How important is oral sex in your relationship? serious

[Rwy]

To all the guys who cant finish getting oral try letting her use her teeth just a little... yeah seriously. My 2nd wife said she was afraid to try with me because she had been told she was not good because she scrapped just a little. That's perfect for me and yes when I take a long time to finish I am a little sore/raw the next day. LoL

Some good deep throat action might be nice but I uave never had anyone who could 100%. Close but no cigar. It also helps to grab the head and be in control of the rhythm and speed.

Ok I need to go visit the wife...

Teeth, lube, rubbing of the balls both soft and furious, finger in my ass nothing helps. At then end of the day I think the Dr who shaped me up down there when I was a baby cut too much

[kelkel]

Ps. Im lookn to get a bj tonite!

As a matter of fact..... I may request one tonight.

Maybe you two should exchange numbers......

[Rwy]

Lol my girl has a donk for an ass so I'd put on a porn featuring huge asses and anal and she'd blow an o-ring

Haaaaa, gotta do it!!! I am currently trying to talk my fiancee about milking my prostate. Slowly but surely its heading in the right direction.

[probuild42]

^bahahahahaha^

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Maybe you two should exchange numbers......

too late, i just finished getting mine! now time for dinner and the couch! i win!

[Hazard]

Haaaaa, gotta do it!!! I am currently trying to talk my fiancee about milking my prostate. Slowly but surely its heading in the right direction.

Lmfao idunno...... I just can't bring myself to let her do that. Not that she would...... But I don't even let those freaky club girls who just want to get fvcked touch my asshole. It's just a nono zone

[Hazard]

too late, i just finished getting mine! now time for dinner and the couch! i win!

I gotta wait for my girl to come home from a bridal shower before I can submit the request form for the BJ. Hopefully human resources approves it

[PistolPete33]

Next time I get turned down I'm just going to get up and go to a strip club. That will piss her off.

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Lmfao idunno...... I just can't bring myself to let her do that. Not that she would...... But I don't even let those freaky club girls who just want to get fvcked touch my asshole. It's just a nono zone

what if u had one who said she already knew how to do it and she could make u cum harder than u ever thought about cumming and longer too all the while she was giving you head... im gonna go out on a limb and guess ud go with it.. LOL (just like me or any other guy.. )

[Hazard]

Next time I get turned down I'm just going to get up and go to a strip club. That will piss her off.

Buy one of those fleshlights..... Then ask her. When she says no..... Use it infront of her lol.

[Hazard]

what if u had one who said she already knew how to do it and she could make u cum harder than u ever thought about cumming and longer too all the while she was giving you head... im gonna go out on a limb and guess ud go with it.. LOL (just like me or any other guy.. )

Yea but that'd mean she had her fingers up another guys ass to learn how to doit..... No bueno

[probuild42]

I gotta wait for my girl to come home from a bridal shower before I can submit the request form for the BJ. Hopefully human resources approves it

Sorry bro, but I dont think its going to happen. If shes coming from a bridal shower. Only 2 things are going to be on her mind marriage and having kids. Unless they were drinking, then you might get lucky. Either way watch out for the emotional roller coaster!!

[Hoggage_54]

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Yea but that'd mean she had her fingers up another guys ass to learn how to doit..... No bueno

lol... i dont believe u... lets face it, shes more than likely had another guys cock in her mouth and vag too so whats the diff?? u draw the line on where she puts her finger??

[Hazard]

lol... i dont believe u... lets face it, shes more than likely had another guys cock in her mouth and vag too so whats the diff?? u draw the line on where she puts her finger??

Fvckin a I hate u..... I try not to think about that shit lol

[DSM4Life]

No issues here. I give it twice a week.

[Hazard]

No issues here. I give it twice a week.

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what if u had one who said she already knew how to do it and she could make u cum harder than u ever thought about cumming and longer too all the while she was giving you head... im gonna go out on a limb and guess ud go with it.. LOL (just like me or any other guy.. )

Fvckin a I hate u..... I try not to think about that shit lol

LOL well we were speaking hypothetically.. hence the "what if" LOL..

[DAAS]

I agree. A meaningful BJ says "I love you" more than anything else. Anal sex usually say "I'm scared you are going to leave me."

Outside of sex, our relationship is the best its ever been. However, we're more friends now than anything. Which is good and bad.

so true

[Lunk1]

I'm loving my marriage right now. Oral is almost a guarantee with sex and she enjoys giving (or acts like it). If your not sexually compatible then the relationship is very likely to fail!

[kronik420]

where's my notepad...

[Bert]

My girl does and occasionally I do too.

[lovbyts]

Lmfao idunno...... I just can't bring myself to let her do that. Not that she would...... But I don't even let those freaky club girls who just want to get fvcked touch my asshole. It's just a nono zone

I couldn't agree more. Although I like giving a little finger or sometimes rim action it doesn't go both ways. It's bad enough you have to let a doctor do it every few years. lol

Dont be afraid of the light teeth play if you cant normally get off that way or at least teach her to use her hands also to add some friction. Dont be afraid of braces either. At worst if she does a good job she may get a few hairs stuck in them. That wont be an issue if you keep a good trim. lol

Braces can add a bit to the imagination. My last few have had them. I'm ready to get my wife braces again.

[Euroholic]

Does the USA have marital rape laws? It was not even a crime here till the 1990's. how crazy is that ay.

[John Andrew]

Listen to me bitch, God gave me this as the only way to stop you talking! Now get down there and shut up!

I find that to be one of the less romantic ways to make a suggestion, Generally I just move her hand and she knows what I want.

We talk about sex and both enjoy everything we do. It's not easy to find complete sexual compatibility, and it very important to discuss this before marriage. Remember the old joke? Why do brides wear gloves? They may have to touch the beastly thing!

Some people are bought up to be prudes, some just are.

I heard about the ultimate sexual pleasure from a bushie mate of mine in Oz. Reckons he was pumping away on his missus and felt the dog licking his balls! He said it was the ultimate orgasm!!

Good luck,

John

[PistolPete33]

The funny part is before I got married a friend told me to put a penny in a jar for every bj I got on my honeymoon. Then, take a penny out of this jar for every BJ I got after the honeymoon and I would never empty the jar no matter how long I was married. I didn't actually think this was going to be reality.

[ironbeck]

Wow listening to you guys, I'm the man. I've been with my wife 6 yrs and also get head before sex(ALWAYS). I love to get head, but prefer the hot box, not a fan of anal. I use to give her oral more often, but don't' anymore. Actually she will give me head any time I tell her to, and almost anywhere! I initiate about 90% of the time, but in 6 years, I have only been denied twice lol. I even have a "special stool" next to the bed that I can put one leg on and one leg on the bed to receive head( I like to stand) she can use a bullet vibrator and will cum while blowing me before we even have intercourse ;-)

[lovbyts]

Wow listening to you guys, I'm the man. I've been with my wife 6 yrs and also get head before sex(ALWAYS). I love to get head, but prefer the hot box, not a fan of anal. I use to give her oral more often, but don't' anymore. Actually she will give me head any time I tell her to, and almost anywhere! I initiate about 90% of the time, but in 6 years, I have only been denied twice lol. I even have a "special stool" next to the bed that I can put one leg on and one leg on the bed to receive head( I like to stand) she can use a bullet vibrator and will cum while blowing me before we even have intercourse ;-)

I dont get it either. I know several people like that also that as soon as they got married oral and most all the sex stopped. If I was denied like that I would have no bones about finding it elsewhere and I would not try to hid it either but luckily that has never been an issue.

To me if a woman stops doing that once she gets married then it's all a scam anyways so no reason to stay with her. If it's a mutual thing where neither want sex then fine but also it should be all up front.

[DSM4Life]

Lmfao idunno...... I just can't bring myself to let her do that. Not that she would...... But I don't even let those freaky club girls who just want to get fvcked touch my asshole. It's just a nono zone

Never had a BJ with a finger half way up your ass? Man your missing out.

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[theseus]

BJ everytime and definitely!

Sometimes I think I am too easily pleased. BJ solves all my bad mood...everytime!

[Black]

Do any of your wives/girlfriends/partners complain of not being romanced as an issue? I get that sh!t sometimes, which is crap because I do get romantic. But I'm not gonna do it all the time. Sometimes (more than others) some suprise, spontaneously, no-love-involved, straight-up porn fvcking is nice.

This thread has made me realize this big fvcking elephant in the room.

[lovbyts]

Do any of your wives/girlfriends/partners complain of not being romanced as an issue? I get that sh!t sometimes, which is crap because I do get romantic. But I'm not gonna do it all the time. Sometimes (more than others) some suprise, spontaneously, no-love-involved, straight-up porn fvcking is nice.

This thread has made me realize this big fvcking elephant in the room.

No, I have heard it in the past with the 2nd wife off and on but she was an attention whore. Every woman likes to be romanced but they have to learn to give and take but far to many only know how to take and the more you give the more they want.

One thing that has always worked in my advantage is I never ask or beg for sex or bj. I turn down sex every once in a while and it makes them want it more thinking there is something wrong with them but either way they dont ever say no, or at least they have not with me.

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Do any of your wives/girlfriends/partners complain of not being romanced as an issue? I get that sh!t sometimes, which is crap because I do get romantic. But I'm not gonna do it all the time. Sometimes (more than others) some suprise, spontaneously, no-love-involved, straight-up porn fvcking is nice.

This thread has made me realize this big fvcking elephant in the room.

yes my wife complains about me not being romantic at all. she says the only things i care about are: sex, food, sleep... pretty much in that order LOL..

[lovbyts]

yes my wife complains about me not being romantic at all. she says the only things i care about are: sex, food, sleep... pretty much in that order LOL..

And she is not wrong is she? Just tell her if you didnt care about her then there for sure wouldn't be ANY romance involved. If a guy could have it 100% his way there would be no romance involved.

As you get older your priorities change a little. Sleep, sex and food and sometimes later in life, past 80 it is sleep food and sex.

[Hazard]

Do any of your wives/girlfriends/partners complain of not being romanced as an issue? I get that sh!t sometimes, which is crap because I do get romantic. But I'm not gonna do it all the time. Sometimes (more than others) some suprise, spontaneously, no-love-involved, straight-up porn fvcking is nice.

This thread has made me realize this big fvcking elephant in the room.

I'm lucky in this department. She has mentioned it once in two years but I'm always thinking about her and trying to keep her happy. To her...... Me bringing her flowers once in a while...... Making dinner, buying her a coffee when she hasn't asked all keeps her happy and let's et know I'm thinking about her and I love her. Then when it's bedroom time...... We knock it out like porn stars. She likes to be fvcked...... With a once in a blue moon love making session haha

[Black]

I'm lucky in this department. She has mentioned it once in two years but I'm always thinking about her and trying to keep her happy. To her...... Me bringing her flowers once in a while...... Making dinner, buying her a coffee when she hasn't asked all keeps her happy and let's et know I'm thinking about her and I love her. Then when it's bedroom time...... We knock it out like porn stars. She likes to be fvcked...... With a once in a blue moon love making session haha

I do those things, but I hear more about what I don't do. That's another topic in itself.

My wife sees sex as "making love". I don't know what romance novel she's living in, but there is NOTHING lovely about what I do in the bed. My sex talk was from Ron Jeremy in the movie 'When She Was Bad'.

[Hazard]

I do those things, but I hear more about what I don't do. That's another topic in itself.

My wife sees sex as "making love". I don't know what romance novel she's living in, but there is NOTHING lovely about what I do in the bed. My sex talk was from Ron Jeremy in the movie 'When She Was Bad'.

Lmfao I know what u mean haha

One night make dinner...... Make it a little more special than just any other day. When you go up to bed be the one to initiate and be on top. Hold her tight instead of spreading her legs lol - gently tug and hold onto the back of her hair. Then pin her arms down at the wrists by her head and kiss her lolol

I'm tellin u...... Tht shit gets u anal haha

[BG]

Man do i feel a lot better after reading this thread

Ps. Im lookn to get a bj tonite!

Lmfao I was thinking the same thing!

[songdog]

Well if I don't do it I am forced too And get slapped it I aint doingit right!