Ask DSM anything.

[Skyler]

I think its a mental block for some guys.
Asking a girl to do anal is not the same as a girl asking a guy to try anal play.
I mean think about it. A woman's traditional role in sex is to be penetrated. Ofcourse it is vaginal, but sex to a woman is penetration.
For a man, traditional sex means that he is penetrating something.
So where ever different ideas come into play, the tradition "comfort zone" mentally for a woman is to be penetrated vaginally, and for a man the "comfort zone" is to penetrate something.
If you ask a woman to try something new, and try anal, then ofcourse it is different, and it takes time, she may or may not like it, etc, but anal is still a form of penetration, and it is actually very common and socially acceptable these days, so its not a huge leap for a woman to try it.
But for a woman to completely reverse the roles, and say that she wants to penetrate a man....well... think about it. Ofcourse its something new, so he needs to think about it anyway, as anyone does. Now consider that you are asking him to be penetrated. This is completely out of the norm, and even a bit of a problem for a guy to accept mentally. I mean, thats a big deal.
I can only think of how i would react, I mean, I am totally cool with gay guys, I am ok knowing they fvck each other in the ass, etc. Never phases me. I am so comfortable with damn near anything actually, that very few things bother me, and I rarely come accross something I consider "taboo".
Now if I try to put myself in the mind set of actually having something put in my ass.
Fvck no.
Its not a matter of "I need to prove I am straight". Thats not the deal. Its the idea of me being completely vulnerable, and being penetrated at all, let alone by someone who is doing it for sexual reasons.
I just cannot become comfortable with the idea of it.

[Shol'va]

I think its a mental block for some guys.
Asking a girl to do anal is not the same as a girl asking a guy to try anal play.
I mean think about it. A woman's traditional role in sex is to be penetrated. Ofcourse it is vaginal, but sex to a woman is penetration.
For a man, traditional sex means that he is penetrating something.
So where ever different ideas come into play, the tradition "comfort zone" mentally for a woman is to be penetrated vaginally, and for a man the "comfort zone" is to penetrate something.
If you ask a woman to try something new, and try anal, then ofcourse it is different, and it takes time, she may or may not like it, etc, but anal is still a form of penetration, and it is actually very common and socially acceptable these days, so its not a huge leap for a woman to try it.
But for a woman to completely reverse the roles, and say that she wants to penetrate a man....well... think about it. Ofcourse its something new, so he needs to think about it anyway, as anyone does. Now consider that you are asking him to be penetrated. This is completely out of the norm, and even a bit of a problem for a guy to accept mentally. I mean, thats a big deal.
I can only think of how i would react, I mean, I am totally cool with gay guys, I am ok knowing they fvck each other in the ass, etc. Never phases me. I am so comfortable with damn near anything actually, that very few things bother me, and I rarely come accross something I consider "taboo".
Now if I try to put myself in the mind set of actually having something put in my ass.
Fvck no.
Its not a matter of "I need to prove I am straight". Thats not the deal. Its the idea of me being completely vulnerable, and being penetrated at all, let alone by someone who is doing it for sexual reasons.
I just cannot become comfortable with the idea of it.

CHICKEN

[Skyler]

Your face is chicken.....

[DSM4Life]

I think its a mental block for some guys.
Asking a girl to do anal is not the same as a girl asking a guy to try anal play.
I mean think about it. A woman's traditional role in sex is to be penetrated. Ofcourse it is vaginal, but sex to a woman is penetration.
For a man, traditional sex means that he is penetrating something.
So where ever different ideas come into play, the tradition "comfort zone" mentally for a woman is to be penetrated vaginally, and for a man the "comfort zone" is to penetrate something.
If you ask a woman to try something new, and try anal, then ofcourse it is different, and it takes time, she may or may not like it, etc, but anal is still a form of penetration, and it is actually very common and socially acceptable these days, so its not a huge leap for a woman to try it.
But for a woman to completely reverse the roles, and say that she wants to penetrate a man....well... think about it. Ofcourse its something new, so he needs to think about it anyway, as anyone does. Now consider that you are asking him to be penetrated. This is completely out of the norm, and even a bit of a problem for a guy to accept mentally. I mean, thats a big deal.
I can only think of how i would react, I mean, I am totally cool with gay guys, I am ok knowing they fvck each other in the ass, etc. Never phases me. I am so comfortable with damn near anything actually, that very few things bother me, and I rarely come accross something I consider "taboo".
Now if I try to put myself in the mind set of actually having something put in my ass.
Fvck no.
Its not a matter of "I need to prove I am straight". Thats not the deal. Its the idea of me being completely vulnerable, and being penetrated at all, let alone by someone who is doing it for sexual reasons.
I just cannot become comfortable with the idea of it.

[DSM4Life]

chicken

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[Skyler]

Well this makes me feel right at home...
I'm not fat, so all my fat relatives try and make me feel guilty for spending so much time "worrying" about my body.
I'm not a woman, so every woman tries to make me feel like an ignorant piece of shit who couldn't possibly understand the hardships of being a woman, or the true beauty of child birth.
I'm do what feels right and kick the living shit out of trash talkers, and now I am the bad guy because I am a bully
I try to be more mature and not fight, so now I am just some ***** push over
I am older than highschool kids so I am just a lame adult
I am younger than most adults so I am just a stupid kid
I am comfortable with homosexuals and will even joke that i am one just to prove a point, so it must mean that i am secretly gay
I am not comfortable with the idea of having something put in my ass, so now all the gay kids make fun of me

FML

[DSM4Life]

Well this makes me feel right at home...
I'm not fat, so all my fat relatives try and make me feel guilty for spending so much time "worrying" about my body.
I'm not a woman, so every woman tries to make me feel like an ignorant piece of shit who couldn't possibly understand the hardships of being a woman, or the true beauty of child birth.
I'm do what feels right and kick the living shit out of trash talkers, and now I am the bad guy because I am a bully
I try to be more mature and not fight, so now I am just some ***** push over
I am older than highschool kids so I am just a lame adult
I am younger than most adults so I am just a stupid kid
I am comfortable with homosexuals and will even joke that i am one just to prove a point, so it must mean that i am secretly gay
I am not comfortable with the idea of having something put in my ass, so now all the gay kids make fun of me

FML

[Shol'va]

We're laughing with you, not at you.

[DCI]

The Evo 8's, yes.

Terrible EVO get a 6 with a massive turbo on it much more fun or a Starion

[DSM4Life]

Terrible EVO get a 6 with a massive turbo on it much more fun or a Starion

My heart will always be with my 95 eagle talon tsi.

[Shol'va]

[DSM4Life]

Ill have to find pics of mine.

[boss4romdabay]

Delete

[dangerous dan]

DSM..is there any way of making a wma file a mp3 file on a pc?

[DSM4Life]

DSM..is there any way of making a wma file a mp3 file on a pc?

http://www.wma-mp3.org/

[cherrydrpepper]

DSM I like to be hairless (Im metro). I think the hardest spot is the buttcrack for trimming. I use a beard trimmer. Is this what you do or how do you go hairless?

[DSM4Life]

DSM I like to be hairless (Im metro). I think the hardest spot is the buttcrack for trimming. I use a beard trimmer. Is this what you do or how do you go hairless?

I wouldn't use an electric trimmer on my ass. Squat over a mirror and get a reg razor and some shaving cream. Although in your case not going super short with the razor might help fight that itch you get with shaving.

[cherrydrpepper]

I wouldn't use an electric trimmer on my ass. Squat over a mirror and get a reg razor and some shaving cream. Although in your case not going super short with the razor might help fight that itch you get with shaving.

thanks dude

[LGM]

Explain the whole sock color/belt/shoes/accessories fashion thing for me, because I'm at a loss. Start with casual, business casual, and business attire? (please?)

Is David Bromstatd cute to you?

Would you let him redo your place, or would you rather Candace Olsen?

Why do people assume I'm gay because I own a spa?

Is gaydar a real thing? I can easily pick out "the gays" almost 99% of the time; maybe because I have one of each in my family?

[DSM4Life]

Explain the whole sock color/belt/shoes/accessories fashion thing for me, because I'm at a loss. Start with casual, business casual, and business attire? (please?)

Is David Bromstatd cute to you?

Would you let him redo your place, or would you rather Candace Olsen?

Why do people assume I'm gay because I own a spa?

Is gaydar a real thing? I can easily pick out "the gays" almost 99% of the time; maybe because I have one of each in my family?

Spa is gay from the outside but once you get in it's cool.
Gaydar is real, mine goes off everytime knockoutpower post in my thread.

Honestly when it comes to dressing I'm a fricken slob. Well not as bad as most but a few times my boyfriend will look at me and say "were you planning to go out wearing that?" lol.
All I know is belt should always match your shoes.

[cherrydrpepper]

If I can come in for the assist on this one.. this is just my personal experience

You should dress to your strengths. If you are in shape tighter jeans versus looser. If you are really trim, flat stomach etc, white shirts are a must in your arsenal. If you are heavy right now, dark colored shirts are your best friend. Good accessories for a man include at least one watch and one ring. The watch should be large. I prefer a silver or steel colored one; gold looks cheap in my opinion, but to each their own and maybe if you can afford real gold or a higher end brand it goes over well. Mine is a $20 tj maxx special that I get compliments on every week because its just a good looking watch.

Gaydar is real, mine goes off everytime knockoutpower post in my thread.

lol

[LGM]

Spa is gay from the outside but once you get in it's cool.
Gaydar is real, mine goes off everytime knockoutpower post in my thread.

Honestly when it comes to dressing I'm a fricken slob. Well not as bad as most but a few times my boyfriend will look at me and say "were you planning to go out wearing that?" lol.
All I know is belt should always match your shoes.

WTF???

[DSM4Life]

WTF???

What's up ?

[LGM]

You calling me out on something D? I'm confused.

And you completely skipped my Candace Olsen/David Bromstatd question!

[DSM4Life]

You calling me out on something D? I'm confused.

And you completely skipped my Candace Olsen/David Bromstatd question!

I would lean more towards Candace Olsen.

[Shol'va]

Dsm....any sign of Skyler lately? Just got back myself and haven't noticed any postings. Did someone else piss him off? Seems like he was having a bad day the last day I posted. Gonna have to get him some zanax I guess. If I lived closer to him I could help him cut way back on his stress levels with my personal touch.

[DCI]

Should I get something to eat while I'm meant to be cutting weight or should I not bother. Have a craving for food.

[DSM4Life]

Should I get something to eat while I'm meant to be cutting weight or should I not bother. Have a craving for food.

I'd eat.

Dsm....any sign of Skyler lately? Just got back myself and haven't noticed any postings. Did someone else piss him off? Seems like he was having a bad day the last day I posted. Gonna have to get him some zanax I guess. If I lived closer to him I could help him cut way back on his stress levels with my personal touch.

No signs yet.

[Shol'va]

[DSM4Life]

I have to pee.

[DSM4Life]

[cherrydrpepper]

Hey I have another grooming question. Have you ever had your eyebrows waxed? I ran into one of my acquaintances who is gay and he had his eyebrows waxed; it looked good. He make some recommendations for me.

[DSM4Life]

Hey I have another grooming question. Have you ever had your eyebrows waxed? I ran into one of my acquaintances who is gay and he had his eyebrows waxed; it looked good. He make some recommendations for me.

Never had them waxed but the bf has plucked mine before. Just pluck the strays just make sure you don't get out of hand.

[Shol'va]

Never had them waxed but the bf has plucked mine before. Just pluck the strays just make sure you don't get out of hand.

I've plucked a few strays.

[DSM4Life]

[Shol'va]