Well I guess I got what I wanted

[Jessgirl]

I agree with razr.......Good girls are hard to come by, but you not even waiting till your sheets are warm and asking if cool to bring chick in! Whoring around gets old.Don't you have any motels near you ???????

[redz]

My house is just so much better than a motel, but i will tread carefully. The last thing I want is some huge confrontation.

[awms]

She is Colombian

It seems like many people are always chasing happiness...they think that being single and partying will make them happy, they think more money will make them happy, they think a new city will make them happy, instead of trying to find meaning in life and appreciating what they have they complain and focus on all the negatives. If you are always chasing happiness then you will never find it and partying can be fun for a while but it gets old fast! The sluty, self absorbed, materalistic women you sleep with will not be there for you at the end of the day, they are not going to be there for you when you break down crying and need someone to vent to, they are not going to support you financially when you loose your job or run into hard times, they will not hold you at night or raise your children, you will have no bond with these women. The friends who you call "friends" will disappear as soon as you provide no benefit to them, the friends you have who are looking out for your best interest will soon disappear because many of them will get married, have kids, and have no interest in hanging around strip joints and bars....The grass is always greener on the other side!

As men even when we are in relationships we all think "that girl is hot I would love to sleep with her!" but you have to have the common sens to know that its just infatuation and doesn't mean a thing, You have to re discover what made you fall in love with your wife in the first place and keep that flame alive! I would personally much rather have my gf over any women because I know she has my back no matter what! she is there for me! we have a bond that no one eles can take from us! I consider my self a very good looking guy, I am very out going, and built so I get hit on a lot! but I never put my self in a situation were I could cheat....the other day I got my hair cut and the hair dresser who was very good looking was hitting on me, I flirted a bit but then quickly caught my self and started talking about my gf, I could see that the hair dresser was disappointed but so what?? I made a commitment to my gf. This is something that you need to learn in order to have a healthy relationship.

[< <Samson> >]

No Pic? We really need to see her to give you a full life eval here.

[redz]

I posted a pic in another thread......
http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...digging-a-hole

[< <Samson> >]

Wtf?

[SimplyFlawless]

The wife packed her bags and left on Friday. She cleared out her clothes and things. I feel good and bad about this right now but honestly I am having alot of fun. My dilema is the moral question of whether I can bring a girl to my place at this point. She still has a key so theoretically she could randomly show up.

OF COURSE!! Come on the best way to get over someone is to have sex with someone else. Otherwise you just dwell on it for far too long. Man-whoring is really the best thing you can do at this point to clear your head and be happy. Just hope the ex doesn't show up during the act

[spywizard]

it doesn't take much cash to change the lock..

[awms]

So let me get this strait? you have a hot wife who treat you well and all she really wants is commitment, and some attention and you would rather run around with randoms???? Its hard to find a good looking girl who is also a good wife! I have a very good looking gf who I live with and plan on getting married to, she is super fit! hot, can cook, she has amazing work ethic ect ect....but yet still my eyes wonder and I have of course thought about sleeping with other women but I think that only natural! the key is to spend time with each other, you need to keep physical and try new things in the sack, keep it fresh! go away together on vacation! find other couple friends, get hobbies that you can both enjoy together ect ect....she should be your best friend bro! shes your wife!

Some of the best words were spoken by howard stern: "Show me the hottest women in the world, and I will show you a man who's tired of sleeping with her" Its normal for your eyes to wonder man but you have to realize that its just infatuation, its meaningless and if you got to know those girls and dated them, after a while you would get bored and wonder to another girl....there are lots of hot women in the world! but not a lot of hot women who are marriage material.

[spywizard]

one man's lunch is another man's Manna..

[< <Samson> >]

I guess so, OP must be a super stud. If you get with even a hotter chick that you do like, you really are the man - An ass hole, but still the man.

[Bryan2]

Life goes on,

Everyone knew this is where is was going, including you. Embrace the decision that you made because this is where your life is now. You can dwell on stuff you can't affect, like what if this or what if that but in the end you should just deal with where you are now and run with it.

[redz]

I guess so, OP must be a super stud. If you get with even a hotter chick that you do like, you really are the man - An ass hole, but still the man.

I crushed a smoking hot chick last night, I love this life lol.

Life goes on,

Everyone knew this is where is was going, including you. Embrace the decision that you made because this is where your life is now. You can dwell on stuff you can't affect, like what if this or what if that but in the end you should just deal with where you are now and run with it.

It's great, I have re-united with so many friends and had more fun than I can even remember in just a short time. I think I even have a booty call lined up for tonight.

[< <Samson> >]

Live it up, nothing wrong with that.


Super Stud Status!

[RaginCajun]

if your wife ever catches wind of this website, your ass is crispy burnt toast in court!

[Standby]

new thread... Redz smashed picture thread. you post pics of all your kills. do it, do it

[paulzane]

one man's lunch is another man's Mama..

Changed to what it sould be ....lol

[redz]

new thread... Redz smashed picture thread. you post pics of all your kills. do it, do it

I didn`t even get the girls last name or number lol just did her twice then fell asleep woke up and dropped her off at her car downtown. I just gave her my business card lol.

[GirlyGymRat]

I think I want to be a man hater after reading all your threads....

[< <Samson> >]

Some say man hatter some say super stud!

2 for pic thread!

[gixxerboy1]

I think I want to be a man hater after reading all your threads....

I've been bad. Do you want to spank me lmao

[oscarjones]

Man I've been where you are redz. It's your call mate. If I were you, I'd probably bang the chick in my car (girls seem to love that for some reason), or her pad or a hotel. Bringing her back to the house this soon is bad joo joo. Also, seems like you and you're wife been through a lot, in the end if you fought as much as you claim, it's probably for the best you don't live together, or see each other... but how would you feel if you knew your wife was banging another dude, and bringing him to her place? Or better yet, if you decided to leave the house and she had a dude over there, in your bed, getting fvcked? Kinda crazy to think about, huh?

[Simon1972]

sorry redz- respect for you being a knowledgable member and having in excess of 9000 posts- you are obviously well respected on these boards...but i dont think its right to be disrespecting the woman you married, or your marriage on the net, especially considering you posted her image ( on another thread).

Your life is in turmoil, chest beating and trying to impress the guy with stories of conquests seem a little shallow and lacking in class.

no need to air your laundry and boast about it here- makes for interesting reading- but its not what you want to do or be remebered for.

consider removing her image and get some help for yourself. If she is as good a wife as you have posted she deserves at least to not be dragged through the net and be made a fool for having loved you.

best of luck in resolving your issues.

peace brother.

as far as everyone else is concerned- dont think we should belittle this woman or takes redz situation as a joke- this kind of situation is extremely sad and intense for either or both and as adults we shouldnt be taking advantage of it for a quick laugh.

rant over

[redz]

I know I've been immature, but I am happy now. Never felt as great as I do now and that is what is important. Maybe I went too far banging a 22 year old chick in our bed but this was already over. I hung out with her cousin last night and told him some things anyways but I doubt he would relay them to her.

[FONZY007]

I know I've been immature, but I am happy now. Never felt as great as I do now and that is what is important. Maybe I went too far banging a 22 year old chick in our bed but this was already over. I hung out with her cousin last night and told him some things anyways but I doubt he would relay them to her.

Are u even talking to your wife, she didn't seem bad.. Why not try and fix what u had? Plus she is hot probably has a good head on her shoulders, I'm confused why u did all this .. Seems to me you wanted to be a singles man, how long where You married for?

[Razor]

Where did you meet your wife She's not natrualized right?

[GirlyGymRat]

I've been bad. Do you want to spank me lmao

[gixxerboy1]

I wonder if your wife is out having the same amount of fun

[JimmySidewalk]

I wonder if your wife is out having the same amount of fun

Did you ever ask yourself the same question in your marriage ? With the distance between you and arguements and all.

[gixxerboy1]

Did you ever ask yourself the same question in your marriage ? With the distance between you and arguements and all.

wh have the distance because she cant move at this time. We arent arguing at all. What did you mean by that?

[JimmySidewalk]

I thought you were separated because you argued at some point, or so i thought i read in some of your posts.

[gixxerboy1]

I thought you were separated because you argued at some point, or so i thought i read in some of your posts.

yes we were separated, we got back together about a year ago. And we get along great now.

[BG]

I dont know why you guys even respond to his dumb threads anymore, its almost as bad as him thinking he's going to get big working out at his own gym at his house. I hope he crashes and burns for being so stupid and inconsiderate. Thats being nice to, just got home from church.

[JimmySidewalk]

yes we were separated, we got back together about a year ago. And we get along great now.

How long were you separated and how did you go about it ? I mean how did you behave towards her and she towards you when separated ?
And if its not too personal, what was the reason you broke up and what made you get back together again ?

[frank13]

I dont know why you guys even respond to his dumb threads anymore, its almost as bad as him thinking he's going to get big working out at his own gym at his house. I hope he crashes and burns for being so stupid and inconsiderate. Thats being nice to, just got home from church.

sorry but I agree with BG

[gixxerboy1]

How long were you separated and how did you go about it ? I mean how did you behave towards her and she towards you when separated ?
And if its not too personal, what was the reason you broke up and what made you get back together again ?

we were fighting over money and some mutual friend was lying to each of us about each other. So that caused more drama. When we decided to separation i gave her the option of staying or leaving where were living. She wanted to stay where we were so i left. We talked and agreed on splitting what bills and such. We really didnt talk for months unless it was about something we needed to. We really hated each other at that time.
Then we started talking little by little. We both missed each other. And realized we both made mistakes. And put the past in the past.

[kif]

Redz knowledgeable member, yea right. You go on 5 day benders getting F'ed up. Treat your wife worse than an animal. Please do me a favor don't give me any advice. About time you lose that color red. Just sayin, loser

[SEOINAGE]

I dont know why you guys even respond to his dumb threads anymore, its almost as bad as him thinking he's going to get big working out at his own gym at his house. I hope he crashes and burns for being so stupid and inconsiderate. Thats being nice to, just got home from church.

Wait we can't get big working out at home? Don't have enough machines to get jacked? Or is our barbells not good enough? Otherwise I agree with your statement about reds