...

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 10:30 PM

This is what i'll do. I don't want to sound like an asshole as i'm already one! I've already made her chase me and all that...

I'll tell her that i really like her but that i feel that she doesn't like me and i just want her to confirm my feelings so i can move on. (And you can be damn sure i'll move on.)

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 10:44 PM

Originally Posted by Td00

This is what i'll do. I don't want to sound like an asshole as i'm already one! I've already made her chase me and all that...

I'll tell her that i really like her but that i feel that she doesn't like me and i just want her to confirm my feelings so i can move on. (And you can be damn sure i'll move on.)

Unless she starts begging you to stay. Then guess what?

**stack_it** · 09-14-2010, 10:46 PM

Originally Posted by ReX357

That was so well put stack. I feel I have somebody fighting in my army.

We must continue to fight the good fight lol

**stack_it** · 09-14-2010, 10:51 PM

Originally Posted by Td00

This is what i'll do. I don't want to sound like an asshole as i'm already one! I've already made her chase me and all that...

I'll tell her that i really like her but that i feel that she doesn't like me and i just want her to confirm my feelings so i can move on. (And you can be damn sure i'll move on.)

Well I'll save you the time and give you her reply right now.

You: listen babe I really like you and I want this to work but I don't think you feel the sane way.

Her: I'm just confused. I don't know how I feel or what I want right now.

You: how do you not know how you feel about me (in a slightly angered voice)

Her: I think we need a break.

That's a short version. She's not going to just come out and say she's confused. She's gonna make you work for it and enjoy pushing your buttons and watching you squirm. Go over there on Thursday and tell her what you've rehearsed and then come back here on Friday and tell me how right I am lol.

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 10:54 PM

If she tells me she's confused, i'll tell her it's all over then.

**stack_it** · 09-14-2010, 10:55 PM

If you wanna know what I feel you should do then let me know. Don't just walk away because you'll always wonder what if. Just the way you have it planned sounds like a cliché romantic comedy scene.

**ReX357** · 09-14-2010, 10:59 PM

Btw, you're gonna be much cooler if you break it off than if she does.

**Td00** · 09-14-2010, 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

If you wanna know what I feel you should do then let me know. Don't just walk away because you'll always wonder what if. Just the way you have it planned sounds like a cliché romantic comedy scene.

Well i was invited to this monster party on friday and i'll meet new girls and all that. I really need to know if i should keep trying or meet new girls. I just wanna make things clear.