How important is oral sex in your relationship? serious

[PistolPete33]

This is one of the biggest fights without question sexually with my wife. She isn't a fan of giving oral but of course a fan of receiving. Before we were married I got it all the time but once we were married they pretty much stopped. I'm lucky if I get 10 minutes worth PER YEAR and it's not cutting it. I'm trying to build a case of how important it is with regards to a healthy relationship. Been having marriage issues for the past year or so and we're trying to put everything on the table so every serious response is very appreciated.

[JinNtonic]

Its important to please our partners.

[Hoggage_54]

Stand next to divorce papers, get a hard on, and say "make your choice".

[Black]

Stand next to divorce papers, get a hard on, and say "make your choice".

Bahahahahaha

[Hazard]

If you rely solely on sex for life - things get stale. She needs to change things up just as you do with her. It keeps a marriage healthy.

[Black]

Receiving oral sex only works on me if the giver enjoys it (or at least fools me into thinking she does). Once I know they don't (like my wife), it doesn't matter how long they go. I still enjoy it a lot, just probably won't finish that way.

With that being said, I get maybe 5, 30-45 second sessions a year.

[Black]

If you rely solely on sex for life - things get stale. She needs to change things up just as you do with her. It keeps a marriage healthy.

Amen brother. And my wife wonders why I don't initiate sex much anymore. Bad thing is, I've told her.

[Hazard]

If I ask..... She'll doit. Every once in a while she'll start with it before sex but that's slowly fading. The road head and spontaneous bj's have stopped.....

[Hoggage_54]

[Hazard]

Amen brother. And my wife wonders why I don't initiate sex much anymore. Bad thing is, I've told her.

Yep I don't really initiate anymore either. We're both head strong too so even though we both know we want it..... We won't doit cuz neither will initiate.

She says "ill doit anytime you want....." But the two or three times I NEEDED it and asked..... I must have caught her at extremely bad times or I just have shit luck. The last time she brought up why I don't initiate I told her it was because the few times I tried to she said no. You say no..... I'm done. I won't ask again. I refuse to let any woman think I absolutely need her whisker biscuit.

I know it all sounds bad lol but when we go at it..... It's actually meaningful..... Every time. Love her to death..... Now only if I can get her to swallow the protein infused loads

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[DAAS]

Surprise her one day and tie her up and fvck her silly. Just do something to livin things up again.

But blow jobs are far more caring than sex imo. Getting a blow job is the best.

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[lovbyts]

If I had to choose between sex or BJs is BJs every time. I love to give as much as get and luckily that has never been a problem with any of the 3 wife's. 1st one wouldn't swallow but that's ok..

I have made it clear with each relationship that giving up or stopping oral was a deL breaker. Sometimes I can take to long due to no sleep or medication and say stop before I finish but that is after a good 30 minutes or more.

Its fun as a warm up but even better to finish. To me its very important.

[DAAS]

I cant get off on a BJ, but I like them more than sex. My last 2 girl friends have given me hour long blow jobs to where the bed is soaked with their saliva. That meant more to me than any words they ever told me. They typically didnt like it just because it took so long. But I always returned the favor. They mean a lot.

If I had to choose between sex or BJs is BJs every time. I love to give as much as get and luckily that has never been a problem with any of the 3 wife's. 1st one wouldn't swallow but that's ok..

I have made it clear with each relationship that giving up or stopping oral was a deL breaker. Sometimes I can take to long due to no sleep or medication and say stop before I finish but that is after a good 30 minutes or more.

Its fun as a warm up but even better to finish. To me its very important.

[skaz915]

Rather have oral than regular. My gf is the same as your wife likes to receive but not give. I just stopped doing it to her until she does it to me. I really do think that's fair '

[Black]

Surprise her one day and tie her up and fvck her silly. Just do something to livin things up again.

But blow jobs are far more caring than sex imo. Getting a blow job is the best.

I agree. A meaningful BJ says "I love you" more than anything else. Anal sex usually say "I'm scared you are going to leave me."

Outside of sex, our relationship is the best its ever been. However, we're more friends now than anything. Which is good and bad.

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Man do i feel a lot better after reading this thread

Ps. Im lookn to get a bj tonite!

[Rwy]

Love Tori Black

[Hazard]

Man do i feel a lot better after reading this thread

Ps. Im lookn to get a bj tonite!

As a matter of fact..... I may request one tonight. I'm goin for the trifecta....

BJ to vag to ass for the finish

[marcus300]

If she won't do it just do it to yoursel while she's there. That normally fuks them up

[Back In Black]

Fvck it, I'm gonna ask too. Increase the chances of one of us getting lucky.

[Back In Black]

If she won't do it just do it to yoursel while she's there. That normally fuks them up

Lmfao.

I'd like this but your button has disappeared again:/

[Rwy]

Full disclosure....Love it but always had a extremely hard time finishing without helping a girl. I think girls have been successful maybe 5 or 6 times and they really had to ****ing work for it. I have been with some real ****ing talented bitches in my time too.

Its has disappeared in the 5 years of dating my fiancee. It has been the topic of heated discussion at points in our relationship also. So bad where I have said you want me to cheat well this will def send me off. We are currently in a standoff that is not being talked about. I think its been about 4 months and I am not doing it to her and she is not doing it to me. We bang 2-3 times a week but oral is not a big part of our relationship and I am kinda learning to deal with it.

[Rwy]

If she won't do it just do it to yoursel while she's there. That normally fuks them up

There have been plenty of times where I am turned down for sex and put porn on the tv and surrond sound right in front of her and start tugging away on the couch. She gets furious and will then have sex...

[austinite]

Oral sex is illegal in Texas. We do it anyway. We are outlaws.

[noon]

Yes to all the above
Had them all the time before we were married now I practically have to beg and I'm not doing that. I told her a year ago that sex is a large pert of our relationship then we got married and pulled the best part of it off the table. And I don't like where were headed because I'm bored in the bed room.

[Rwy]

I mean realistically men are not meant to be with the same chick. We arent built that way. So I am sure shit has to get pretty crazy in the bedroom 10,20, 30 years down the line to keep things from getting stale or you go some where else. HUge reason so many people get divorced after the kids move on

[Hazard]

There have been plenty of times where I am turned down for sex and put porn on the tv and surrond sound right in front of her and start tugging away on the couch. She gets furious and will then have sex...

Lmfao! Fvcking win haha

The few instances she has denied me I got up right after and went to the bathroom. Came back to bed and said "now I can sleep"

Never got a response but the next day she fvcked like an animal

[Rwy]

Lmfao! Fvcking win haha

The few instances she has denied me I got up right after and went to the bathroom. Came back to bed and said "now I can sleep"

Never got a response but the next day she fvcked like an animal

Ha you are polite about it. Give it a couple more years and you will do it when she is next to you in bed. I am ****ed up. I will put on girls with huge tits since my girl is tiny in that department.

[lovbyts]

To all the guys who cant finish getting oral try letting her use her teeth just a little... yeah seriously. My 2nd wife said she was afraid to try with me because she had been told she was not good because she scrapped just a little. That's perfect for me and yes when I take a long time to finish I am a little sore/raw the next day. LoL

Some good deep throat action might be nice but I uave never had anyone who could 100%. Close but no cigar. It also helps to grab the head and be in control of the rhythm and speed.

Ok I need to go visit the wife...

[Hazard]

Ha you are polite about it. Give it a couple more years and you will do it when she is next to you in bed. I am ****ed up. I will put on girls with huge tits since my girl is tiny in that department.

Lol my girl has a donk for an ass so I'd put on a porn featuring huge asses and anal and she'd blow an o-ring

[kelkel]

Stand next to divorce papers, get a hard on, and say "make your choice".

That's brilliant. I may try it.