Accused of steroid use at work.

**Wrath** · 04-19-2006, 08:31 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

The eye seems to be working. Every time I see him or his boys walking down the hall I give them the stink eye and they don't speak.

heeeeeeeeeelllllllll yeahhhhhhhhhhhh budddayy!!! I gave my mother the stink eye over christmas while I was back in DC visiting family and she made comment about me getting to big. She beat the fecal matter outta me. Other than that the death stare hasn't failed me yet.

***Doc.Sust*** · 04-19-2006, 09:45 PM

stink eye, works every time!

**Logan13** · 04-19-2006, 10:01 PM

Originally Posted by gsxxr

accusations

I was trying to spell this ****ing word for 5 min.

spellcheck bro...............

**Logan13** · 04-19-2006, 10:17 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

How would you handle this?

As some of you know I started a new job last week and I work in a corporate environment. Thursday afternoon as I'm walking to my office, I pass the elevator and a guy steps out. As he passes me he says "What's up juice bag."

I was in shock. I stood there, and the only thing that could come out of my mouth is "That was really f ucking nice. I can't believe you just said that." By then he turned the corner and was gone. I kept walking and went back to my office and debated whether to go to his office and say something to him about it. I decided not to. I thought my comment would give him a clue what he said was inappropriate.

Friday morning my manager called me to his office for a meeting. As I'm about to walk in, I look up and I see the guy. He says to me "Good morning juicey" I said back What did you just say? He repeats it. "Good morning juicey." I said back to him VERY SERIOUSLY "Do not EVER... say something like that to me again." and then walked into my manager's office. When I sat down my manager asked me what did he just say to you. I told him nothing. He asked me again 3 times what did he say. I told him nothing, do not worry about it. I'll handle it.

Friday afternoon as I was getting lunch in the cafeteria I see the same guy sitting at a table with some other guys. As I'm stacking a load of food on my tray. One of the guys with him walks up to me, thinks he's being funny and says. "So, how much do steroids go for these days." I said back, "I don't know. But if you say something like that to me again I will report you to HR."

What do you guys think? Monday should I talk to my manager about this? Should I go to HR? I feel by reporting it to my manager and HR it's going to put a spotlight on me and on the subject of me using steroids. I just started this job and I feel being new, I shouldn't make waves but these f uckers are disrespecting me with their comments and I don't like it.

This guy is trying to punk you out because he thinks that he can. I would figure out why he thinks that he can do this first Carlos. Is he higher up than you? If he knows that your gay, he may think that you won't do shit about it. If it were me, I would start asserting some authority around him that demands respect. Telling on him will not help, especially since you are new.
If he does it again, I would get him alone and tell him that you have worked your ass off in the gym to get to where you are today and you do not appreciate him making accusations that disrespect that hard work. If he continues and/or rolls his eyes at what you are saying than I would one-up him and verbally brow beat him into submission. Since he is trying to show dominance, take that away from him.

**ENraged** · 04-20-2006, 02:16 PM

Do they know you are Gay?

**Carlos_E** · 04-20-2006, 02:40 PM

Originally Posted by ENraged

Do they know you are Gay?

No they do not.

**~fuelforfire~** · 04-20-2006, 04:11 PM

why dont they? never brought it? you dont have that gay voice like some gay people do, hey why are there voices like that

**Carlos_E** · 04-20-2006, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by ~fuelforfire~

why dont they? never brought it? you dont have that gay voice like some gay people do, hey why are there voices like that

The subject hasn't come up. I've been here 2 weeks.

No, I don't sound like a fag and not all gay men sound like that. You meet someone who does, you should ask him and not ask me silly questions.

**~fuelforfire~** · 04-20-2006, 05:58 PM

im asking in general why there voices are like that, ive always wondered

**ottomaddox** · 04-20-2006, 06:32 PM

Only the ones from Canada have the high voices.

Originally Posted by ~fuelforfire~

im asking in general why there voices are like that, ive always wondered

**Bojangles69** · 04-20-2006, 08:33 PM

Originally Posted by ~fuelforfire~

im asking in general why there voices are like that, ive always wondered

my cousins gay and hes seems like a real alpha dominant type of guy (in public)
but anytime im over his house and hes with his bf in private the whole swinging limp wrist thing comes out and ill be like.. you really are gay, and then he starts yelling with this gay voice and i run away from him. lol.

**Carlos_E** · 04-20-2006, 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

my cousins gay and hes seems like a real alpha dominant type of guy (in public)
but anytime im over his house and hes with his bf in private the whole swinging limp wrist thing comes out and ill be like.. you really are gay, and then he starts yelling with this gay voice and i run away from him. lol.

Man on the street and a bitch in the bed is what I call em.

**guest589745** · 04-20-2006, 09:19 PM

Originally Posted by ~fuelforfire~

im asking in general why there voices are like that, ive always wondered

Dude, come on. Thats being pretty stereotypical. If he wasnt such a nice guy he'd probly be offended by that kind of question. I know I would.

Why do white folks eat turkey sandwiches?

**chest6** · 04-20-2006, 09:22 PM

I dont eat turkey sandwiches

**guest589745** · 04-20-2006, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by chest6

I dont eat turkey sandwiches

I know, you're black.

**Carlos_E** · 04-20-2006, 09:26 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Why do white folks eat turkey sandwiches?

II eat turkey sandwiches.

The real burning question.

WHY DO WHITE PEOPLE EAT MAYONNAISE!!!

**guest589745** · 04-20-2006, 09:28 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

II eat turkey sandwiches.

The real burning question.

WHY DO WHITE PEOPLE EAT MAYONNAISE!!!

Lol! I hate that shit actually, lol.

Maybe I should've put macaroni and cheese??

**chest6** · 04-20-2006, 09:29 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

II eat turkey sandwiches.

The real burning question.

WHY DO WHITE PEOPLE EAT MAYONNAISE!!!

mmmm this is true..I do eat mayonnaise in my tuna mmm

But its not like I drink it like kool aid

**Carlos_E** · 04-20-2006, 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by Skullsmasher

Lol! I hate that shit actually, lol.

Maybe I should've put macaroni and cheese??

I hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate mayonnaise. I forget the name of the movie but they did a big joke about White people liking mayo.

I was at a restaurant with my ex and I told him Black people don't eat mayo and White people love it. He loves it and didn't believe me. So I first turned to a table full of White people and asked do you eat mayonnaise. They said yes. Then I turned to a table full of Black people and said do you eat mayonnaise? They all said no expect one.

My scientific survey.

**slob** · 04-20-2006, 09:54 PM

professor carlos

**Bojangles69** · 04-20-2006, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

I hate hate hate hate hate hate hate hate mayonnaise. I forget the name of the movie but they did a big joke about White people liking mayo.

I was at a restaurant with my ex and I told him Black people don't eat mayo and White people love it. He loves it and didn't believe me. So I first turned to a table full of White people and asked do you eat mayonnaise. They said yes. Then I turned to a table full of Black people and said do you eat mayonnaise? They all said no expect one.

My scientific survey.

this is something i never realized, but he's right, when i was in jail i cant remeber black people eating mayo at all, it just doesnt ring a bell.

**anaBROLIC** · 04-20-2006, 10:44 PM

nothing like mayo on a good bacon cheeseburger..mmmmm

**chest6** · 04-20-2006, 10:59 PM

no mayo on nuttin but tuna. Did the mayo accuse you of steroid use too?

**squatdaddy** · 04-20-2006, 11:00 PM

wow... the mayo conspiracy... I never knew... damn, learn something new everyday (and I live on the south-side of a city known for gang violence)

**chest6** · 04-20-2006, 11:01 PM

ask the gang members if they like mayo..put them to the test

**Carlos_E** · 04-21-2006, 12:18 AM

Originally Posted by squatdaddy

(and I live on the south-side of a city known for gang violence)

Originally Posted by chest6

ask the gang members if they like mayo..put them to the test

I guess it would depend what what race the gang members are. White Black... both... other.

**chest6** · 04-21-2006, 12:20 AM

I was going more for the.."Do Gang members eat mayo?"

**Rob** · 04-21-2006, 12:20 AM

kill them

**Kale** · 04-21-2006, 12:41 AM

Originally Posted by Billy_Bathgate

hmm..see now i know what a the stink eye is...but i have a feeling our definitions are not the same...i really dont think you showed him your butthole did you?

Its called the "Brown Eye" where I come from

**ENraged** · 04-21-2006, 05:34 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

No they do not.

Only reason i ask is cause they could feel threatened by a buff black guy sweeping the local ladys of there feet and leave them wanting.

also around here there is the old stereotype that gay men take very good care of themselves and work out to stay in tip top shape.
but things are strange here anyways.

maybe letting it "leak out" that your gay will end problems
Good luck hope it works out for ya

***xxx*** · 02-27-2008, 08:22 AM

so carlos, wut happend? any updates

**Football_Bill** · 02-27-2008, 09:09 AM

Originally Posted by ENraged

maybe letting it "leak out" that your gay will end problems
Good luck hope it works out for ya

It is none of their business if he is gay, straight, bi, a juice head. What they are doing is very disrespectful. I think your going about it the right way Carlos, give them the eye is enough for them to know you don't appreciate the comments. Like is always said, A bully is a bully only if he can get a reaction. Same thing applies here, he is a verbal bully and most likely threatened by your good looks and ability to catch all the ladies attention. OR, he is gay and his boyfriend was checking you out.

Too late now, but someone commented on saying you heard them wrong. That would have been a good idea. If you walked into the managers office, he asked what the guy said, and you tell him they called you a douche bag, I am sure he would have received a talking to about being appropriate at work. Good luck!

**smokeyd** · 02-27-2008, 09:59 AM

let the post go to post heaven lol

**xtreme171** · 02-27-2008, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

How would you handle this?

As some of you know I started a new job last week and I work in a corporate environment. Thursday afternoon as I'm walking to my office, I pass the elevator and a guy steps out. As he passes me he says "What's up juice bag."

I was in shock. I stood there, and the only thing that could come out of my mouth is "That was really f ucking nice. I can't believe you just said that." By then he turned the corner and was gone. I kept walking and went back to my office and debated whether to go to his office and say something to him about it. I decided not to. I thought my comment would give him a clue what he said was inappropriate.

Friday morning my manager called me to his office for a meeting. As I'm about to walk in, I look up and I see the guy. He says to me "Good morning juicey" I said back What did you just say? He repeats it. "Good morning juicey." I said back to him VERY SERIOUSLY "Do not EVER... say something like that to me again." and then walked into my manager's office. When I sat down my manager asked me what did he just say to you. I told him nothing. He asked me again 3 times what did he say. I told him nothing, do not worry about it. I'll handle it.

Friday afternoon as I was getting lunch in the cafeteria I see the same guy sitting at a table with some other guys. As I'm stacking a load of food on my tray. One of the guys with him walks up to me, thinks he's being funny and says. "So, how much do steroids go for these days." I said back, "I don't know. But if you say something like that to me again I will report you to HR."

What do you guys think? Monday should I talk to my manager about this? Should I go to HR? I feel by reporting it to my manager and HR it's going to put a spotlight on me and on the subject of me using steroids. I just started this job and I feel being new, I shouldn't make waves but these f uckers are disrespecting me with their comments and I don't like it.

Jealousy Is a terrible thing. My buddy had the same problem at his new job. He just laughed it off and denied everything. Once they all got to know him the always asked for training advice. I would take it as a compliment that you look good enough to be accused of being on juice.

**BITTAPART2** · 02-27-2008, 10:21 AM

LOL, yeah carlos, any updates from 2006 for us?
why did someoene bump this thread?

***xxx*** · 02-27-2008, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by BITTAPART2

LOL, yeah carlos, any updates from 2006 for us?
why did someoene bump this thread?

because there is no conclusion

**StoneGRMI** · 02-27-2008, 11:28 AM

Originally Posted by ***xxx***

because there is no conclusion

After all the harassment Carlos was receiving it finally drove him into a roid rage of all roid rages and then he killed everyone in his office. Carlos now posts on this site from a cave in the mountains of Afghanistan where he has since joined forces with his biological father, Osama Bin Ladin. The End.