Sadly enough you guys are it.

[Josh577]

I live a life of solitude, I work seven days a week no real friend not much family and I never share any thing personal with the people in my life. It’s sad but when shit comes up I talk to you meat heads.
I’m 36 years old. I married a girl 10 year younger thin me, she isn’t my first wife ether. I have a 13 year old now with my first wife, my new wife has never had any children and She wants a baby.

if i don’t give her a baby she is going to leave, I would want her to leave! I don’t want to keep here from having that experience. What do you guys think? I scared to have a baby this late in life. Has any of you had kids late in life? Do you regret it?

[Cuz]

I would have discussed that with her before we got married. “Hey i already had kids im 36 im too old to start over”” and that would be it.

Too late in the game now, its up to her. Does she want to stay with you more than the desire to have children? My answer would probably be she would want kids...good luck bro

[Mooseman33]

only thing I enjoy in life anymore is being with my little 7 year old.

Im 42 so its not to old.

[Chrisp83TRT]

I agree with cuz, it's something that should have been spoken about before. It sucks msb. You're in a tough place
Also you aren't too old to have another kid , my mom.had me in her late 30's .
The question you need to ask yourself is do YOU want another kid? Forgot about your age .

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[MuscleScience]

I’m close to 40 and will be having kids soon. Being mature and knowing him I am is going to be a major benefit to my kids. I remember how my parents tried to figure all that out as they were in their early 20’s when they had me. They had their last kid in their mid 30’s and the parenting style was much different than when they raised me. I think age will only benefit you and your kids more.

[GearHeaded]

dude your only 36 .. what do you mean "this late in life" . your not late for anything.

go read the story of Abraham found in Genesis.. his having a kid "late in life" changed the history of the world. your never too old to get shit done

[TinyNutzzz]

I'm 42 I have a 24 yrs old with a previous Lady and I have a 10yr old,5yr old and a 6 month old today. I was blasting on the last 3 kids so do let anyone tell you that you can't knock her up on AAS either lol. I Love Kids to pieces but my 6month old has put the brakes on the wife and my life. We had it licked Bro 5 yrs down. A 10yr old babysitter and MY COCK FUCKED IT ALL UP... Bro it's all on you. My wife is 11yrs younger then me. I never worried about being to old until having a Baby at 42 Bro. I'm literally gonna be 60 at her HS Graduation. Now that fucking worries me Yooooooooo lol....

I WILL SAY THIS. MY YOUNGER KIDS HAVE A LOT COOLER,LAID BACK AND UNDERSTANDING DAD THEN MY 24YR OLD DID. When you're young Parenting is soooo hard. But with age comes wisdom and knowledge and I believe that's the most beneficial part of having them later in life..

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[Josh577]

That’s what I’m talking about. It was worth it for you

[Obs]

I live a life of solitude, I work seven days a week no real friend not much family and I never share any thing personal with the people in my life. It’s sad but when shit comes up I talk to you meat heads.
I’m 36 years old. I married a girl 10 year younger thin me, she isn’t my first wife ether. I have a 13 year old now with my first wife, my new wife has never had any children and She wants a baby.

if i don’t give her a baby she is going to leave, I would want her to leave! I don’t want to keep here from having that experience. What do you guys think? I scared to have a baby this late in life. Has any of you had kids late in life? Do you regret it?

I have tge same struggle.
I said from day one I will never have another kid.
I guess she thought she could change me.

I don't want her to leave.
I dont want to hold her back.

So its get on board or get off. I am going this way, if you don't want to come I understand. I would miss her like I will miss a lot of things, alone. I have been fked around enough by people though that I can let anyone or thing go and move on without much slipping.

It's a hard decision brother and I wish you luck

[Obs]

Something I see is you most likely had a kid too young and it cut you off from being able to do what you wanted.

I busted my ass for a decade and never saw my twenties because I lived someone elses life for them.
About the time I divorced her I swore I would never do such a thing for anyone again.

You don't want kids she does. You don't live for her and she doesn't live for you. The failure to understend that is the failing of 99% of relationships.
It always entails a dominant controlling party living at the cost of another.

[Josh577]

A lot of you saying that should have been discussed before you were married, It was disgusting, I agreed to do it with circumstances.
I said I would do it if we got to a certain place in our life and it took a lot longer thin I thought! The years has flown bye.
If my wife never gets to be a mother it will absolutely kill her inside but at the same time I know she’s not strong enough to leave me ether. If I keep this from her she’s going to hate my guts later in life when it’s to late for her.
She has been amazing mother to my son i’m just scared

[kelkel]

She has been amazing mother to my son i’m just scared

So why wouldn't it be amazing this time as well?

[Charlie67]

if i don’t give her a baby she is going to leave, I would want her to leave! I don’t want to keep here from having that experience.

I was 33 when I had my first of three daughters, 37 when I had my last, FOR ME, its not "late". But I am in NO WAY telling you its the right thing. It's fine to not want more kids... I don't want more. But be honest with yourself. If you resent her for having "forced" you to have a kid just to make her stay, its a bad deal all around. You won't be happy, and neither will she or the child.

No one listens to this advice, but TALK TO HER! If you can't take her side, or she can't take your side that's your answer.

Best of luck,
C-

[Obs]

dude your only 36 .. what do you mean "this late in life" . your not late for anything.

go read the story of Abraham found in Genesis.. his having a kid "late in life" changed the history of the world. your never too old to get shit done

He also lived to be 175 and God blessded and cursed people according to how they blessed or cursed him. Started the Jewish faith and is revered by muslims, christians, and jews.

He lived two full lives and talked with God on a level that he spared his friend at his request from the destruction of sodom.

His final blessing passing on to his son and his son and his son...

God held to his promises apparently. Of the big three religions all bless abraham. Even the ones that curse Jesus or deny him.

Josh is an ironworker.

Descendant of tubal-cain the seventh generation descendant of Cain himself.

[Josh577]

Pipe fitter baby

[Obs]

Pipe fitter baby

Lol sorry you work metal with fire.
We all know Cain was your dad

[Obs]

They are telling you evil things Josh.
If you don't want kids dont have them.

Can't be what someone else wants.
Who you are shines brighter than anyones wishes for you. Never get pressured into a lifetime commitment.

Yes you are young. That means you have a lot of life left to make your life work for you rather than someone with different ideals of what they want from life.

[Josh577]

you guys watch the news tomorrow you can see me.. lol maybe. I’m the piping General foreman bechtel-great arrow builders at the iso cracker that shall is having built in monaca Pennsylvania.
Biggest job in the world! 10,000 union hands building this thing and The president wants to come have a look for himself tomorrow.

Biggest in the world

[Obs]

you guys watch the news tomorrow you can see me.. lol maybe. I’m the piping General foreman bechtel-great arrow builders at the iso cracker that shall is having built in monaca Pennsylvania.
Biggest job in the world! 10,000 union hands building this thing and The president wants to come have a look for himself tomorrow.

Biggest in the world

Hell yes!
No kids for you!

[kelkel]

If you don't want kids dont have them.

That really does sum it up.

[kelkel]

PS - My mom and dad where 40 and 44 when I was born. They definitely didn't regret the decision to have me (well, by and large anyhow :P )

The jury's still out.

[Josh577]

Yea fck it why not. There’s more of you saying go for thin not. I’ll get some hcg and start giving her the baby gravy

[Obs]

Yea fck it why not. There’s more of you saying go for thin not. I’ll get some hcg and start giving her the baby gravy

Look at what you sick people have done!

This man is a foreman on one of the biggest projects on earth...

"I didn't have kids till I was 103!"


Baaaah...

[Obs]

Yea fck it why not. There’s more of you saying go for thin not. I’ll get some hcg and start giving her the baby gravy

Just a reminder...

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[Josh577]

Just a reminder...

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Shit son unless she is renting it out I could never get that any way

[Obs]

Shit son unless she is renting it out I could never get that any way

Lmao

[i_SLAM_cougars]

I think this is why I like the people on this forum so much. There’s a lot of like mindedness here. There are very few people I can compare to in regular life, and the ones I can are as busy as I am.

Now don’t get me wrong, I can get along with people, but a lot of times it’s fake. We don’t have anything in common, and it simply comes down to the fact that most people are drones. I’m not even sure that they’re conscious beings. They have no fucking drive at al, and I can’t deal with that. And I don’t just mean that their drive is t bodybuilding related, I don’t care what your motivation is. If you’re balls to the wall into racing cars, building motorcycles, off-road, whatever, I can fuck with you.

When you’re existence is just to drone Monday through Thursday at your lackluster job, while you bitch about wanting more, but you’ll never do anything to have it, and your only ambition is to get pig shit drunk on the weekend... we are never going to be friends.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure it’s easier being useless, but I always want more

[< <Samson> >]

Well

If you need to knock her up to keep her & that’s not what you’re looking for - bounce


That simple

[i_SLAM_cougars]

Blow it in her bro. That’s just one more buddy to take care of you when you’re old.

[Josh577]

That’s exactly what I was thinking I’m just going to take her to gravy town

[i_SLAM_cougars]

Shit son unless she is renting it out I could never get that any way

The hot ones are the most insecure. My wife is a prime example. Worst body dysmorphia complex I’ve ever seen in my life. Gains one pound and starts thinking she looks like our neighbor (who is a whale).

Don’t ever sell yourself short guy. Any woman can be smashed.

Now get after it!

[SocioMachiavelli]

36 definitely isn't too old. Was you really going to let your fear be more important than someone you love? (sounds bad when you read that huh?) come on man, lift your skirt up and grab your balls...just do it, you married the girl... So make her happy. I'm sure you'll be more than happy with a little one around.

But if you really don't want to do it, I'm willing to take one for the team...

[Obs]

36 definitely isn't too old. Was you really going to let your fear be more important than someone you love? (sounds bad when you read that huh?) come on man, lift your skirt up and grab your balls...just do it, you married the girl... So make her happy. I'm sure you'll be more than happy with a little one around.

But if you really don't want to do it, I'm willing to take one for the team...

There you go... Let him do it and nail him for support.
Shes happy, your happy...

Think like a business man.

[i_SLAM_cougars]

How’s things coming along with this? Did you impregnate the old girl get? What’re you waiting for?

[Josh577]

I did blast give her the gravy this weekend three times after we had this talk. I’ve been on 250mg of cep a week for like a year with out estrogen blockers or hCG so I’m not shore how thick the gravy is

[i_SLAM_cougars]

I did blast give her the gravy this weekend three times after we had this talk. I’ve been on 250mg of cep a week for like a year with out estrogen blockers or hCG so I’m not shore how thick the gravy is

Thats alright, you just keep putting it in there and sooner or later something will happen. And if not... was it really so terrible

[Josh577]

This is true

[Bonaparte]

The main problem I'm seeing here is that you work 7 days a week. Why?
Working that much is going to make you miserable, no matter what you do or how much money you make.
Your wife is itching for a kid because she's bored and lonely as hell.
If you plan on working this much for very long, then it's best for everyone if you just let her go, because neither of is going to be happy (and your kid would be all screwed up from growing up with an emotionally and physically unavailable father).

[Mooseman33]

maybe get a dog?

[< <Samson> >]

Well, at least you’re able to pay child support