The help RuhlFreak55 get laid thread!

[Hackamaniac]

I still think he should go to an asian massuese
I know in Columbia some give happy endings

U think so also?

[perfectbeast2001]

go to the supermarket in a vest and buy loads of good food. Chicks allways strike up convos with me like "ooh you need all that chicken for those big muscles". It is paradise I tell ya.

[SMAN12b]

Adultfriendfinder is a SCAM.....it sux !!!

[rake922]

Legal Brothels in Nevada are open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days of the year. From our past experience, weekends and evenings tend to be busy, mornings a bit slow and in some cases, certain Holidays can be very slow while other Holidays have the houses gearing up for brisk business. Your time with a Lady knows no boundaries.

[Hackamaniac]

Fck all that
that would be too expensive
Just go to the masseuse

[novastepp]

**** IT.

let's buy him some sluts!!!

[RuhlFreak55]

i do not believe i should have to pay for such activities.......

[chest6]

Adultfriendfinder is a SCAM.....it sux !!!

awww really..i was gonna do it one day

[x_moe]

www.facethejury.com is pretty awsome

[Katelette81]

I told ruhl to not always talk about monster trucks and bodybuilding
Than would be a start and act interested in what women
Have to say even if it's the stupidest shit you've ever heard

And what's wrong with Monster trucks and bodybuilding? I don't see a problem talking about that stuff ...

[PROTEINSHAKE]

IM TELLIN YA ONLINEBOOTYCALL DOTCOM he aint got a prayer otherwise...

[Hackamaniac]

And what's wrong with Monster trucks and bodybuilding? I don't see a problem talking about that stuff ...

Most women don't find this stuff appealing!
You are a tomboy remember...

[Katelette81]

BAH...... this thread blows big goat ass.

[Mizfit]

And what's wrong with Monster trucks and bodybuilding? I don't see a problem talking about that stuff ...

sometimes its fine, but all the time no way.. it gets old fast...

U have to have varied interests

[Katelette81]

sometimes its fine, but all the time no way.. it gets old fast...

U have to have varied interests

Clearly all the time would be retarded.... but I don't think this is all he has to talk about.. in fact, I'd be willing to bet it isn't. Trashing someones interests isn't cool either...

[Hackamaniac]

Clearly all the time would be retarded.... but I don't think this is all he has to talk about.. in fact, I'd be willing to bet it isn't. Trashing someones interests isn't cool either...

U are trying to put words in my mouth
I told him to not talk about them all the time
and be interested in what they have to say
Ruhl himself told me himself damn I can't talk about that stuff lol
I like ruhl and was just trying to help him

[RuhlFreak55]

guys don't fight about me.............i do talk about other stuff.....ALOT of other stuff....i think

[Mizfit]

Clearly all the time would be retarded.... but I don't think this is all he has to talk about.. in fact, I'd be willing to bet it isn't. Trashing someones interests isn't cool either...

Hey my bf takes me to those monster truck things and is even brining me to some car show in montreal - it's not an interest of mine but im going..

So i totally understand those things..

I think what Hack is trying to say is that if Ruh never gives the college expeirnce a real chance and tries new things, and varies his scope and interests, he won't be able to succuesfully meet anyone

[Katelette81]

I wasn't putting words in your mouth..... I was just sayin is all....

[Mizfit]

guys don't fight about me.............i do talk about other stuff.....ALOT of other stuff....i think

what r your other interests?

What do you talk about with women?

[RuhlFreak55]

that's the point......don't talk to women.......cept a couple.......and i don't know what my other interests are.......kinda angry right now, can't think straight

[Snrf]

adult friend finder is definitely a scam, i signed up and i found some cute girls in my town, then found some cute girls in a nearby town, and another nearby town. then realized most of them were same girls. bastards

my mom found my old history teacher on it though, i IM'd it to one guy, within minutes I'd been IM'd it back 20 times, shit went round the whole school, he walked in on monday to find his profile pasted all over the walls of his class and shit. it was funny cuz he was an alcoholic and always stunk of alcohol and he put under "drinks: occasionally"

[Foskamink]

im still here but i go shower first and ill help u to success im the master ask arround

[elite2kr]

Dammit i was going to try a site like adultfreindfiender if i heard good results.

[Hackamaniac]

that's the point......don't talk to women.......cept a couple.......and i don't know what my other interests are.......kinda angry right now, can't think straight

I hope you know I was not talking bad about you
Only stating what we talked about
I say just be yourself and let things happen
And in this day of std's it's not a bad thing being a virgin my friend

[Bojangles69]

Adultfriendfinder is a SCAM.....it sux !!!

Yep indeed it is.
Ill give you tip how to know.
ANY place that allows non-paying members to respond to paying members is a scam. On AFF people (more specifically women) are able to respond when they get a certain number of contacts a day. (i forgot the specs) But they basically accrue free message status at which point they spam thier little pay for this "adult club" site or "get id verification here" at which point they gain open access to your credit card, (because very few people read the terms and conditions)

If you want a legit site, hornymatches.com is probaly the only one i know of. You have to PAY to do ANYTHING. Spammers/Scammers dont like this. I joined once, had some success but the whole swingers idea bugged me out, i would have eventually became a lifestlye. I actually like working for the pu-tang now. You feel a lot cleaner and dignified that way.

[Bojangles69]

that's the point......don't talk to women.......cept a couple.......and i don't know what my other interests are.......kinda angry right now, can't think straight

ill tell you how you can expect to get laid with this mentality.. the ups woman. next time she drops a package off at your house ask her if she wants to come in for a drink. (im being sarcastic btw)
but point number 1 is you WONT get laid unless you physically place your body in the presence of woman. Thats basic first fact one.
I school a lot of guys on this shit.
This complete nintendo loving nerd i work with (thats how females perceive him) just pulled his first "date" today. And the girl is pretty good looking too.

You know how he did it? I lectured him for about 10 mins on why the "ego" doesnt exist and how mens egos will literally ruin their sex life.

He kept backwards rationalizing like "well what if she thinks im weird?" or "what if shes gonna say no?" or "what if [insert lame ass worthless excuse here]?"

I simply told him, that might be possible, but you know what else might be possible? What if shes sitting there in grooming (where we work) thinking about how she wishes youd just walk up to her and say something, what if shes thinking that YOU might think shes weird, or that SHE thinks your not interested.
What if shes dying for a male companion, and society has taught her shes a girl so she musnt be aggressive and approach him. What if shes learned its the guys job to approach the girl? (which is the predominant mentality in conventional society)
What if in the last week you walked right by "the one" or your "soul mate" and you thought "wow shes so beautiful.. but shed never like me.." and she thought "awww hes cute, but he prob wont say anything, let me go back to worrying about my science homework due tommorow"
And you 2 could have been 100% compatible. She could have been the one you would have spend the rest of your life with. And you just breezed on by her one day and gave her a little smirk, or those shifty little tense puppy dog eyes.
Like if you looked at her a certain way shed KNOW what you were thinking and would say something to you. Well i have news for you, woman ARENT psychic.
Out of every 10 pretty women you pass a day, chances are at least one of them you could have had some type of spark with. You could have had some of the best memories of your life with her.
A lot of people are sooo concerned about what other people think about them.
The paradox.. if so many people are thinking what other people are thinking about them NOONES really thinking of EACH OTHER. They're thinking what each other thinks about THEM. This will improve your success 500% just realizing that.
So this kid (prob first time hes ever asked a girl out) swallowed his ego, decided he could live if she said no, and that the fact that he was changing and that opening doors in his life was allowing himself more options would SUPERCEDE and weed out any insecurity he had towards rejection.

Men mind f**k the sh** out of themselves when approaching women. Theres natural scientific reasons why. (evolutionary speaking) If you approached the wrong women back in the day you could be killed for it. Thats why sometimes men feel so close to death when approaching woman. Our bodies are designed to trigger that adrenaline for a reason.

We will never close that biological evolution gap but you can think of it this way.

How many people do you know go to work everyday?
How many people do you know have gotten injured at work? (prob a good few)
How many people do you know drive everyday?
How many people do you know have gotten injured driving? (saa)

How many people do you know work out? run? lift weights? do drugs? drink? ..everyday? (or almost ed)
How many of these people do you know have gotten hurt doing this crap? (probaly more than above)


Heres the kicker.
How many guys do you know have gotten injured just approaching a woman?
I dont know ONE.
My whole life ive only seen one deushbag get smacked for grabbing some girls ass.
Than theres idiots who just get involved in bad relationships.
But for *APPROACHING* a woman. I dont know any.

So you do all these things EVERYDAY that are far more dangerous, far more chance of getting injured but you still do them with no real regard for injury. Nothing that will STOP you from doing them.

Only reason why we do all those things is because of "practice".

But your first time driving, working, or doing ANYTHING new will be nervewracking. Than you approach a woman and feel like you wanna die, or like you want to do ANYTHING but say hi to her.

Well to some degree a lot of people will ALWAYS be nervous. A lot of people will ALWAYS get that fight ot flight feeling. Its cool, you prob have some beta male ancestors who didnt have the most valuable dna (perhaps a few who were murdered for approaching the alpha males women, humans lived in tribes like this where the alpha male had access to all the women and if beta males approached them they would be killed or kicked out of the tribe and left to fend for themselves in the wild, a lot of times still = to death). And thier dna remodeled itself to instill fear into its offspring. Because death WAS a real threat eras ago. And your body will not readapt quick enough to compensate.

I dont consider that a theory like other people do. If youve researched all the shit i have on evolution, biology, psychology, and mating youd accept it as a fact.

But point is civilization has devoured that threat. It may still exist to a small degree but nothing like how your body is still responding to it.

Only way you can change your dna or remodel it is by acting out against your fears and not dying. Your dna will change and future carriers or your bloodline will suffer less because of it. Through the course of thousands of years a beta gene can evolve into an alpha gene (this is just my theory, a lot more complex though because you dont just have ONE gene) and your bettering off all your future offspring and ensuring the survival of your bloodline.

Whether or not you think you conciously care about gene preservation, your BODY does.

So get your ass out there now before your rendered affectively steril and cease to spread your bloodline thus provoking its total elimination.


OK maybe a little too much for some people. Just realize EVERYTHING you FEEL THINK or DO probaly has a purpose your not aware or consious of.
What your doing is completely natural for YOU and anyone whos inherited your genes. But if your suffering and not spreading your genes YOU will become extinct in a way.

Swallow you ego. Realize rejection happens to EVERYONE. It says nothing about you as a good or bad person or someone of value or no value.
Its in a way something youve been condemned to by your parents who supported you becoming a computer programmer ( or any of the other lame ass jobs that help flag certain genes, again not saying these people are bad, but woman arent biologically designed to rape a computer programmer lol)
You may not be as well off as certain people, life might not be fair, but this is the best thing in the world. Because if life was fair you could never be better than the next man. Youd have to wait in line for EVERYTHING.

Take your freedom, take the unfairness and use it to your advantage.
But more than ANYTHING.
Forget EVERYTHING i just told you and just get OUT of your comfort zone. Talk to women. Make statements of interest (your sexy, your cute) dont play the friend game if YOU DONT WANT to be friends.
It will be rought at first but through time it will become part of your identity. And NOT talking to women will become the "new akward" for you.

Now go out there and make me proud.

~Bo

[Mizfit]

Make an effort is the gist of it and stop being a complaining pussy

I mean that in a nice way

[Hackamaniac]

Damn,please sum that up for me Bo...HAHA

[Mizfit]

Damn,please sum that up for me Bo...HAHA

mine is a partial sum up - i read the whole thing!

[JohnboyF]

bo knows best..

[SMAN12b]

BO knows Pussy !!!!!

[chest6]

mmm I read that whole thing. That is actually part of my problem. I am becoming better at that myself. I just need to take it a step further i.e. ask what theyre doing this weekend and if they wanna hang out w sum of my friends or sumthing. I know hot girls yes, but I'll just talk to them adn never take it a step farhter..

[dan991]

So... did he get laid yet or is he still padding his post count

[rake922]

BoJangles has some fabulous input.

Practice makes perfect.
If you don't practice you won't see improvement.

[AnabolicAndre]

Ill say it again BO you are the man

[JohnboyF]

Ill say it again BO you are the man

Ditto, really puts time in his posts!

[Bojangles69]

WOW. For some reason i expected a lot of people to argue and disagree with me. But for anyone who got ANYTHING from what i wrote i really hope it can help you improve your life and change the way you interact with people in general. (whether or not you need it)

[chest6]

WOW. For some reason i expected a lot of people to argue and disagree with me. But for anyone who got ANYTHING from what i wrote i really hope it can help you improve your life and change the way you interact with people in general. (whether or not you need it)

A lot of what you wrote is what I need to work on. I am becoming a lot better at it. I find myself talking a lot easier to the girls I am uninterested in (not attractive..or otherwise) and closing up to the girls that are more attractive and being more shy. Im becoming better and like the others have said..you just gotta keep at it. I used to be overly nice to girls and I used to get shot down with that approach so its done with that...which is hard b/c im naturally like that.

GOOoooo ruhhlll

[Bojangles69]

A lot of what you wrote is what I need to work on. I am becoming a lot better at it. I find myself talking a lot easier to the girls I am uninterested in (not attractive..or otherwise) and closing up to the girls that are more attractive and being more shy. Im becoming better and like the others have said..you just gotta keep at it. I used to be overly nice to girls and I used to get shot down with that approach so its done with that...which is hard b/c im naturally like that.

GOOoooo ruhhlll

Thats perfect bro. Just start with baby steps and work your way up. One thing that blew my mind is i use to not talk to woman AT ALL. And i met this guy who is probaly 100x's better with women than i am. (at the time lol)

He said I WAS the male equivalent to a **stuck up bitch**.
And i was like there is NO F**KING way im like that.
But than i started to really think about it.

I ALWAYS ejected from conversations first, I ALWAYS got nervous and would try to act like i was better than the other person, or try to compensate somehow with my body language because my social skills were lacking. (like leaning back, or keeping my head turned away etc.)

And whether or not it was true, i came to see woman really thought i was a f**cking asshole, just because i DIDNT talk to them, or because i was just all aloof and nonchalant (because i thought that was "cool")
It was so easy.
He told me just to act like i would around my niece. Just to learn how to be open around women. And that meant SO MUCH. People really dont understand what it feels like to break out of thier shells. You WILL feel that shit if you do it one day. Its not something you'll have to figure out.
It seriously took me about a year to break out of my shell. And i was so IMPATIENT. Everyday questioning whether or not things were working for me.


Now im not trying to slip into a bio about myself. You said its easy to talk to unattractive women but you still really cant be comfortable around the hotties.
I need to explain one thing to you. Attractive women are a COMPLETELY different breed than "average" women.
And a good friend told me to stop talking to the average ones and to just focus on the really goodlooking ones. The dynamics were TOTALLY different.
I noticed patterns immediately with the real pretty ones. Like there was always this emotional disconnection with them. They rarely laughed at my jokes. And we developed a name for them. the "shine catchers".


Because youll notice these women are ALWAYS chasing the next shiniest thing. At the bars, school, anywhere. If its shiny and bright they will leave what ever they're doing to chase it. (by shiny and bright i dont mean visually, i mean stimulation wise) These women chase stimulation.
The average chicks do it much less.

That why youll be talking to a hotty and she has no problem with turning her head and talking to some random person mid convo. Its rude but it what they do. But one thing i noticed is the good looking women believe it or not are EASIER. Once you get a feel for them.

The average women are just more centered. Less impressionable. Ill admit with the hotties i have a few basic rules in the beginging that work wonders for some reason.
One i never laugh if they try to be funny. Two i never jump through thier hoops without them jumping through mine first. (like asking for a favor etc) Three NEVER make them center of attention. If you want these girls befriend thier friends and ignore them. They are innately spoiled, they are programmed to compete and become center of attention, you NEVER let them win but ALWAYS let them believe theres a chance they can.

Just more than anything with the really goodlooking girls ive noticed they are a lot more gamey at first but once you break through that shield you learn they arent even close to what you built them up in your mind to be. and often times worth absolute shit ime.

ok im tired, gtg to sleep now

~Bo