Quote Originally Posted by powerliftmike View Post
My last relationship with my girlfriend went this way.. At first it was sex many times per week, always talked and did cute things together. Man I fell in love. She could be so ****ing cute and sexy. Knew she'd make a good wife and mom. Clean girl, not typical skank I usually roll with lol.

...but yea, the affection from her side just starting dying down. It wasnt like she was seeing another guy either..and I trusted her more than any girl ive been with. Just her feelings went away, I know the stress of her going back to school and her dad being a piece of shit (long story) had alot to do with it but still it was weird. As she lost feelings we werent on the same page and it started minor fights and arguments because of it. I got really hurt and still wish it never happened that way, I really put my heart into that relationship. I knew though she either needed time to miss me and sort things out and we would get back together down the road OR I'd find a girl that would love me the same or more and give me the affection and attention I need.

I say walk away, give her space like I did. Its gonna be hard. Her number is still in my phone and we promised to try to stay great friends forever. We text every few weeks a couple times but that's about it. I'll be there for her always [you said you dont wanna hurt this girl, you dont have to]. but damn do you wanna live the rest of your life like this? I didnt. I need affection and attention, wanna feel loved. Think we all do.
well said...............it is human nature to want to be loved and appreciated. You can't force it and you can't force happiness. All you can do is search and find it. Pit master move on.......it would be the best thing you could do believe me.