Might be a dad

[fattymcbutterpants]

Before I say anything let me first say I am excited about this and she is too....and i am no douchebag haha so I am not saying this in a bad way lol. But so my girl and I havent been to the doctor yet, so of course it isnt 100% but she took 2 pregnancy tests this morning and both said she was pregnant. This weekend she had been feeling sick to her stomach and smells were bothering her and making her want to vomit at a baseball game we were at. Like a guys hotdog several seats down was making her sick. But so I think I am gonna be a dad

I am really excited, she and I are both young and in school so I guess you could say we should have been more careful and waited until we were out of school and married, but I plan on being with her till the end and being the best dad I can. Just thought I would post on here about it I just kinda wanted to let it out lol. But really I couldnt be happier, I am not looking forward to breaking the news to my family about it all since of course we arent married yet so they wont like that....But it will all be ok, I cant wait

[kelevra]

Well congrats...
Can you extract some HCG from her urine???
Sorry i have a terrible sense of humor.
good luck

[Public Enemy]

Congratulations.

[fattymcbutterpants]

Thanks guys, and Kelevra I will bottle it and sell it to you in liter bottles for a small fee lol jk

[kelevra]

Thanks guys, and Kelevra I will bottle it and sell it to you in liter bottles for a small fee lol jk

haha, you got it

[fattymcbutterpants]

I think I am gonna try to get a job with a shipping company or something so that I can start making some more money and start saving for us

[calgarian]

Before I say anything let me first say I am excited about this and she is too....and i am no douchebag haha so I am not saying this in a bad way lol. But so my girl and I havent been to the doctor yet, so of course it isnt 100% but she took 2 pregnancy tests this morning and both said she was pregnant. This weekend she had been feeling sick to her stomach and smells were bothering her and making her want to vomit at a baseball game we were at. Like a guys hotdog several seats down was making her sick. But so I think I am gonna be a dad

I am really excited, she and I are both young and in school so I guess you could say we should have been more careful and waited until we were out of school and married, but I plan on being with her till the end and being the best dad I can. Just thought I would post on here about it I just kinda wanted to let it out lol. But really I couldnt be happier, I am not looking forward to breaking the news to my family about it all since of course we arent married yet so they wont like that....But it will all be ok, I cant wait

Congratulations!!!! pregnancy test are never "false positive" welcome to the elite community of fatherhood if you have specific question PM me and i will do my best to answer them for you

[fattymcbutterpants]

Thanks Cal! The fact she was sick all weekend and she just text me and told me as soon as she finished supper she had to sprint to the bathroom and she threw everything back up kinda solidified the fact she is pregnant in my head. I really am excited about this. If its a boy I know we are naming it Ty. She and I both like that name alot its simple and not very common. But I cant wait

[yungone501]

Congratulations!!!! pregnancy test are never "false positive" welcome to the elite community of fatherhood if you have specific question PM me and i will do my best to answer them for you

^^^this!!!

You are def a dad. Congrats!

[cyounger100]

well congrats but if i was you i would wait still in school and young as you say its not easy its very diffcult and stressful and it changes realationships once they come i waited till i was 28 and wish i waited longer you can never be prepared at your age for whats goin too happen gl and god bless

[yungone501]

I had my first child when i just turned 19, had it not been for having my son, id probably STILL been on the wrong path in life! God has funny ways of making things happen for certain reasons, for your own good. Take it all in a positive light, be a father, and enjoy the child. Never think of him/her as a burden...you brought it here. Love it, like you would love yourself...after all, it is a part of you.

[fattymcbutterpants]

I had my first child when i just turned 19, had it not been for having my son, id probably STILL been on the wrong path in life! God has funny ways of making things happen for certain reasons, for your own good. Take it all in a positive light, be a father, and enjoy the child. Never think of him/her as a burden...you brought it here. Love it, like you would love yourself...after all, it is a part of you.

I too am going to be 19 when the baby gets here, I will never address her being pregnant as a problem when I tell anyone because I truly am excited and know we are bringing this baby into the world together. I honestly cant wait now, thanks for all the good wishes guys

[Twist]

Am I the only one with a head on my shoulders here?

Great Idea! You are 18 (maybe 19), still in college with little to no income (guess), and now you want to quit(?) school and go work for a shipping company to start saving for a baby that you had with someone that you have been dating (not married) for how long? I would advise a 16 year old to take steroids before I told an 18 year old without a job to have a baby. At least one of them is only hurting themself...

[redz]

Congrats and good luck, babies are expensive better start saving!

[yungone501]

So Twist, dont you think its just a little too late for your point in this argument? It is what it is, period. His responsibilty as a man and father is to provide for his child, regardless of his circumstances. It is not the childs fault, it's still a life no matter how you look at it. What do you propose he do...abort the pregnancy...the easy way? Pshh, whatever.

[fattymcbutterpants]

I understand where you would be coming from Twist BEFORE she was pregnant coming from an advice standpoint, however it is reality now so none of that really matters. And also I never said a word about quitting school. The baby obviously is priority #1 but that doesnt mean I am dropping out of school. I dont even consider that an option.
Also I never said I didnt have a job. I haven't been without a job for more than a month or two since I was 16 not saying I have made a ton of money by any means but I still have some sort of income at least. The shipping company idea was me thinking outloud, just trying to find a job paying more than what I am making now. Starting at $13 an hour sounds much better than sticking with a minimum wage job with no chance of a raise.

I am just trying to find a better job so that I can still go to class and work as much as possible throughout. But I finish school in roughly 3 weeks for the summer. I have several yards that I will be mowing this summer, and with the income from a normal job stacked on top of that i will be able to save quite a bit before the baby gets here. Assuming 7 months, if I work 40 hours a week at $13 an hour, without taking out taxes that will be roughly 500 a week plus the income from doing yard work in the mornings so I think I should be able to save in the area of 8-10,000 for when the baby comes at least. I will more than likely save my entire paycheck and just use the yard money for gas and everything day to day you know. That should help me to save a good bit for the 3 of us. Also I have a good bit of my money invested currently that if I ever needed I could take out. Not many people my age can actually say that lol.

But anyways I understand what you meant Twist I just think its a little late for all that, and sorry for the long post but I think that should help explain my plan a little better and let you know I do have my head screwed on right lol

[grumpee]

Congrats man. Kids are pretty cool

[fattymcbutterpants]

Thanks man, I cant wait

[jbm]

Congrats DAD!

[fattymcbutterpants]

You know, you saying that really helps make it sink in JBM...and i couldnt be happier. Thanks for all the good wishes guys it means alot

[maxcaughey]

Before I say anything let me first say I am excited about this and she is too....and i am no douchebag haha so I am not saying this in a bad way lol. But so my girl and I havent been to the doctor yet, so of course it isnt 100% but she took 2 pregnancy tests this morning and both said she was pregnant. This weekend she had been feeling sick to her stomach and smells were bothering her and making her want to vomit at a baseball game we were at. Like a guys hotdog several seats down was making her sick. But so I think I am gonna be a dad

I am really excited, she and I are both young and in school so I guess you could say we should have been more careful and waited until we were out of school and married, but I plan on being with her till the end and being the best dad I can. Just thought I would post on here about it I just kinda wanted to let it out lol. But really I couldnt be happier, I am not looking forward to breaking the news to my family about it all since of course we arent married yet so they wont like that....But it will all be ok, I cant wait

Just wondering, were you on a cycle at the time? I wonder if being on gear would affect fertility.

[fattymcbutterpants]

Well being on cycle if it shuts down your testes can lower your sperm count of course, but I am pretty sure a ton of guys on here have gotten their girls pregnant while on cycle. Just depends on if they are shut down. But you know you hear about your sperm count being however million....but if you think about it, it only takes 1 to make it happen. Its just alot better odds of one making it if there is alot more

[maxcaughey]

Well being on cycle if it shuts down your testes can lower your sperm count of course, but I am pretty sure a ton of guys on here have gotten their girls pregnant while on cycle. Just depends on if they are shut down. But you know you hear about your sperm count being however million....but if you think about it, it only takes 1 to make it happen. Its just alot better odds of one making it if there is alot more

Very good points here and I also heard of guys getting their girls pregnant while on heavy stacks.

[stevey_6t9]

sorry to hear that bro.

[wmaousley]

Congrats and good luck, babies are expensive better start saving!

I have to disagree with this statement, I had hundreds of people scare the shlt out of me telling me I would always be broke, have no time for myself and would look ragged after a couple years, but I havent noticed the slightest strain on my budget from my daughter, she has more than any kid could want and I seem to have more money now then than I did before the baby was born. I guess I have learned to save.

[fattymcbutterpants]

sorry to hear that bro.

Don't be sorry for me man, nothing but happiness here

[Ladyblahblah]

You're right, Fattymcbutter. No need to play "shoulda, woulda, coulda". What's done has been done and you sound as though you are genuinely happy. All the best to you and your girl and congratulations!

Fatty's gonna be a Daddy!!!

[lovbyts]

I think I am gonna try to get a job with a shipping company or something so that I can start making some more money and start saving for us

Good short term plan but it usually fails. now is the time to continue concentrating on your CAREER, not just a job so you can more securely define the future and not just the next paycheck.

Having a kid does not mean your future plans, dreams or goals have to change. Did you think you would NEVER have a kid? It only means you have added responsibility now so instead of worry if you have enough money to get a nice apartment or other stuff your kid wont give a damn about finish school, work on the career so when it comes time for college you have the money, you will be able to buy a house sometime soon and when it comes time to retire your kid wont have to watch mom and dad on SSI (if there is such a thing then) or state assistance trying to figure out how to survive month by month.

If there is some should have, would have, could have it's never to late until it's to late depending on where you live and what your beliefs are.

Congratulation and good luck but keep focused the long haul.

BTW since you where on cycle or have been dont forget to get the paternity test done. Yeah yeah I know no need for that. It's funny reading all the stories of people who had to have a DNA match test done with them and their kids later in life due to??? only to find out, nope, he/she was not your kid and they had NO idea.... LOL

Yes, I have had it done.

[lovbyts]

I have to disagree with this statement, I had hundreds of people scare the shlt out of me telling me I would always be broke, have no time for myself and would look ragged after a couple years, but I havent noticed the slightest strain on my budget from my daughter, she has more than any kid could want and I seem to have more money now then than I did before the baby was born. I guess I have learned to save.

That's because you are only looking at it from YOUR situation. For a lot of people and most people it is some what of a strain and it is expensive.

Yes I have a LOT more money than I did before my daughter was born. I have a LOT more stuff. She has never went without either. If I did not have her and everything else was equal or the same I would defiantly have a LOT more than I do now. No matter how you add it up 2 is always more expensive than 1 unless you are getting compensated in some way or the other person is bringing in income equal or more than yours. It's just logic and common sense.

[bjpennnn]

congrats bro

[Flier]

I understand where you would be coming from Twist BEFORE she was pregnant coming from an advice standpoint, however it is reality now so none of that really matters. And also I never said a word about quitting school. The baby obviously is priority #1 but that doesnt mean I am dropping out of school. I dont even consider that an option.
Also I never said I didnt have a job. I haven't been without a job for more than a month or two since I was 16 not saying I have made a ton of money by any means but I still have some sort of income at least. The shipping company idea was me thinking outloud, just trying to find a job paying more than what I am making now. Starting at $13 an hour sounds much better than sticking with a minimum wage job with no chance of a raise.

I am just trying to find a better job so that I can still go to class and work as much as possible throughout. But I finish school in roughly 3 weeks for the summer. I have several yards that I will be mowing this summer, and with the income from a normal job stacked on top of that i will be able to save quite a bit before the baby gets here. Assuming 7 months, if I work 40 hours a week at $13 an hour, without taking out taxes that will be roughly 500 a week plus the income from doing yard work in the mornings so I think I should be able to save in the area of 8-10,000 for when the baby comes at least. I will more than likely save my entire paycheck and just use the yard money for gas and everything day to day you know. That should help me to save a good bit for the 3 of us. Also I have a good bit of my money invested currently that if I ever needed I could take out. Not many people my age can actually say that lol.

But anyways I understand what you meant Twist I just think its a little late for all that, and sorry for the long post but I think that should help explain my plan a little better and let you know I do have my head screwed on right lol

Wow...sound like u got a real good head on your shoulders, and u´re only 18...
Just comparing to myself when I was 18.

I got my date pregnant, and had my daughter at 26, she´s now 15. It´s been an incredible 15 years, so full of beautiful experiences. The things we do as responsible Dad´s for our children has an positive feedback loop on ourselves, enhancing our own lives.
Watch as the experience of everything u do is enhanced when u do it with her/him. Going to the beach, walk in the woods, to the store, riding the car, vacations, playing in the pool, observing a bird for the first time, climbing a tree, petting a dog, listening to music, having ice cream. Everything is a new exciting experience for the child, and if u learn to stay in the moment with him/her, u will find a newfound fascination for life, taught by your child; I did.

There will be frustrating moments, but never argue with the child in the house or vicinity, and keep your gym membership.

[cro]

4 here. congrats.

[D7M]

Must be something in the water around here, seems like a lot of guys are getting their girls pregnant.


Congrats man!

[Standby]

Am I the only one with a head on my shoulders here?

Great Idea! You are 18 (maybe 19), still in college with little to no income (guess), and now you want to quit(?) school and go work for a shipping company to start saving for a baby that you had with someone that you have been dating (not married) for how long? I would advise a 16 year old to take steroids before I told an 18 year old without a job to have a baby. At least one of them is only hurting themself...

sorry to hear that bro.

sorry man but this is where i stand. i know its done and over with now. guess i wont get into my thoughts on the options there are now

[DSM4Life]

Same here. Had sex lastnight and now his stomach hurts.

[Times Roman]

I am at a loss when I try to think of a moment in my life happier than the birth of my children! Congratulations!!

But.... do what ever you need to do, live with parents? But suck it up and stay in school. What appears to be a "higher paying job" today, may end up being a dead end, no opportunity for improvement rut later on.

[calgarian]

sorry man but this is where i stand. i know its done and over with now. guess i wont get into my thoughts on the options there are now

dont worry stack will not get u pregnant.....

[Standby]

dont worry stack will not get u pregnant.....

see stack it cant get me prego cause im on the pill, he wears a condom. i take the morning after pill every morning. and once a week i stick a coat hanger in there and give er a good turn just incase

[calgarian]

see stack it cant get me prego cause im on the pill, he wears a condom. i take the morning after pill every morning. and once a week i stick a coat hanger in there and give er a good turn just incase

see u smarten up after i rip the condom.......good to know that lesson learned.

[Standby]

see u smarten up after i rip the condom.......good to know that lesson learned.

lmao asshole