Sick of meeting 'piece of shit' women

[Gaspari1255]

I find that the women I meet are at the same level that I am at the time. If I feel good about myself, I tend to meet women who are more secure. If I am down, well, I meet women who are down. Likes attract, I guess.

Quality post brother. very true

[Hazard]

That fvcking state trooper from Studio is STILL trying to take me to court. Dudeeee...it was three months ago, you're okay, get the fvck over it. Best part is, I just put in my application to the state police the other day. LOL

LMFAO! That'll piss him off when he finds out he's on video taking a swing at you. Then he'll shit if you become a trooper..... (I want a get out jail free card btw)

~Haz~

[gixxerboy1]

lol everyone has a studio story

[Hazard]

lol everyone has a studio story

I was bouncing that night with him..... I actually escorted that trooper out unless it's a diff trooper he's talkin about. The fvckin guy put his hands on another bouncer..... he was LOADED..... and he didn't want to leave. He was flashing his badge.... "i'm a trooper bro..... i'm a trooper" - so I picked his 5'7 ass right up off the ground and carried him to the front LMAO! He put all his weight down and made me fall..... and rip the blazer I was wearing (bronzer's LMAO) - once we got him outside he became a bigger dick.....

~Haz~

[gixxerboy1]

lol. I didnt know you guys work there. That place is a crack house. I spent many after hours there. Before there was even tru

[Hazard]

Yeah it's not such a crackhouse anymore lol..... upscale people were there when I was there. You still have the blow/pill crowd but those people have $$ and don't act like idiots.

A true crackhouse was "liquid vibe" in Queens, NY. ALLLLLLL kinds of shady shit went on there..... I wondered how it was even still open. A few months later it got shut down LOL.

~Haz~

[JohnnyVegas]

Find a decent woman in your industry (not necessarily in your office) or at a get together for a common interest (physics club, car club, 5K run, accounting networking, Star Trek convention, anything you are interested in). Meeting someone with a common interest ups the odds of compatibility.

Let your friends know you are looking to stop dating club girls and ask if they know anyone with a decent head on their shoulders. This requires you to be a good guy as you are accountable to your friends.

Sometimes it is just dumb luck. The best girlfriend I had (besides my wife) was a girl I saw in the parking lot of my office every day. We smiled and waved for weeks before I asked if I could take her to lunch.

[gixxerboy1]

i assumed it changed, since you worked there. All the staff years ago was trannies. I remember the guy at the door was like 6'3 in drag. Waitress were dudes with implants

[Hazard]

i assumed it changed, since you worked there. All the staff years ago was trannies. I remember the guy at the door was like 6'3 in drag. Waitress were dudes with implants

The owner is a tranny chaser

I wanted to lay the pipe with one of the female bartenders lol..... so I ask him (brozer) wha ther name was and he gives me the wrong name lol. Then 2 weeks later tells me shes got a bf......

LMAO omg I almost forgot..... I get there an this fvckin kidd pulls out a ziplock bag full of broccoli LMAO! I was like wtf? Broccoli? lololol

~Haz~

[gixxerboy1]

The owner is a tranny chaser

I wanted to lay the pipe with one of the female bartenders lol..... so I ask him (brozer) wha ther name was and he gives me the wrong name lol. Then 2 weeks later tells me shes got a bf......

LMAO omg I almost forgot..... I get there an this fvckin kidd pulls out a ziplock bag full of broccoli LMAO! I was like wtf? Broccoli? lololol

~Haz~

no wonder he cant meet normal girls. He is walking around with a bag of broccoli in his pocket

[zimmy]

;-)

[Narkissos]

lol im 19 and about to propose. been together for over 3 years now

Good for you bro.

Get some counseling first though... make sure you two are on the same page.

Good luck.

[Narkissos]

yeah i like that one as well! i am 29 and just found a good girl, so i think. i was a party goer at 22 and wasn't even thinking of finding a mate at that time. i actually dated older women at this point in time, and was with a 29 year old with an 11 year old! yeah, what the F was i thinking! i wasn't! i agree what the old fukker said above and that if you want to find a mate, you have to venture out to other social places. maybe go sign up for some event, social club/organization, professional society, or go to church if you want to find a good woman!

Church is the last place I'd go to look for a 'good woman' to be honest.

[lovbyts]

Good for you bro.

Get some counseling first though... make sure you two are on the same page.

Good luck.

They may be on the same page but will they at 25, 30, 35, 40 etc?

Ohhh to be young and dumb again. If I had it to do again I would have waited until I was..... maybe another 2 or 3 years from now....

[Narkissos]

Imo in order to have a normal, healthy relationship in todays world you must come to grasp with a few things or you willl be doomed.

One thing you must understand about women today (unforchantly) is that 99.9% of them are whores...its mostly a cultural thing which says its ok to sleep around...its in music, t.v, movies ect ect. If you plan on dating an attractive women you kinda just have to accept her past and only worry about what she does while shes with you or it will drive you crazy and ruin a relationship! I am willing to bet that by the age of 20 the avg north american women had slept with atleast 10-15 guys and thats just the avg....there are many women out there who have slept with 50 plus guys by that time.

The next thing you must understand is that alot of women today have serious bagage and or "daddy issues" this can lead to big problems!! unless you know how to handle somone like this...you really must learn about how women think and act in order to change somone...some will say "you dont need to change somone" but that B.S! If you really like a girl and she is your idel women but has some issues she need to work through then help her

Agreed.

Which is why I'm glad that I live where I live. The American forums and bros are cool... but a lot of things are continually a culture shock for me.

and in the end she will realize how much you have changed her in a positive way....If you make a women feel good about her self and become more responsible, respectable, and confident she will realize that you reallt care about her and she will have nothing but respect for you! BUT....most guys have no idea how to do this, most guys get whipped by this type of women and they **** everything up! Try to study some pick up artist material, also pick up some books on how women think and how men think...you will learn how to pick up on little things that women do in order to test you or how to deal with their emotions.

Not sure I agree with this... but each to his own.

I met my gf when she was 19, she was a knock out! beautiful and fun to be around but had a total case of daddy issues! really low self esteem, and she was just messed up haha at the time I was a pick up artist and I was lucky enouph to understand why she acted the way she did...she went from being a highschool drop out, with a shitty job, partying every night and sleeping around to now going to college, having a great job!, and she is the best gf I could ever ask for!

No one is perfect and people can change if they really want to...problem is most guys are pussies and dont know what women really want.

I don't think most *women* know what they want...furthermore guys knowing what a woman wants.

[Narkissos]

They may be on the same page but will they at 25, 30, 35, 40 etc?

Ohhh to be young and dumb again. If I had it to do again I would have waited until I was..... maybe another 2 or 3 years from now....

In this day and age it's hard to say who will be where in 20+ years. Our parents and forefathers had a much simpler way of doing things.

However, if we chose to never do things based on the possibility that it would be obsolete/redundant/changed in a few years, none of us would do anything.

No school. No working out. Nothing.

*shrugs*

[kalspic]

wait so bronzer pulled out a bag od brocolli in the middle of work at a bar? if thats true thats fvcking epic

[Gaspari1255]

wait so bronzer pulled out a bag od brocolli in the middle of work at a bar? if thats true thats fvcking epic

yes. with some grilled chicken also. Bag of brocoli in my left hand, chicken breast in my right, and a bottle of water chilling in the inside pocket of my blazer.

[Gaspari1255]

--------Update--------

I was in Guess today shopping for some clothes (Haz shut up---I bought XL-XXLs) and this cute 25 year old blonde approached me. We chatted briefly and she asked if I had a gf,which was a big NO. She told me she didn't have a bf either. She's a part time bottle server at a big club near me, and on Thursday night, they're are closing it down for a private party for employees only. She told me stop by around Midnight because she wants to see me.


maybe this is light at the end of the tunnel....I will keep you fvckers posted on this one. I met her at a clothing store instead of a bar/lounge/club, one step in the right direction!

Tomorrow I'm gonna go hangout in Express and Armani and try the same thing again.

[gixxerboy1]

yes. with some grilled chicken also. Bag of brocoli in my left hand, chicken breast in my right, and a bottle of water chilling in the inside pocket of my blazer.

everyone knows girls find cauliflower sexier then broccoli

[Gaspari1255]

everyone knows girls find cauliflower sexier then broccoli

Anything beats the asparagus flavored cum! Don't think many women dig that....

[Hazard]

LMFAO! BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Leave the broccoli at home for the party

I wanna go

~Haz~

[RaginCajun]

--------Update--------

I was in Guess today shopping for some clothes (Haz shut up---I bought XL-XXLs) and this cute 25 year old blonde approached me. We chatted briefly and she asked if I had a gf,which was a big NO. She told me she didn't have a bf either. She's a part time bottle server at a big club near me, and on Thursday night, they're are closing it down for a private party for employees only. She told me stop by around Midnight because she wants to see me.


maybe this is light at the end of the tunnel....I will keep you fvckers posted on this one. I met her at a clothing store instead of a bar/lounge/club, one step in the right direction!

Tomorrow I'm gonna go hangout in Express and Armani and try the same thing again.

HAHAHAHAHA! good stuff there! i guess your headed in the right direction, she approached you! same situation it sounds like though, she works at a BAR! but, try it out and see how she is, maybe something is there!

[Kawigirl]

yes. with some grilled chicken also. Bag of brocoli in my left hand, chicken breast in my right, and a bottle of water chilling in the inside pocket of my blazer.

I'd be all over you like a wet tshirt!!!

[kalspic]

hahahaha thats too funny. did you catch any shit for it?

[stack_it]

--------Update--------

I was in Guess today shopping for some clothes (Haz shut up---I bought XL-XXLs) and this cute 25 year old blonde approached me. We chatted briefly and she asked if I had a gf,which was a big NO. She told me she didn't have a bf either. She's a part time bottle server at a big club near me, and on Thursday night, they're are closing it down for a private party for employees only. She told me stop by around Midnight because she wants to see me.


maybe this is light at the end of the tunnel....I will keep you fvckers posted on this one. I met her at a clothing store instead of a bar/lounge/club, one step in the right direction!

Tomorrow I'm gonna go hangout in Express and Armani and try the same thing again.

From experience, 95% or more of the girls that work in that environment live their lives in that environment. Bartenders and servers are always out when they're not at work. It's like self promotion. Plus since they work nights usually they are usually up late and there's not a whole lot to do other than go to the bars at midnight. Not to mention most of their friend are more than likely in the industry and will always be inviting them out. I dated a bartender for years and have many friends who are bartenders/servers. The relationships never last. Going out on the weekends is one thing but they tend to go out mon-thurs and then work all weekend so they're constantly in a bar...


Good luck tho. Maybe she's one of the few.

[Twist]

--------Update--------

I was in Guess today shopping for some clothes (Haz shut up---I bought XL-XXLs) and this cute 25 year old blonde approached me. We chatted briefly and she asked if I had a gf,which was a big NO. She told me she didn't have a bf either. She's a part time bottle server at a big club near me, and on Thursday night, they're are closing it down for a private party for employees only. She told me stop by around Midnight because she wants to see me.


maybe this is light at the end of the tunnel....I will keep you fvckers posted on this one. I met her at a clothing store instead of a bar/lounge/club, one step in the right direction!

Tomorrow I'm gonna go hangout in Express and Armani and try the same thing again.

Bro she may be quality, but she may not. More likely she is the same girl. She asked you out, not too many girls with the qualities you are looking for do that in my experiences. She also works at a club, same girl as if you met her at a club. You gotta go to other places to meet girls bro, trust me. read my post on page 2.

From experience, 95% or more of the girls that work in that environment live their lives in that environment. Bartenders and servers are always out when they're not at work. It's like self promotion. Plus since they work nights usually they are usually up late and there's not a whole lot to do other than go to the bars at midnight. Not to mention most of their friend are more than likely in the industry and will always be inviting them out. I dated a bartender for years and have many friends who are bartenders/servers. The relationships never last. Going out on the weekends is one thing but they tend to go out mon-thurs and then work all weekend so they're constantly in a bar...


Good luck tho. Maybe she's one of the few.

exactly

[Gaspari1255]

I cannot seem to get away from the bartenders and bottle servers. I just counted---the last 5 women I dated were bartenders. I didn't even realize that until I thought about it now. yeah, this is probably gonna be another train wreck. Maybe I'll go there tonight with intentions of banging her and banging her ONLY

[Kawigirl]

I cannot seem to get away from the bartenders and bottle servers. I just counted---the last 5 women I dated were bartenders. I didn't even realize that until I thought about it now. yeah, this is probably gonna be another train wreck. Maybe I'll go there tonight with intentions of banging her and banging her ONLY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aqlb1...F1791F3340E1BB

sorry...had too

[Gaspari1255]

Lmao!!!!!!!!!!!

[Twist]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aqlb1...F1791F3340E1BB

sorry...had too

LMFAO!! ahahahahahahahahahaha.


Seriously bro, you need to do things that the women you want are gonna be doing too. Describe your ideal woman's activities and interests

[RaginCajun]

From experience, 95% or more of the girls that work in that environment live their lives in that environment. Bartenders and servers are always out when they're not at work. It's like self promotion. Plus since they work nights usually they are usually up late and there's not a whole lot to do other than go to the bars at midnight. Not to mention most of their friend are more than likely in the industry and will always be inviting them out. I dated a bartender for years and have many friends who are bartenders/servers. The relationships never last. Going out on the weekends is one thing but they tend to go out mon-thurs and then work all weekend so they're constantly in a bar...


Good luck tho. Maybe she's one of the few.

bingo!

[Gaspari1255]

Another epic fvcking fail tonight

I go out to to the private party/club she told me to show up to (alone---she encouraged that) at midnight. She's not there yet..So I already feel like a jackass, being that I don't know any of these people. She shows up about a half hour later looking phenominal. She asks me how old I am and I reply with "22" and she kind of had this look of shock on her face. She then tells me that shes 27 and we chat briefly. She says "I have to go make my rounds and say hi to the other coworkers, I'll be right back...."

20 minutes goes by, as I stand there with my dick in my hand, not mingling because once again- I don't know ANYONE there but her. Her friend walks up and says "Houston we have a problem...her ex boyfriend just showed up and hes one jealous bastard."

So I pretty much go the hint and said "Okay, I understand...I'll leave"

Her friend says "Well, uhh, you don't have to leave."

I said "Well do you expect me to just stand in the corner by myself all night?"

She has no response.

I just walked out. What a shitty night. Basically, she thought I was older I guess and wanted nothing to do with me once she found out I was that young. I don't buy into that whole "my ex bf is here bullshit"

0/8

FML....I really can't make this shit up, I'm not creative enough to make up all these shitshow stories with me and the women I encounter.


I'm gonna go shoot some Tren , eat some cottage cheese, and cuddle with my pillow tonight.

[auslifta]

Why didnt you go interact with the people there. You only live once brother, you never know who you might meet, maybe a business partner, one of her friends might have liked you. Prob the one that came and spoke to you.

[auslifta]

Unless you're a rock star or movie star you're not going to get women all over you coming up to you. You gotta play the game. I think the girls you "meet" are the ones that approach you and not ones you approach.

[Twist]

Describe the activities your ideal girl would have. What hobbies and activities?

[terraj]

Another epic fvcking fail tonight

I go out to to the private party/club she told me to show up to (alone---she encouraged that) at midnight. She's not there yet..So I already feel like a jackass, being that I don't know any of these people. She shows up about a half hour later looking phenominal. She asks me how old I am and I reply with "22" and she kind of had this look of shock on her face. She then tells me that shes 27 and we chat briefly. She says "I have to go make my rounds and say hi to the other coworkers, I'll be right back...."

20 minutes goes by, as I stand there with my dick in my hand, not mingling because once again- I don't know ANYONE there but her. Her friend walks up and says "Houston we have a problem...her ex boyfriend just showed up and hes one jealous bastard."

So I pretty much go the hint and said "Okay, I understand...I'll leave"

Her friend says "Well, uhh, you don't have to leave."

I said "Well do you expect me to just stand in the corner by myself all night?"

She has no response.

I just walked out. What a shitty night. Basically, she thought I was older I guess and wanted nothing to do with me once she found out I was that young. I don't buy into that whole "my ex bf is here bullshit"

0/8

FML....I really can't make this shit up, I'm not creative enough to make up all these shitshow stories with me and the women I encounter.


I'm gonna go shoot some Tren, eat some cottage cheese, and cuddle with my pillow tonight.

Your are 22 firstly...strike 1, maybe. Then she gave you distance and watched you or had her firends watch you, you stood there look a stale bottle of piss, instead of talking and enjoying yourself...more then likley had a unhappy look on your face, she thinks he is no fun, bye.

Sound about right?

[Gaspari1255]

Your are 22 firstly...strike 1, maybe. Then she gave you distance and watched you or had her firends watch you, you stood there look a stale bottle of piss, instead of talking and enjoying yourself...more then likley had a unhappy look on your face, she thinks he is no fun, bye.

Sound about right?

Let me hit you with these variables once again:

1.) She invites me to HER private work party
2.) She tells me to come ALONE
3.) Everyone knows everyone there, EXCEPT me
4.) She did not introduce me to anyone
5.) I came there for HER and HER only, how would it be right of me to hit on other women?

So now I ask you, who the fvck was I supposed to start talking to? I did nothing wrong. When you invite someone out somewhere, especially when they don't know anyone, you either a) introduce them to people or b) stay with them all night.

[terraj]

Let me hit you with these variables once again:

1.) She invites me to HER private work party
2.) She tells me to come ALONE
3.) Everyone knows everyone there, EXCEPT me
4.) She did not introduce me to anyone
5.) I came there for HER and HER only, how would it be right of me to hit on other women?

So now I ask you, who the fvck was I supposed to start talking to? I did nothing wrong. When you invite someone out somewhere, especially when they don't know anyone, you either a) introduce them to people or b) stay with them all night.

You are wound to tight man, guess she was right huh...to young.

[auslifta]

Let me hit you with these variables once again:

1.) She invites me to HER private work party
2.) She tells me to come ALONE
3.) Everyone knows everyone there, EXCEPT me
4.) She did not introduce me to anyone
5.) I came there for HER and HER only, how would it be right of me to hit on other women?

So now I ask you, who the fvck was I supposed to start talking to? I did nothing wrong. When you invite someone out somewhere, especially when they don't know anyone, you either a) introduce them to people or b) stay with them all night.