How important is oral sex in your relationship? serious

[capetown]

I'm loving my marriage right now. Oral is almost a guarantee with sex and she enjoys giving (or acts like it). If your not sexually compatible then the relationship is very likely to fail!

Dead on. I like everyone else has or had issues in my marriage but I am thankful that I have a wife that enjoys spoiling me with BJs. After reading all these posts im going to have flowers waiting for her after work. BJ flowers. Thats what I am putting on the card too.

[Igifuno]

Pretty important to both the wife and I. We both love it and it's a regular thing

[Shol'va]

Well I'm not going to say that oral sex is important in my relationship. So I will just say that no oral sex, no relationship.

[Igifuno]

Well I'm not going to say that oral sex is important in my relationship. So I will just say that no oral sex, no relationship.

Know oral sex, know relationship.
No oral sex, no relationship.

Bumper sticker millions!!??

[Hazard]

Know oral sex, know relationship.
No oral sex, no relationship.

Bumper sticker millions!!??

Gold!

Fvcking win lol

[GettingReal]

Receiving oral sex only works on me if the giver enjoys it (or at least fools me into thinking she does). Once I know they don't (like my wife), it doesn't matter how long they go. I still enjoy it a lot, just probably won't finish that way.

With that being said, I get maybe 5, 30-45 second sessions a year.

Yep in the same boat here. It's been brought up plenty, but it isn't enjoyable if she is really hesitant, we went through a big ordeal a while back and sex life got a lot better for a long time, but getting a bit more stale for a while now. Got about a minute or so the other day, but that's many months with nothing. I always pictured married life you could just be sitting on the couch and casually get a bj. But we did have a talk about how we need to fill each others needs and all that, she just has issues with this one.

[RaginCajun]

Here is my theory and you all are welcome!

I have been asking women if they were thumb suckers when they were younger. Every one that was a thumb sucker back in their younger years, loves to give oral!

I take payments over the phone and by paypal!

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Here is my theory and you all are welcome!

I have been asking women if they were thumb suckers when they were younger. Every one that was a thumb sucker back in their younger years, loves to give oral!

I take payments over the phone and by paypal!

how does this help people who are already married?? (if they plan on cheating they should make sure they were thumb suckers first??)

[RaginCajun]

how does this help people who are already married?? (if they plan on cheating they should make sure they were thumb suckers first??)

time to give up half of what one owns (divorce) to find a thumb sucker!

[bikeral]

Another hilarious thread.

My take on BJ's

Whenever a woman tell me she loves me my answer is "Nothing says I Love You like a blowjob in the morning"

[Black]

Another hilarious thread.

My take on BJ's

Whenever a woman tell me she loves me my answer is "Nothing says I Love You like a blowjob in the morning"

What does a blowjob after 45 minutes of HIIT cardio say?

[Hazard]

What does a blowjob after 45 minutes of HIIT cardio say?

No shower first?

[noon]

[bikeral]

What does a blowjob after 45 minutes of HIIT cardio say?

Have not been doing much HIIT lately but I guess that qualifies for I Love You. Any BJ is better then hearing it.

I just like to wake up to a BJ.

[RaginCajun]

Have not been doing much HIIT lately but I guess that qualifies for I Love You. Any BJ is better then hearing it. I just like to wake up to a BJ.

You need a smoothie!

[bikeral]

You need a smoothie!

My mistress does not say I love you much any more

[Black]

No shower first?

I couldn't imagine a woman who would do that without money involved.

If a wife/partner us willing to do that, it means more than love. It means they need to be taught a serious lesson about fungus.

[Black]

Have not been doing much HIIT lately but I guess that qualifies for I Love You. Any BJ is better then hearing it.

I just like to wake up to a BJ.

I didn't know if that meant they REALLY fvcking love you...

Or they are REALLY into some nasty sh!t!

[Lunk1]

yes my wife complains about me not being romantic at all. she says the only things i care about are: sex, food, sleep... pretty much in that order LOL..

[RaginCajun]

Have not been doing much HIIT lately but I guess that qualifies for I Love You. Any BJ is better then hearing it. I just like to wake up to a BJ.

Smoothie must really love me, woke me up 5 times!

[GirlyGymRat]

This is one of the biggest fights without question sexually with my wife. She isn't a fan of giving oral but of course a fan of receiving. Before we were married I got it all the time but once we were married they pretty much stopped. I'm lucky if I get 10 minutes worth PER YEAR and it's not cutting it. I'm trying to build a case of how important it is with regards to a healthy relationship. Been having marriage issues for the past year or so and we're trying to put everything on the table so every serious response is very appreciated.

From a gals perspective, for what it's worth.

Few females orgasm with vaginal penetration. So even tho its the opening to procreate, clitoral stimulation is where it's happening. Different for guys.

I consider oral more intimate then other options and the most hazardous (to nose/mouth). Also size comes into play. Baby carrots r not the reference. Lastly few women squirt. All men do so there's the element of surprise.

If you r having relationship issues, I would imagine oral and anal are off the menu. It's healthy to talk about the relationship, Ideally discussing regularly and before they become problems. Other members site oral as a warmup. Perhaps this option is still on the menu as u both work thru relationship issues.

[BG]

If your having issues with the sexual part of a relationship buy one of the plug in back massagers for her, my wife loves hers. Talk about clit stimulation.

[GirlyGymRat]

If your having issues with the sexual part of a relationship buy one of the plug in back massagers for her, my wife loves hers. Talk about clit stimulation.

BG brings up another good point. It's important to not let your relationship get stale, so protect against it. She may be uncomfortable doing certain acts depending on the environment she was raised, culture and her own confidence. Work on that together. Men being visual creatures enjoy the view so make the view beautiful and interesting.

Experiment but don't judge. If its not working for her or you, gently discuss how can be more pleasing for both.

[NaturalUN]

BJ's are amazing, I haven't had one for hmm... At least 7 months. Come to think of it that was the last time I didn't mention I was about to cum

[Docd187123]

I guess I'll be the first to say it here lol....BJ's are whatever to me. I'd rather eat her out than get one if I had to choose and if she don't offer it to me I don't care enough to ask. A good cunnilungus session followed by sex or anal is all that I want. I almost never finish from a bj which maybe why I feel this way but I also get most of my pleasure from pleasuring her.

[Bert]

I guess I'll be the first to say it here lol....BJ's are whatever to me. I'd rather eat her out than get one if I had to choose and if she don't offer it to me I don't care enough to ask. A good cunnilungus session followed by sex or anal is all that I want. I almost never finish from a bj which maybe why I feel this way but I also get most of my pleasure from pleasuring her.

You havnt had a good one, obviously.

[lovbyts]

I guess I'll be the first to say it here lol....BJ's are whatever to me. I'd rather eat her out than get one if I had to choose and if she don't offer it to me I don't care enough to ask. A good cunnilungus session followed by sex or anal is all that I want. I almost never finish from a bj which maybe why I feel this way but I also get most of my pleasure from pleasuring her.

You havnt had a good one, obviously.

I have always considered myself a giver also and really like to please but as I get older I am leaning more towards being a little selfish and wanting to be pleased. If I had to choose between getting or giving I would defiantly choose get.

[Docd187123]

I have always considered myself a giver also and really like to please but as I get older I am leaning more towards being a little selfish and wanting to be pleased. If I had to choose between getting or giving I would defiantly choose get.

I guess I'm still a young'in lol

[Bert]

I guess I'll be the first to say it here lol....BJ's are whatever to me. I'd rather eat her out than get one if I had to choose and if she don't offer it to me I don't care enough to ask. A good cunnilungus session followed by sex or anal is all that I want. I almost never finish from a bj which maybe why I feel this way but I also get most of my pleasure from pleasuring her.

To be truthful, I do get off on making my girl get off. Once my job's done, I love, love, love to lay back and get some good two handed peppershaker head.

[Docd187123]

To be truthful, I do get off on making my girl get off. Once my job's done, I love, love, love to lay back and get some good two handed peppershaker head.

LMFAO! Two-handed pepper shaker head hahaha. That's going in my vocabulary as of today. Same here and I don't mean I'm against getting head or don't like it, far from it, but I get enough satisfaction from making my girl get off that I don't care much if I don't get it. Lucky I normally don't have to make that choice but one ex only used to give it to me twice a year: on my bday and Jesus' bday. Unfortunately for me the two days are about a month apart

[Hazard]

To be truthful, I do get off on making my girl get off. Once my job's done, I love, love, love to lay back and get some good two handed peppershaker head.

Lmfao! Amen to that

[RaginCajun]

To be truthful, I do get off on making my girl get off. Once my job's done, I love, love, love to lay back and get some good two handed peppershaker head.

Hahaha, I'm using that one!

[BG]

Make you girlfriend/wife happy again. If she's happy, you will be happy. Just try, order one dont let her know, ask her just try it once, TRUST ME !!!

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[Cuz]

As a matter of fact..... I may request one tonight. I'm goin for the trifecta....

BJ to vag to ass for the finish

There's no other way. If they don't do it. ..see ya lol

[kelkel]

Perhaps this option is still on the menu

There's a menu?

[BG]

I go straight to the dessert........

[Hazard]

I go straight to the dessert........

Chocolate cream pie?

[tarmyg]

Smoke 'em if You Got 'em

~T

[BG]

Chocolate cream pie?

Sometimes I go for the chocolate sometimes for the strawberry.......

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I know all who commented are in no way big enuff for 2 hands and a mouth to all fit at once on the ole johnson.. lets keep it real here people..