Losing my wife

**Dominant Gene** · 12-06-2010, 08:14 PM

haha its no good trying to sound smart stack it, iv said what i had to say and ill leave it at that. and it is i that am calling you a mug tho i do like the added touch of mug full of pee .**** you and goodbye.

**Standby** · 12-06-2010, 08:34 PM

Originally Posted by Dominant Gene

haha its no good trying to sound smart stack it, iv said what i had to say and ill leave it at that. and it is i that am calling you a mug tho i do like the added touch of mug full of pee .**** you and goodbye.

* looks at Cal in aw

**stack_it** · 12-06-2010, 08:41 PM

Originally Posted by Dominant Gene

haha its no good trying to sound smart stack it, iv said what i had to say and ill leave it at that. and it is i that am calling you a mug tho i do like the added touch of mug full of pee .**** you and goodbye.

Atleast you realize that no matter how hard you try you're just not an intelligent person. Admitting you're stupid takes courage.

**calgarian** · 12-06-2010, 09:38 PM

Originally Posted by Standby

* looks at Cal in aw

** Calgarian wonders if there is a new gay guy on this forum cause he said fvck you to "the mug" twice.....

**UberSteroids** · 12-06-2010, 11:15 PM

Well man, I am sorry to hear this story.

You are lucky that you have no kids, I got to tell you that!

Now, whatever she is doing...that is her choice man and obviosly she don't care about what you ask for. Whatever the situation is with work... is no excuse to be hooking up with some other guy. There is no way I would EVER trust her again after this... I am really surprized that you are even playing this game man. Are guys really this weak now days? I almost thought it only happens in the movies and TV shows.

Do you really want to spend your life being a spy on your wife? This is ridiculous.
The guy is a total piece of sh!t on the bottom the society we live in, as most are. As much as he deserves to be physically punished...try not to do it as it can only cause more trouble. Sh!t stinks... this is why you don't touch it.

What you need to do is:

1. Divorce your wife.
2. Tell that other guy that he is a total trash on the bottom of this society. Walk away.
3. Find a woman that cares about you.

This is what I and every man that respects himself would do.

Good luck man!

**UberSteroids** · 12-06-2010, 11:28 PM

Originally Posted by MACHINE5150

if u want to make this work then you need to make her fall in love with you again.. go on vacation.. or do something random.. bring home roses.. get off work early and make her a nice dinner.. etc etc.. women are crazy, but they are easily entertained if you know what buttons to press.. take a tantric sex class together... or do something constructive together.. something that you can bond together doing.. Marriage is not 50/50... it is 100/100 if you want to make it work you need to go the extra mile to break that mundaness of her life.. she is dissapointed with her life or unhappy for one reason or another and as a result is becoming unfaithful.. it is just something new for her entertainment.. i would not say it is too late to save your marriage

HAhahahha! You are a one crazy SOB! As nice as half of this post sounds... it is mostly BS. Are you really saying that because SHE is unhappy and dissapointed for whatever reasons and a result of this is becoming unfaithful ?!?! Holy sh!t...

If you claim that a marriage is 100/100 then why the F does he have to be jumping around and making her happy, especially that he dones't know exactly what HER problem is? Where is her PART?! You know what mature and quality women do when they are unhappy? They tell what the problem is to THEIR husband, not some piece of sh!t from work. They talk about the problems with their man... in order to solve these issues. You pretty much described a 0/100 relationship... where he is at 100% trying and she is at 0% not giving a F and hooking up with trash from work....haahaahha!

With guys giving advices like yours... Men are doomed!

**calgarian** · 12-06-2010, 11:41 PM

wow.......ppl r still chiming in

**stack_it** · 12-06-2010, 11:55 PM

Yeah some people don't pay attention to the dates at all

**calgarian** · 12-07-2010, 12:10 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

Yeah some people don't pay attention to the dates at all

i know...i only pay attention if "my side business" monthly date passed without her start bleeding

**UberSteroids** · 12-07-2010, 12:15 AM

I saw the date... I just could not remain quiet on such obvious topic.

Everytime I read stuff like this... it almost damages my brain.

**calgarian** · 12-07-2010, 12:31 AM

Originally Posted by UberSteroids;5450***

I saw the date... I just could not remain quiet on such obvious topic.

Everytime I read stuff like this... it almost damages my brain.

see thats y i always say...**** and forget and if it is a red head....fvck and run

**BeachBum1378** · 12-07-2010, 09:53 AM

Starting documenting and collecting as much proof of them cheating as you can. If you can hire a PI then do it. While it may be painful, you have to atleast start protecting yourself. The divorce is most likely coming and it's better to be prepared and not need it than to be blindsided too. A friend was in a similar situation but she took his house when they finally split.

**bruary17** · 12-08-2010, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

I baked you a cake

On rare occasions I see things that really make my day better, this was one of those times...lol.

**bruary17** · 12-08-2010, 12:57 PM

where is the OP? and what was the outcome I wonder?

**stack_it** · 12-08-2010, 02:01 PM

He's in prison for murder

**Standby** · 12-08-2010, 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by stack_it

He's in prison for murder

i seen him there

**calgarian** · 12-08-2010, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by Standby

i seen him there

what did u get caught having sex with DSM behind police station

**Standby** · 12-08-2010, 08:10 PM

Originally Posted by calgarian

what did u get caught having sex with DSM behind police station

look at cal trying to hide what me and him were doing by throwing in dsm... sad my friend

**bruary17** · 12-09-2010, 11:53 AM

30 FVCKIN' MINUTES, DG!!!!!! ....made me late for gtl...

Any popcorn left?

**bruary17** · 12-09-2010, 11:57 AM

Originally Posted by stack_it

He's in prison for murder

What?!?!.......................................... ...................awesome!

**stack_it** · 12-09-2010, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by bruary17

30 FVCKIN' MINUTES, DG!!!!!! ....made me late for gtl...

Any popcorn left?

A little but it's stale and standby didn't wash his hands after using the bathroom.

**Bojangles69** · 12-09-2010, 09:34 PM

This thread is possibly the saddest thing I've ever seen in my life. There are guys here with obvious common sense
then there is a whole nother breed of doormats that make me wanna vomit in my own face.

**D3m3nt3d** · 12-10-2010, 07:43 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

This thread is possibly the saddest thing I've ever seen in my life. There are guys here with obvious common sense
then there is a whole nother breed of doormats that make me wanna vomit in my own face.

I remember you giving me good solid advice with an ex several years ago bro. One thing is for sure, I am done being the doormat for any woman.

**BFM** · 06-03-2012, 07:01 PM

Ran into this searching topics... wonder how things went with this guy...

**lovbyts** · 06-03-2012, 10:21 PM

Originally Posted by BFM

Ran into this searching topics... wonder how things went with this guy...

His last post was 04-28-2011. He probably got divorced and like in most cases his wife took him to the cleaners and destroyed his life in one way or another. Hopefully not but??? His profile says Location: In Therapy He has no PM or email status so maybe he is not a member anymore?

**BFM** · 06-04-2012, 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

His last post was 04-28-2011. He probably got divorced and like in most cases his wife took him to the cleaners and destroyed his life in one way or another. Hopefully not but??? His profile says Location: In Therapy He has no PM or email status so maybe he is not a member anymore?

Id be interested to know how things turned out...have a feeling things didnt work out, and he fell into depression...we've all had our hearts ripped out, but dealing with a cheating wife has to be hard.