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    Getting under your skin

    Why do some people try so hard to get under someone's skin? Would it mean their life is so bad and much worse that they spread that negative horrible energy onto others.

    Why do they try so hard to get under people's skin?

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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    Why do some people try so hard to get under someone's skin? Would it mean their life is so bad and much worse that they spread that negative horrible energy onto others.

    Why do they try so hard to get under people's skin?

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    It is most likely caused by a lack of direction in handling their inadequacies.
    I.e. the antagonizer feels insecure and projects it onto others in unhealthy ways.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    I am sorry, it was only a joke.
    It's fine. This has nothing to do with this place at all

    I'll be going to the gym tonight to hit legs and back anyway so I'll let the demon out. But I wonder
    Why the fuck do they do it

    It's not because they know they can get under your skin. Its that they keep trying
    What do they want to see??

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    Some people are just dicks and douches...
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    Fuck
    I cant wait for the gym tonight
    I need it right now but I have to finish this

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleScience View Post
    So people are just dicks and douches...
    No
    This is something else
    They want to see the old me come out again... like I said yesrs ago
    Once the seventh seal is broken
    The devil comes out and I'll never be the same again

    Fuck I need to go to the gymm....

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    Insecurities lol , fuck em and hit some arms.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    No
    This is something else
    They want to see the old me come out again... like I said yesrs ago
    Once the seventh seal is broken
    The devil comes out and I'll never be the same again

    Fuck I need to go to the gymm....

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    I wonder if this is their way of getting attention from me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleScience View Post
    Mother in law?
    No dont worry about it
    I'll talk to them and find out what they need from me... long story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleScience View Post
    Some people are just dicks and douches...
    What he said

    And people who don't like themselves like to bring others down around them so they don't feel so alone .

    Good people don't bring down people ...

    I come to find that there is always a reason for why someone does what they do , whether it's past related or an issue they choose to not deal with or simply because they suck.

    Understand that it is out of your hands and you can't control that situation , you can only control how you deal with it or don't deal with it . Sometimes it's easier said than done but if you let this person get to you , it only adds more ammo for their already shitty self confidence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    No dont worry about it
    I'll talk to them and find out what they need from me... long story.

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    Hope you get everything worked out. I know this is not the same but there's a guy that works at the same place as me and his intention all the time is to get 2 people pitted against each other and sit back and watch the damage. He loves to stir crap up and for everyone to be mad at each other while wanting everyone to like him. He's a snake and a liar and I can't stand to be around him. People are slowly figuring him out though and he's burning bridges. I have no idea why he does this but he truly enjoys doing it. I'll never understand it and I have no idea why it has taken people so long to figure out what he's doing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrisp83TRT View Post
    What he said

    And people who don't like themselves like to bring others down around them so they don't feel so alone .

    Good people don't bring down people ...

    I come to find that there is always a reason for why someone does what they do , whether it's past related or an issue they choose to not deal with or simply because they suck.

    Understand that it is out of your hands and you can't control that situation , you can only control how you deal with it or don't deal with it . Sometimes it's easier said than done but if you let this person get to you , it only adds more ammo for their already shitty self confidence.

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    I'm not down at all. Infact I just need to talk about this because when I see them face to face i need to understand what's going on with them to act this way towards me. I dont know what it is anymore but I will have to talk to them and i can call one of them right now as I have his number and I'll ask him
    But no. I need to face him and see how he reacts
    I need to know why and what they want out of all of this

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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    I'm not down at all. Infact I just need to talk about this because when I see them face to face i need to understand what's going on with them to act this way towards me. I dont know what it is anymore but I will have to talk to them and i can call one of them right now as I have his number and I'll ask him
    But no. I need to face him and see how he reacts
    I need to know why and what they want out of all of this

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    Just checking... Are you four weeks into a gram of tren ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by KennyJ View Post
    Hope you get everything worked out. I know this is not the same but there's a guy that works at the same place as me and his intention all the time is to get 2 people pitted against each other and sit back and watch the damage. He loves to stir crap up and for everyone to be mad at each other while wanting everyone to like him. He's a snake and a liar and I can't stand to be around him. People are slowly figuring him out though and he's burning bridges. I have no idea why he does this but he truly enjoys doing it. I'll never understand it and I have no idea why it has taken people so long to figure out what he's doing.
    Oh. Well this is interesting one of the guys is like this at work but I don't really care about what he does as I ignore that type of shit

    This is different and it they want to see me well I think its time I grab lunch with them and had a chat. I think this may be my fault in a way but all they have to do is talk about it and I'll understand
    Fuck I need the gym and some tobacco right about now but not yet



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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    Just checking... Are you four weeks into a gram of tren?
    Na. My source hasnt shipped the tren and other shit yet
    I'm waiting....


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    Usually about four weeks into a load of tren ace someone will say "Hey how are you?"

    Then I reply, "WTF DID YOU CALL ME!?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    Usually about four weeks into a load of tren ace someone will say "Hey how are you?"

    Then I reply, "WTF DID YOU CALL ME!?"
    Oh noooo.. that's me every fucking day without tren

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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    Oh noooo.. that's me every fucking day without tren

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    Usually about four weeks into a load of tren ace someone will say "Hey how are you?"

    Then I reply, "WTF DID YOU CALL ME!?"
    Hahaha !!! My vegan meatball almost flew out my mouth reading that

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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    Oh noooo.. that's me every fucking day without tren

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    You need a hug and a cupcake man lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrisp83TRT View Post
    Hahaha !!! My vegan meatball almost flew out my mouth reading that

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    It gets better quick though lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    Oh. Well this is interesting one of the guys is like this at work but I don't really care about what he does as I ignore that type of shit

    This is different and it they want to see me well I think its time I grab lunch with them and had a chat. I think this may be my fault in a way but all they have to do is talk about it and I'll understand
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    When I have a situation like this I'm the same way. I have to talk in person if it's at all possible. Seems you can work something out face to face 100 times quicker. The bad thing about the man that works where I do is I'm in a leadership position with my company and he is in management at the place we are contracted so I can't confront him about anything because it could get our whole group kicked out if I say the wrong thing. He's a liar and a snake and I just have to sit back and watch what he does without being able to confront him. He knows this and it's the same with other contracted groups there. He's an equal opportunity shit starter.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KennyJ View Post
    When I have a situation like this I'm the same way. I have to talk in person if it's at all possible. Seems you can work something out face to face 100 times quicker. The bad thing about the man that works where I do is I'm in a leadership position with my company and he is in management at the place we are contracted so I can't confront him about anything because it could get our whole group kicked out if I say the wrong thing. He's a liar and a snake and I just have to sit back and watch what he does without being able to confront him. He knows this and it's the same with other contracted groups there. He's an equal opportunity shit starter.
    Crazy thing about this Kenny is you can sit back and watch what he is doing crash around him. If people are smart enough they will all see what's going and who knows he be written up or reported for this bullshit behaviour.

    Don't get me wrong , I fuck with my co workers , but I don't bring people to attack one another , that's some baby shit.

    He's probably butt hurt because he has a crush on someone in the office and they don't want his Mirco penis ass


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    Quote Originally Posted by KennyJ View Post
    When I have a situation like this I'm the same way. I have to talk in person if it's at all possible. Seems you can work something out face to face 100 times quicker. The bad thing about the man that works where I do is I'm in a leadership position with my company and he is in management at the place we are contracted so I can't confront him about anything because it could get our whole group kicked out if I say the wrong thing. He's a liar and a snake and I just have to sit back and watch what he does without being able to confront him. He knows this and it's the same with other contracted groups there. He's an equal opportunity shit starter.
    Yeah. I'll see them in a few days
    I may know what it is

    I gotta talk to them to find out what's been going on. This is so fucking stupid for many reasons

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrisp83TRT View Post
    You need a hug and a cupcake man lol

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    Na. This is something else
    I need to know why they're fucking with my head

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    I wonder if this means I'm weak...

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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    I wonder if this means I'm weak...

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    Maybe that's what they want you to think ...

    If there were more to go off of , we all may be able to chime in but i assume you want to keep the details private which is understandable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Obs View Post
    It gets better quick though lol.
    I just noticed your icon .... W..t..f..! Hahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrisp83TRT View Post
    Maybe that's what they want you to think ...

    If there were more to go off of , we all may be able to chime in but i assume you want to keep the details private which is understandable.

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    Na. At this point I dont give a shit
    I'll see them face to face and we'll figure this out

    I believe they're not happy with the way I treat them so this is on me maybe


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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrisp83TRT View Post
    I just noticed your icon .... W..t..f..! Hahaha

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    Yeah but fuck him.
    He knows the gd rules. He wants to be special.
    He is the slowest international source on earth. Fucker makes srhealthtech look like a bullet and I am pretty sure they are still using the pony express for shipping
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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    Na. At this point I dont give a shit
    I'll see them face to face and we'll figure this out

    I believe they're not happy with the way I treat them so this is on me maybe


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    Good luck to you when you face them.

    It's always been my experience that dick-heads like this don't know how to or don't have any desire to discuss. Their M.O. is to disrupt and suck you into an argument, which brings them pleasure. Inherently you feel you are weak & flawed in doing so, which is their objective. Just my 2 cents. Again good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Proximal View Post
    Good luck to you when you face them.

    It's always been my experience that dick-heads like this don't know how to or don't have any desire to discuss. Their M.O. is to disrupt and suck you into an argument, which brings them pleasure. Inherently you feel you are weak & flawed in doing so, which is their objective. Just my 2 cents. Again good luck.
    Well thanks but this is probably on myself as well. I let them get to me before and they could tell I wasn't having any of their shit at one point
    I see this as a non issue now. Just need to talk to them and play their game...shit

    It's on me for letting them get under my skin in the first place. Sometimes I can deal with this better but last night I wasn't having any of it

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    A lot of overly aggressive people are inherently insecure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kelkel View Post
    A lot of overly aggressive people are inherently insecure.
    I seem to have this affect on people sometimes, idk anymore
    I have my own insecurities but i don't really project those onto other people as i internalize it and see what am i doing wrong for myself rather than take it out on others
    It seems like this isn't the first time though, i have noticed others getting insecure around me and i really dont know what it could be
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    I think I understand now
    Everyone wants a piece and this has just given me some positivity in my life. Fuck the haters
    Life is about to get better



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    Quote Originally Posted by kelkel View Post
    A lot of overly aggressive people are inherently insecure.
    If you are going to talk shit on me at least be direct!
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    Quote Originally Posted by EDCG19 View Post
    I seem to have this affect on people sometimes, idk anymore
    I have my own insecurities but i don't really project those onto other people as i internalize it and see what am i doing wrong for myself rather than take it out on others
    It seems like this isn't the first time though, i have noticed others getting insecure around me and i really dont know what it could be
    Either you have to check yourself or think about changing the people you surround yourself with ... Or both .

    Sometimes I think I'm doing right by people or saying good things but if I would to see if from their perspective, it would be totally different.

    Just a thought , either way if theu bring you down , seperate yourself from these people .

    And be the best person you can for you and others

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